Ok, so i realise how stupid this sounds but I'd appreciate some empathtic answers.
My boyfriend and I are deeply in love. I am quite a jealous person by nauture and my boyf is not. Though I realise this is a good thing as I know he trusts me, I find this difficult to deal with. I feel like he doesn't really care but he says it's just because he doesn't show it. I am still close with two of my ex-boyfs and enjoy some close male relationships so I appreciate my independence yet I would still feel better if he were at least a little protective. It's a stupid situation as I realise I have the problems but it makes me feel stupid to care. My jealousy is hardly out of control but I do admit it to him in some cases.
Please be nice with your advice -much appreciated. xxx
2007-03-13 01:05:19 · 16 answers · asked by kawaii0fairy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just grow up and handle your relationship in a mature manner before you lose it.
2007-03-13 01:07:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you are jealous enough for the both of you? It sounds to me like the fact that you have a jealous streak kind of gives this guy the confidence to not be jealous. And I realize it may make you feel a little unloved, but the truth is, it is a good and HEALTHY thing. Enjoy your freedom while you can. It may change someday.
2007-03-13 01:09:15 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's just very good at hiding his jealousy and doesn't want to upset the applecart and lose you. Hang in there. He sounds like a good catch. Don't try to make him jealous either or that will hurt you both in the end. Try to understand his friendships with other women too and don't nag him, start understanding you can all be friends, but he's the one you're with most, right? Hope so. Then, you're the one he wants most.
2007-03-13 01:10:22 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
jealousy is part of a relationship...but in some cases,,,, there are really people that doesn't get jealous..they care but they dont show it in a normal way...rather they think of alternatives to show it...having a non-jealous partner, is a good thing but at the same time a bad thing also...but it doesn't mean that if your bf is not jealous he doesn't care about you...just don't do things to make him a jealous one...that you might regret in the end
2007-03-13 01:16:59 · answer #4 · answered by daryl016 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i totally understand where youre coming from. id be a little worried if my guy didnt get jealous if i hung out wtih exes. but you really cant make him turn into a jealous guy and i wouldnt want to try either. just be careful with this because if you wnat him to get jealous you could end up doing something you regret. just realize that your bf is understanding and trusts you..thats a great quality for him to have. as long as he shows you in other ways that he cares about you, i wouldnt worry about it so much. and since youre not out of control with your jealousy you guys should be fine.
2007-03-13 01:10:04 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jealousy is usually caused by the person being insecure. Sounds like your boyfriend is secure in the knowledge that you both are together and does not feel threatened of your behavior.
Congratulations !
2007-03-13 01:16:01 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am the same way. sometimes you just cant help it right? i just learned to realize that if you trust him and he doesn't show you any reason not to trust him then you shouldn't worry. just because he doesn't show you hes jealous doesn't mean he isn't. he may just show it different then you do. if something makes you jealous don't tell him try to talk it out with yourself. step out of the situation and really play it over in your head. if it honestly bothers you enough then talk to him. but remember communication is key and trust is a must!
hope that helps!
2007-03-13 01:10:57 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
at least i can feel and sense your problem
your wish is quite genuine
but instead of having one with jealous nature i wd suugest you to keep the present uy but try to change urself and at the same time start seeking his attention in such matters by posing urself a bit afraid or show some time lack of security
he is lacking fatherly nature may be by this that is awoke
2007-03-13 01:52:48 · answer #8 · answered by Caring 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in my view i desire jealous because of the fact then the guy cares yet additionally far greater than the acceptable jealous isn't good, yet yeah if i replaced into dancing with some guy and replaced into in a dating identity love my guy to be jealous confirmed he cares :)
2016-10-02 01:14:43 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people are just not the jealous 'type'. Don't let this ruin your relationship, it does not mean that he doesn't care about you, it's just the way he is.
2007-03-13 01:12:37 · answer #10 · answered by Jenni 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋