So I've been official with the guys for one month, we were dating for about 2 weeks before he asked me out.There's just a list of things I'm kind of weird about;
(1) He hasn't tried to get me into bed at all, but he does get very hard when we make out and fool around
(2) Our first date, he went with me and my gay friend to a gay bar & said he liked it there & offered to go back
(3) He told me that everyone in high school accused him of being gay
(4) He wears hot pink polos
(5) He said he cries during animal cruely commercials
(6) When he tells me some of these things, I'll laugh and he'll go, I swear I'm not gay in a joking way
(7) I stopped things from going to sex once & apologized & he said its ok, I am very attracted to you but I can wait for you
..other than that, he is the sweetest guy ever. We've never faught, he cooks me dinner, helps with my Uni homework, very smart and he can't keep his hands off me. We stay in a lot and watch movies and he's always kissing me & touching me..
2007-03-13 00:20:57 · 22 answers · asked by Fae von Rose 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
p.s. We talk all the time, on msn in the morning when he's at work, on the phone after work and we've been seeing each other a lot 5-6 times a week. It's mainly just us two watching movies together and cuddling. He sleeps over and enjoys cuddling with me and holding me while we sleep.
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p.s.s. He's had two very serious relationships, and lots of other girlfriends. I'm a virgin, but I haven't told him yet, but I think he sense it....and once he had to stop dry humping because he said we'd drive ourselves crazy
2007-03-13 00:22:35 · update #1
He is 26, I am 23
2007-03-13 00:28:00 · update #2
yeah he sounds gay !
2007-03-13 00:23:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
I doubt hes gay, just because he wears pink, and all that stuff, doesnt mean hes gay. Not being gay myself, I do not know for a fact, but I would suspect that a homosexual man would not becom sexually aroused by the intamacy with a female body. And it doesnt matter who has accused him of it, if hes not gay, hes not gay, you two obviouslt have a great relationship, stop looking for reason to disvalidate it.
You should appreciate the fact you have found a guy whos main goal is not in your pants. Your boyfriend sounds like a respectful and caring individual, who obviously cares more for you than he does for getting you in bed, which is a GOOD thing. The gay bar thing, he was probably comfortable there because the guys were gay = guys not trying to hit on you while hes not around. Yeah, I'll admit, the whole crying during animal cruelty commercials, thats kinda panzy, but not gay, some people are more sensitive to certain subjects than others.
I hope this helps and i wish you and your boyfriend the best.
2007-03-13 00:31:28 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie hes not gay hes METRO! which is totally fine. You should be very happy he didnt try to get you in bed. The first month of a relationship really shows a lot. My boyfriend and i waited over a month .You want to be in love you kno what i mean? You dont want to do it in your first week and him bounce out of the relationship. It shows that you both respect each other. Which is great! Second. He went to a gay bar with you and a friend? Thats fab! I have a gay friend who always wants me to go but my boyfriend would never!! Doesnt mean hes gay just because he went with you. It shows that he can be respectful around others and hes not a homofob. which you should be happy about. Some people are cruel about someones sexual preference. The pink polos? well how many times does he wear them a week? is it an every day thing or here and there? My boyfriend looks hott in pink and purple! I bought him a purple dress shirt for work! and WOW!! some guys can totally pull it off. = ) Your very lucky to have what you do hun and dont let it go. Its not like hes hitting on other girls or not calling you or spending time with you. And it doesnt seem that he has hit on a guy or said anything sexual about a male. The onlything thats a little off is that he cries at commercials... just a little over emotional/ sensitive maybe? i wouldnt worrie about it unless it gets unbarable. i mena dont stay in a relationship if you have questions about it or cant stand something about your spouce. It wont work out. but talk about it with him first. its always good to talk....
hope that helped!
2007-03-13 00:28:40 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Obviously nobody can truly answer your question, but from reading it entirely, I would assume he might be gay and is not at all comfortable with it, or he is just a virgin. You don't mention your ages....I'll assume you're both in your teens? Either way, just enjoy the relationship while it lasts, as it seems you are now. The truth will come out eventually :-)
2007-03-13 00:27:09 · answer #4 · answered by lust_for_life1 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It could possibly be that your boyfriend is bisexual which is no big deal and if he doesn't try and get you into bed it might be because doesnt want to rush into things. He might want to sleep with you when the time is right sex isn't a thing you just rush it's all about passion and it's great when you experience don't worry and like things take it's toll
2007-03-13 00:27:51 · answer #5 · answered by Rory F 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he sounds look after in himself, and looks like his mothers and dads somewhat taught him to be a gents. regrettably quite some men think of that being those macho jerks is what women desire, yet being in touch mutually with your thoughts isn't in straight forward terms a girl and gay element, quite some boys purely % in no thank you to be men. oh and the entire international is in comparison to a television coach, a real guy would not desire intercourse after the 2d date. do no longer attempt to speed something alongside to keep a courting. if him staying with you relies upon on how immediately and oftentimes you leap into mattress, he's not into you he's into the intercourse. so seems such as you lucked out. p.s. taking section in going to a club would not make you gay. i understand particularly some immediately people who like gay golf equipment because of the fact generally the ambience is one among attractiveness and expertise.... often. quite some those places are purely regarded at as hook up spots yet quite some them are nightly social accumulating factors for persons who purely desire to permit their shield down and have exciting.
2016-10-18 06:29:41 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think Maybe he really likes you, and thinks you may be the one! The way he acts is he wants to keep you around and that's why he is not being too pushy on the sex issue! About going to a gay bar- (not my thing), or even being around gay guys not my thing.
This is my honest opinion
2007-03-13 01:47:31 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just a guess, but I'd say your little friend is a bit light in the loafers. If he doesn't float a few inches off the ground and act effeminate, I'd be a little surprised to say the least...the stiffness in his pants is just the natural reaction to a friendly touch; he's actually thinking of Brad Pitt when you kiss!
2007-03-13 00:27:32 · answer #8 · answered by wetdreamdiver 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
he doesnt sound gay
hes sounds anderstanding and wants his first time sex with you to be so special
i think yes he know you are virgin and thats why he wants to make it so special for you when you are ready
i think the guy is crazy about you so he wants you to remember your first time 20 years from now and say it was great
as for the gay bar i think he said he liked it because he wanted to make you think he likes everything you like he doesnt seems to have been in one before
i dont think hes gay
2007-03-13 00:31:21 · answer #9 · answered by Roy Keen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think ur good but if you see him walk in a weird way or talking gay than he is official gay
2007-03-13 00:33:58 · answer #10 · answered by T-Money 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's gay, but look on the bright side - you'll have a nice clean home and he'll cook you great meals.
2007-03-13 00:29:30 · answer #11 · answered by Mad Professor 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋