Why do some people consider women in ther 30's to be old and unattractive? I thought this is when we are at our peak and at our sexiest. Not all men but Ive listened to conversations about "I'd never date a 30 year old thats just nasty and there old" I am 34 (just turned) and Ive been told by my fiance and friends I am hotter now then when I actually was in my 20's, I think If a woman takes care of themselves and there appearance we can be just as sexy as the younger girls with alittle more experience. What do some of you guys think of women in there 30"s??
2007-03-13 01:47:53 · 13 answers · asked by lilshedevil 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm a man, I'm 29, and I personally think that women in their 30s are in the peak. But this is me.
2007-03-13 01:51:56 · answer #1 · answered by RareBird 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am a woman also, but thought I might add my opinion anyway. My husband is in the construction trade and is around many men that have this opinion, although quite a few have been attracted to me, especially in my 30's (I am now in my 40's). In my opinion, the guys that have felt that way were uncomfortable with their own aging, even if they weren't that old themselves. That, and they really liked the inexperience (for lack of a better word) in life (not sex necessarily but life in general). They get a feeling of youth and feel that they are guiding or teaching. I like the men that are more comfortable with themselves, because I agree totally that 30's are wonderful years for looking & feeling great! 40's are great too (and I hear 50's are the best)!
2007-03-13 09:22:12 · answer #2 · answered by MrsJ S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on many things. For the most part, 30 is mature. If you like mature women then you'll love 30 yr olds. Since most people like younger=better then Ill say no. Personally it's case by case but for the most part someone who's hot in their 30s was hotter in their 20s.
2007-03-13 08:54:23 · answer #3 · answered by James W 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First a little cold reasoning.
Women's reproductive capacity declines in their thirties. As such, men may instinctively be attracted to women that appear youthful because youth correlates with the ability to reproduce.
Now for some opinion.
Many women remain very attractive in their 30's, it's just that many American people (men and women) tend to let themselves go and get fat by their 30's. Not to mention, many women have already had children by their 30's which tends to change their bodies.
2007-03-13 09:06:47 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I haven't the foggiest idea what you're talking about.
I don't think that age is a great factor of sexy. Certainly, on average, younger women tend to be thinner, but not necessarily healthier (at least to me)
I'm 38, so perhaps it makes me biased. But, some of the sexiest women I know, my wife included, are in their 30's or 40's.
I know a number of younger women who think they're all that, but they're inexperienced in life and while they might be initially nice to look at, there's not a lot there once you scratch the surface.
I suggest that you might be listening to immature dudes.
:-)
2007-03-13 08:55:14 · answer #5 · answered by Joe Bostonian 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why care how they think bout you !, didn't your fiance say you are hotter than as before ? Of course, a young 20yrs guy will see a 30 yrs as OLD, try ask a more mature guy of 40, see what they think bout a 30 yrs old chick.
2007-03-13 09:01:21 · answer #6 · answered by stevlm 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all honey, you won't hit your prime until you are in your 40's... as far as wowmen not being sexy or whatever after they are 30 is a bunch of ****.... a woman does not become a woman until she is at least 30.... before that she is still a stupid little girl with a lot to learn about sex... at least that is my opinion and it hasn't ever changed since i was 18... how old am i now you wonder??? i am 41.... and very experienced... so don't worry about what the boys think.. because men know better.....
2007-03-13 08:57:59 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well my wife will be ahem closer to 40 then 30 and I think she is sexier now then when she was in High School. What you are hearing is just immature guy talk. We do that because we have no idea what else to talk about. Its gibberish sometimes.
2007-03-13 08:53:59 · answer #8 · answered by Devdude 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
who the heck sedd that?
i think thirtie year old chickks are hott. they are certenly more confudent and smartt and donut play stoopid chickk games.
i bett you are real hott. whoever dismiss you for being 34 is missing out (and you aint missin' out on them).
guys who likke yunger chickks are emoshunally retartded, in my opinin.
oh yeah - chickks in there 30s are usuallie hottrer in the sackk, too. take that you dumbb guys
2007-03-13 08:52:37 · answer #9 · answered by Timothy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, im not a guy, but i think you are right on about this . I get more looks now than i did when i was in my 20's.
2007-03-13 08:53:58 · answer #10 · answered by Brat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋