is there a way for me to trust my gf again and am i over reacting... i love this girl but its not enough... i went out with her in the summer..we rushed things...she left me three days later i find shes with another guy. he leaves her, wants me back, but she ditches me the first time she plans to see me on hallowe'en night and skinny dipped and well..oral..i still take her back, but i told her she has to earn my trust before i can be truly happy...i love her, even after everything i can see myself with her forever just shortly after we started dating she liked my two best friends.then two more guys after that and even told them she liked them and talked to all 4 saying she would like to go out with them (basically not straight forward) she told one guy if me n her broke up shed be with him and now shes moving going to the same school as him, and talks to another guy a lot now she says she doesnt like him or any1 else but me now, but im very worried any ideas to get past this? plz Help
2007-03-13 00:19:48 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
also we are eachothers first and only, again i dont want move on as an answer, shes perfect for me, ive never been happier, besides the trust...i love this woman
2007-03-13 00:21:34 · update #1
to the one who said im treating her as a backup...im not...im just starting to prepare myself for the worst.
2007-03-13 00:47:09 · update #2
You seem to be confused .she is obviously a player and from her actions you arent her number one choice but her fall back guy! you know the one who is desparate enough to take her back if it dont work out with the other guys.it just doesnt seem likely that she will ever commit to you for real( that type doesnt) she will always be looking for the next thrill.it,s a type of addiction for her, i would,nt commit much time and effort to this relationship if i were you.
you,re young and the world is full of opportunities for you.
find someone that can really commit to you.you sound like a good kid. just confused.you dont deserve game players in your life.
peace ><>
2007-03-13 00:52:57 · answer #1 · answered by matowakan58 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Set her free, but hold her dear in your heart! Do your own thing for a while and if it was meant to be she will come back and want to only be with you. I realize this sounds like a myth, but it works. You need to show her you are ok with or without her for her to really respect you and want to be with you. Just let her know the door is open when and if she gets done talking to/exploring everyone else.
2007-03-13 01:09:15 · answer #2 · answered by hljones1169 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love yourself first. Don't let her treat you like this. She's a Player. You're better then that. Show her that you don't need her and you will become more attractive to her in the long run. Don't be her doormat any longer. Good Luck.
2007-03-13 00:25:49 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should move on. She's treating you as a backup....and to be frank I think you are doing the same to her because you mentioned that "love this girl but its not enough".
You already know the answer to your own question...don't you...
2007-03-13 00:38:07 · answer #4 · answered by monique8p 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have some self respect and get out of there.
2007-03-13 00:25:31 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋