lived with one another for about 2 yrs. during that he went to prision i stuck around & waited. when he returned i told him i got with another out of lonelyness & sadness. i deeply regret it .have since it happend.it dent cure anything just made it worse. when hegot out thing started great i actuly realy feel i love with him. i worried about things he was doing and i voiced my feelings. well it lead to arguements & me feeling unherd and my feeling hurt. i would cry he dident hold me .finally he stoped coming home.he'd tell me every night (almost)that he'd be home so we could talk. no show. her & there he would show & we'd end up in bed. all i wanted is to work out our problems. well its now been 5 months & counting. thing have inproved. but im not sure if im any closer to getting my man back.or am i just a boody call? why/how could any one do that to someone who loves you.when do i finally give up? and let another win my heart.? the thought of being w/another makes me sad. i want him.
2007-03-13 01:37:06 · 6 answers · asked by reggieslife 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you made sacrifices for him when he was in jail and admitted you had found companionship while he was gone, If he can not make sacrifices for you he is greedy,and he will end up hurting you. I would not think twice and live for you find yourself and your happiness.love should not hurt....
2007-03-13 01:53:55 · answer #1 · answered by MJ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know the answer to this question. You are just a booty call to him. If he wanted more, then he would have more and you would be together. You made a mistake of being with someone else and now he will never be able to trust you. on the other hand, he doesn't sound like a great catch. Why don't you find someone who wasn't in prison? I know it's hard to do, but you really need to let him go. If it was meant to be, it will happen. You need to heal your broken heart and then make some goals in your life that don't involve anyone else but you. Take care of yourself and focus on you! If things were great, you wouldn't have cheated. If things were great, he would be with you right now, not just coming around for a booty call. You deserve better!
2007-03-13 08:46:59 · answer #2 · answered by Siren_Cin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's over. Realize that, and move on, and get some kind of help for low self esteem.
2007-03-13 08:41:12 · answer #3 · answered by A Military Veteran 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's poison, honey. Get rid of him as fast as you can. You will get over him if you allow yourself to. I promise!
2007-03-13 08:41:59 · answer #4 · answered by bookfreak2day 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get rid of him. He won't listen to you but he'll come around when he wants "in," he ain't right.
2007-03-13 08:50:30 · answer #5 · answered by Icebox -0: Never Again 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i hate to say it, but it does sound like you are a booty call, otherwise he would be there when he says he will be.
hard as it is, i think it is time for you to move on...time will heal.
good luck
2007-03-13 08:44:34 · answer #6 · answered by Niffer 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋