I met a girl at a friends wedding about a month ago - she seemed really positive and fun and we talked a bit (mostly about her) and i notice she kept sitting next to me, coming outside when I was..etc
She crossed my mind since so I got her number from my friends new wife. When I called I could hear she was driving so I told her I'd call back in 15. I did. she did not answer. I text her to say i dont understand the ignorance but i would take it as she is having a bad day. she text me back that night saying she had a hard day and she would be free next day should i wish to call. I called her at the end of the week because I was busy. No answer. I text her the last time to say I like you so far it would be good if she could call me when she is free. 5 days later she text me apologising for not returning my call as she was busy with work and what have you. told me hey maybe give me a call during the day. looking at current trends i am no fool - she will not answer.
What the hell went on?
2007-03-13 00:59:58 · 13 answers · asked by tripppah 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I understand the girl is poor - so I thought maybe she has no credit on her phone. I told her if she has no credit just prank me and I'd call back, but she text me instead, using my suggestion of no credit on her phone as an excuse?
2007-03-13 01:00:14 · update #1
well from my point of view i think that you should just forget about her. Maybe she was just play around and didn't take you serious and just move because there many girls out there that might like you and not even know it. You seem like a nice guy Well good luck !!!
2007-03-13 01:10:57 · answer #1 · answered by mary d 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
STOP WASTING YOUR TIME! she sounds like shes not interested. If she cant have the decency to call you back then whats the point. I'm assuming she might of got offended when you text her and said don't understand the ignorance. i hate that word. its not that your being ignorant by not answering its simply that maybe she was busy at that moment. but for her not to call back till 5 days later.. that's ignorant. honestly just move on... if she decides to call you then see what happens but don't chase her.
2007-03-13 01:06:00 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
She doesn't sound interested but also doesn't want to be rude! Plus, maybe she's busy! I personally hate to talk on the phone and would rather text people..maybe she's the same way! Maybe she is poor and can't afford it...either way, let it go. Or maybe you could chat online since it would be free..but it sounds like she isn't interested!
2007-03-13 02:14:32 · answer #3 · answered by Siren_Cin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ouch, sounds to me like she's not very interested, but is trying not to hurt your feelings by giving you some feedback, via text. I've found myself doing that before, when the guy was a perfectly nice guy, but I just wasn't interested in him. Sorry, I hate having negative responses.
2007-03-13 01:05:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
well you guys are strangers. just talking a little bit at a friends wedding doesnt make you guys BFF. she might have had the wedding blues at the wedding and enjoyed talking to you. she could still like you too, but might actually be busy ya know. just dont worry about it so much it will work out.
2007-03-13 01:05:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
seems like she's giving you the run around, and that she just dont want to tell you get lost or whatever, id forger her an see if she gets a hold of you at all and if not forget her and move on to someone who will give you there time willingly. goodluck
2007-03-13 01:05:31 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she's not interested, save yourself the heart ache and move on.
Good Luck.
2007-03-13 01:05:33 · answer #7 · answered by eyes_of_iceblue 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like she really just isn't interested. If she was...she would have gotten in touch with you. There are plenty more fish in the sea. Good Luck!!
2007-03-13 01:05:13 · answer #8 · answered by georgia_girl_31 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Who are we kidding here? You don't like this girl; you just don't like being rejected. She's obviously not that interested in you, but if you want to waste your money on her, she nobody's fool either. Your best bet is to move on.
2007-03-13 01:07:05 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like the girl is trying to avoid u. If I were u I would leave her alone b/c its obvious she doesnt want to talk to u and she is acting very childish about the whole situation.
2007-03-13 01:13:23 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋