I would like to know these things please cause i have really messed up in life and i would like to know how to make your love one trust you again(partner)
2007-03-12 21:01:43 · 22 answers · asked by jamaican_4ever 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You can't make anybody trust you, all you can do is show them your for real, and give them the choice to trust you or not.
2007-03-12 21:05:21 · answer #1 · answered by lando 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this is for the first time you can make up again by asking simply a sorry but if you have been commeting mistakes so many times then chances would be 50% only.
But it depends on your partner how he will react to your mistake depends if this mistake has effected the life very badly.
Need not worry simply say sorry and say these words to him/her:-
"you have to live moment to moment: you have to live each moment as if it is the last moment. So don't waste it in quarreling, in nagging or in fighting. Perhaps you will not find the next moment even for an apology."
Give a sorry card and a bouquet .
Hope every thing will be alright. Take care.
2007-03-12 21:34:47 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A hundred times, maybe more. In love u can, and the lover, a real lover, forgives a hundred times or more. I have forgiven my wayward girl, a hundred times and still willing to forgive her yet. There is just one requirement, the person asking sorry should love the other person, and the person forgiving should love (very much) the wayward person making the mistakes.
2007-03-12 21:12:11 · answer #3 · answered by wizard of the East 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust comes with time, and it is attach to honesty, loyal, and dedication to a relationship. There's no special words that over come trust, except expressing your love from your heart! The past is only the tool of life and we have to repair it in the present and try our best to make the future better. Your partner can be secure in a relationship with you by the amount of affection you give from your heart.
You knows your mistakes! Your partner knows your mistakes, and now show your love one the gift you can offer from your heart! Take your partner and travel to a remote place and spend time reaffirming your love. Bring a small gift and a card with you, and the let card reflect the gift. Example, a small cute teddy bear. In your card express the warmth of teddy bear.."You're my cute, fuzzy love etc...
If this affection sound silly, it is not! It is love! Pray for your partner to understand and to forgive you for the past. Ask of Christ to have your partner put the past in the past!
God Bless
2007-03-12 21:20:12 · answer #4 · answered by tony 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Apologies can't fix everything.
Make sure to let your man you're sorry.
Tell him you love him, or how much he means to you, and how you never meant to hurt him. Apologise. Hold his hand.
Do something extra special with him. Prove to him that you really like/love him alot :]
If this guy is really into you, everything will work out.
2007-03-12 21:08:18 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no limit as to how many time you can say sorry . But when you say so say it fromyour heart and never repeat it again.Any mess can be resolved if you have the heart to admit and confess that you have gone wrong .To err is human and to forgive is devine.
2007-03-12 21:07:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2007-03-13 06:36:26 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if something like that happens with me then i will say sorry till the time she will not feel that im really sorry for my mistakes.
2007-03-12 21:39:17 · answer #8 · answered by Manu 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As many times as you can. You see, being in a relationship, is a give and take situation. So you can't blame it on anybody. So there you go.
2007-03-12 21:07:08 · answer #9 · answered by happy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
think before u do, the best way to avoid stupid mistakes, and dont drink stupidity goes to the higest level when you are drunk, dont do drugs thats just plain stupid...........
and as for your loved ones, show then with your actions, better yet, show them with your GOOD actions, cause i'm sure u've had some bad actions to show thats why you're asking this question to begin with...
but yea show the loved ones you care not only by your words but also by your actions, my mom never told me dont lie, dont lie, but she tought me that with her actions, she never ever lied under any circumstances.....i.e when my cat was put to sleep, instead of telling me the cat died, she said, well the cat was scratching everyone, and it was making me very mad so i took the cat to the vet to be put to sleep............
2007-03-16 11:55:05 · answer #10 · answered by DesiGirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋