Family & Relationships - 12 March 2007

I would like to know these things please cause i have really messed up in life and i would like to know how to make your love one trust you again(partner)

2007-03-12 21:01:43 · 22 answers · asked by jamaican_4ever 1 in Singles & Dating

My husband and I love each other very much and we've always had a good relationship, but lately he just doesn't want to touch me. Why? He moans and complains about it and whines if I ask for a hug or foreplay and won't do it. I really don't understand, because I have tried to be a good wife - I keep the house really clean, I do all the laundry and most of the chores relating to the house and yard, I work full time and make sure all of the bills get paid on time. I have tried to be the best person I can be. Physically I can only think of a handfull of times when I've ever refused sex but it was because I was genuinely sick or insanely tired and I always felt REALLY bad about it and he knew I was sorry. Sometimes I wish he would just rub me or stroke my skin for 10 minutes, but he says that is too "boring." How can I make touching me more exciting?? Something that he wants to do??

2007-03-12 20:59:04 · 15 answers · asked by Angie 4 in Marriage & Divorce

ok me and my bf have been together a year and 5 months. We can't see eachother or talk to eachother. He has changed. My bestfriend said she seen him w/ another girl and he told me that she was lieing. But who would tell the truth about that .He has always told me that he would never hurt me but he has sooooo many times. He ditches me all the time. He lies to me about things. I dunno what to do i am soooo confused. He use to tell me he loved me all the time but when i call him at work he doesn't say it or anything. When i go see him he is different then what he use to be. I am sooo scared that he is cheatin on me. I don't go to the same school as him anymore so i dunno what is goin on. So yea. I cry myself to sleep everynite cuz i am so depressed. I have stomach ulcers and they are gettin worse cuz of this stuff. am i that stupid to stay with him? I mean i love him with all my heart. But i dunno what to do. So plz help me....

2007-03-12 20:58:21 · 14 answers · asked by Ashley 2 in Singles & Dating

Hey,

I have a question. What's the best, most creative way to say I love you to my fiance as I will see her tomorrow. Over the weekend, we went through rough time, and it was sad, and I want to make it up to her for the problems and pain I caused. The thing is we will be together for few hours, but we will be in the car, on the back seat just talking and cuddling, and I really want to surprise her and shower her with my love that will make her have butterflies and make her smile.

Thanks

2007-03-12 20:56:27 · 10 answers · asked by abe_cooldude 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-12 20:55:48 · 25 answers · asked by jalwin c 1 in Singles & Dating

Being honest would you rather be with a girl who gives it up easy or makes you wait? And how long should a girl wait to have sex with someone without them thinking your easy

2007-03-12 20:55:46 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-12 20:55:34 · 14 answers · asked by september 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I swear every single time I get myself comfortable on the couch ready to read a good book, my partner will want to start talking to me. Not just once, it's like I cant even get through a paragraph before I have to stop and listen again. I have my asked my partner if he would like me to put the book down so we can talk and he has replied "Cant you do both, I thought women could multi task". Even if women could, im sure this is impossible to do?? Do you agree?

2007-03-12 20:54:33 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

This guy i used to date is marreid to the girl he pikced over me. now we recently started talking agian. he is writing me asking me if he thinks we would ever do it again if he wasnt married or whatever. then he goin on and on about how mad he is at his wife right now, venting at me basically. then he says he gonna send a picture of her to me and that shes skinny and his freinds thinks shes hot. whats going on here?

2007-03-12 20:54:23 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husbands not finding me attractive?
Im 23 years old my husband is 35 always plays computer games and is only horny for bjs,
im not ugly! im a slim build blonde hair ....
we just found out he has chrones disease he says thats why but we have been together for 4 years and never had good sex we have a 6 month old ,
i worked hard to get the weight off and never gained it when i was pregnant no stretch marks
??
i have been using a vibrator for ages it doesnt faze him when i use it before we go to sleep if i was a guy that would hurt my pride!

2007-03-12 20:54:04 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Is there something like a 'craving to be loved'. I feel so much that I want to be loved, hugged, reassured. I miss that complacent feeling.

What can I do to get over this feeling. Will loving myself more get me out of this craving and not-so-happy feeling ? How can I do it ? Anyone been thru this face and have gotten over it ?

2007-03-12 20:53:37 · 8 answers · asked by vittrash 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-03-12 20:53:06 · 5 answers · asked by SD 1 in Family

2007-03-12 20:53:03 · 3 answers · asked by popp 1 in Friends

2007-03-12 20:51:53 · 16 answers · asked by Friendly 2 in Friends

had asked you all about this guy earlier.they split some 18 years ago.after that he has moved on ,he does take good care of his family and excels in his work. but he has not forgotten his ex girl, he says not a day passes without her thought and i have seen him alone ,his eyes would water ,.no amount of distraction can lure him away from her thoughts .can anyone love somebody for so many years without being in contact?he says she will come to him someday,has he gone nuts?sometimes i wonder!!!!!!!

2007-03-12 20:49:50 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-12 20:46:42 · 6 answers · asked by silkbutterfly222 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-03-12 20:46:33 · 26 answers · asked by vishal m 2 in Singles & Dating

I guess im just mature for my age (17) but along with wanting to do what most guys my age want to do (rush and join fraternities, party, etc) i wish i could just skip all of that and just get married. Ofcourse i do intend on partying and living the college experience (unless i DO get married) but i'd rather find my sweetheart and cuddle w/ her until the stars burn out. Is this weird or am i just kinda mature? most of my friends just want to join a fraternity, drink beligerantly, and have random sex...

2007-03-12 20:46:01 · 9 answers · asked by Alpha7 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Now, my past isn't squeeky clean, but I've been with my girl for close to two years now and things I did in the past keeps her for being able to trust me...I've been completely faithful to her and have since become a better man.

My Ex insists on constantly putting her nose as well as her two cents into the mix, which only causes further issues.

How do I regain her trust.....with a distraction that just won't quit

2007-03-12 20:43:52 · 9 answers · asked by ricksr.1980 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have a friend who's completely in love with a guy who already has a girlfriend, because he TOTALLY flirts with her and leads her on. and he knows it, he's "In love" with his girlfriend but is telling my friend that he wants to go out with her. He's completely making my friend think he likes her more then his gf, but he's told me hes completely in love with his girlfriend, and not my friend. If he really liked her wouldnt he break up with his gf?! I dont want my friend to get hurt! wat should i do?!

2007-03-12 20:43:45 · 8 answers · asked by LoveLoveLoveU 1 in Friends

how can I be sexy. What's the sexiest thing a girl just at work or school did but it's not touching your balls or something to that effect.

2007-03-12 20:42:25 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Why is it when you go dancing with a guy who is not your b/f, he assumes it was more?? I go dancing(like tango, etc) and in the past my b/f gets jealous. Why??

2007-03-12 20:41:52 · 9 answers · asked by Nicoletta 3 in Singles & Dating

We had an event in which we both participated and I didn't have much in particular to write so I delayed. But after like 5 days I felt I should write to show I care so I wrote a bit and asked how work was. She didn't answer my message but now I've got things I want to write, like to see about carpooling to an event on Saturday.

Should I just forget about writing since she didn't answer me? Or should I write again anyway?

2007-03-12 20:40:27 · 7 answers · asked by Jonathan H 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-12 20:39:30 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Are there any side-effects of applying for child support through the state program to do this? My children were born out of wedlock (husband is English and doens't believe in marriage). Will he gain rights to the children that he doesn't have at the moment? At present I have sole custody, as I live in a State where even when you marry after the birth, the mother retains full custody if the children were born before the marriage.
I have heard that my husband may gain rights to the children that I will regret if I claim child support. Is this true?

2007-03-12 20:38:36 · 9 answers · asked by katy 1 in Marriage & Divorce

It's almost like he/she knows how to hurt us da most:(

2007-03-12 20:38:24 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

The very TITLE of this section tells you what to expect......first marriage and then divorce.
To those considering marriage, remember two things;
1) The toughest year of marriage is the one you're in.
2) The one thing that causes divorce is marriage.

I'd like some opinions on this and whether or not marriage is outdated in the modern world (no religious stuff please).

2007-03-12 20:37:43 · 10 answers · asked by fromorto12 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Their is so many Men nowdays that uses women so bad nowdays that it's sickin, what happen to Love,Respect,Partners,workin 2 gather & have a happy life, No LIES, NO DECEIT,

2007-03-12 20:37:24 · 10 answers · asked by Kathy Z 1 in Singles & Dating

Have you ever kept something from a friend because you knew it would hurt them if you told them? If so, what was it and did you feel like you were a bad friend for doing this? Why or why not?

2007-03-12 20:36:15 · 9 answers · asked by Heather B 1 in Friends

that im begining to think there is no such thing as love, I just cant get my head round it, How people in life can get away with hurting other people so badly, As now i just feel if someone wants to get really close to me i shut them off because off past experiances will i ever find the one for me and be happy again as im finding it very hard ????

2007-03-12 20:35:46 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships