we are both in college already..so i am suprise this even happens..
this one girl i just made friends with 3 months ago..at first she was okay then she became really attached to me..She will text me over 20 times..in an hour ..and if i don't answer she will call me like 20 times.. but i am in Class so i don't pay attention to my phone..or i am just annoyed and don't want to pick up..then SHe will call my HOUSE and ask my parents where i am at..who am i with..what am i doing..wearing!! it's seriously scaring me..
she Lies alot..to everyone..about everything..even her as little as her own race..making up stories all the time..she will use my Phone and text people with it..pretending its me..
it's pyscho behavior..i never taught people are actually like this!!
i just don't want to be friends with her anymore..but she already hangs out with the group i always hang out with everyday..and she really has no one else..but I just DO not want to have anything to do with her..
2007-03-13 00:20:43 · 7 answers · asked by moonstar 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Sounds like you better follow your instincts on this one. Be careful, and good luck.
2007-03-13 00:24:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, that's a little different. Start by change your number, what ever it cost. either tell her that you no longer have a phone or that you cant afford all the minutes that she as used via text and you changed services and are not giving out your number for that reason. Spend less time with that group or if the group feels the same way, change your routine, stop meeting up at the same place every time. Look around and see if there is someone in need of a new friend and introduce them, making hang out dates for all of you , but don't go, leaving just the two of them.
Or just tell her like it is, She scares the hell out of you.
2007-03-13 00:39:53 · answer #2 · answered by livelovelaugh 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm.. ><" well, u really shudn't be so mean.. I know her behaviour might seem very strange to u.. & by the way u describe it, it is strange..
but look at it this way.. she becomes attached to u probably bcuz she really *really x100* ^^" likes you & gets (or got) along with you very well..
she constantly txts u or calls u bcuz ur always on her mind (& its really hard to get someone outta ur mind when they're always there)
calling ur parents.. (pros: she already knows ur parents =p) (cons: she might have freaked them out..) well, I admit, that's reaching over the limit, but maybe her caring for u is over the limit of "self-control" as well.. (or not.. hehe...)
and as for the lies... well, everyone has an unattractive side to them.. (telling lies cud be one of hers).. and a naughty side too.. txting other ppl with ur phone n all.. (I dun respect ppl like that, cuz I think its wrong..) but maybe she juz wants some attention from u..
many ppl wud not appreciate being called a psycho.. ^^" have u ever thought of juz telling her not to do the things that u don't like? maybe she wud listen.. (more chance of that if u put it in a nice way / say it in a nice tone.. =p)
so, think of this as a chance of helping someone correct themselves.. its like giving advice & since she most probably likes u, then she'd probably listen.. ^-*
& since she already hangs out with ur group, I guess u shud learn how to start accepting her.. (if u need time alone, then do that.. take a break from ur friends..it helps, sometimes...) & it wud be mean to reject someone as a whole group & leave them alone.. (since u said she has no one else & all)
well, I hope u can handle this well.. (& I hope it ends with a positive note.. ^^)
gud luck!!~
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2007-03-13 01:00:07 · answer #3 · answered by Serenity C 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
attempt asking a gal which you recognize a touch if she needs to come again over after college and spot your rings or despite young women do. If he shows out, say, i choose different individuals in my existence, and carry % up or walk away. attempt making new acquaintances, or entering into with a distinctive group. If he would not like it, F*ck him. he's no longer your father/mom. If somebody listens to him, they are not properly worth having as a buddy, attempt giggling it off, or say No remark. faster or later, he gets the hint. you would be able to desire to interrupt this ASAP, because of the fact it sounds boarder line abusive, and the faster you do it the greater effective. Ask some accquaitance in the event that they opt for to bypass to the videos this weekend or walk around downtown or despite, merely tell him you opt for greater acquaintances than merely one. that's quite helpful to proceed being acquaintances with him, do exactly no longer talk in self belief to him something any of your new acquaintances advised you. that's a real buddy. good success :) he's a bully, he gets over it. Ask your mom/dad/brother/sister for help. If he calls have them say your no longer there, or in case you spot that's his extensive form, do no longer continually answer.
2016-10-02 01:14:04 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry buddy. You can't not offend her. Move to a new school, change your number, and get a new social circle. Otherwise you're in for a lifetime of crazy chick messin up your life.
2007-03-13 00:24:13 · answer #5 · answered by Sumguy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be so concerned about hurting people's feelings. She'll either get over it or kill herself. Either way it's of no consequence to you.
2007-03-13 00:45:08 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
well.............umm...it is a really weird behavior but im sure ur exajurating a little....lol.........well umm i think tht u shud jus go to this gurl and tell her ur feelings tell her tht she's scarin u and u cant hang out with her
2007-03-13 00:28:34 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋