My husband used to accuse that am having boyfriends everytime we had some misunderstandings but he has never heard something from me that i have a boyfriend. Or caught me with aboyfriend what do i do to avoid this? I ve tried several times to be a good wife but it seems like he dont trust me.What do i do so that he can believe me that idont do such things?
2007-03-13 00:21:55 · 10 answers · asked by Beaty Ka 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
continually love him,.......prove that all his accusations were wrong by doing the right thing. serve him, respect him, show kindness and dont get weary, its hard i know , easier said than done, but if you truly love your husband and love your family as a whole, you will do even if it hurts, that is loving sacrificially, more holy, sacred and you've got nothing to loose. its not ur job to change him, you are only doing such things becos its the right thing to do and becos u love him....love can heal all wounds, and what you sow you reap. sow love and you begot love. and when u feel that you've nothing to give at all , and drained yourself of giving love and nothing to get in return, turn to the Author of Love Himself, our God. He is Love. He loves us with an everlasting love.. unfailing, unconditional. try it out and may His grace be upon you...alwasy! smile cos Jesus loves you! :)
2007-03-13 00:34:27 · answer #1 · answered by candee 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
That exactly same with my ex husband, he always think I have an affair. Watch me all the time never trust me, oh I didn't go behind his back. I don't know why he keep do that to me after 2 years marriage I fall pregnant. I couldn't believe he left me for other lady!!!
I don't think your husband will ever believe you for the rest of your marriage. Sorry wish could help and advice...
2007-03-13 00:31:54 · answer #2 · answered by Margaret 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people just lack trust and it is a hard task to change the person. You could try counselling, talking to him- ask him why he doesn't trust you. Is it you or did he have a bad experience in his past relationships? If you haven't done anything wrong then the problem is his and only he can fix it.
2007-03-13 00:34:57 · answer #3 · answered by purpleorca 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
probably he is trying to say that because he is the one cheating
i recomend to check on him
tell him that if he continue with you will over him,,,,,where is your dignity at? a good wife deserve respect,take your position and do not hesitate next time you confront him,be firm in your decisions and let him know that yo are gonna leave him, probably that is what he wants
2007-03-13 00:28:20 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just say the you have a boyfriend so your husband will not accuse you anymore.
2007-03-13 00:27:15 · answer #5 · answered by Engr. Ronald 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go to a counseller. get both of you talking, and try to find out where this mis trust raises from? maybe its him with a guilty secret of his own and he is projecting his own guilt on to you.
but the first step is realising there is a problem between you both, next is to get a good marraige counseller
and good luck
2007-03-13 00:25:05 · answer #6 · answered by Frenchie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Drop him like a hot rock!~!!! He's obviously projecting so you should hire a PI for proof so when you divorce his butt you can take him to the cleaners.
2007-03-13 00:25:52 · answer #7 · answered by Nehru 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
continue doing it as a good wife sooner or later he will find out his wrong.....you guys need to talk as a couple.
2007-03-13 00:26:56 · answer #8 · answered by faith 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to be careful what he says, you have ways to not make a liar out of him.
2007-03-13 00:38:35 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't treat him as if he's the best man on earth, treat him like he's the ONLY living man on earth. natural sweetness counts a lot, trust me.
2007-03-13 00:26:05 · answer #10 · answered by True R 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋