Being honest would you rather be with a girl who gives it up easy or makes you wait? And how long should a girl wait to have sex with someone without them thinking your easy
2007-03-12 20:55:46 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You should only do that if your ready and you shouldn't be or feel pressured by the guy your with. I have dated women who were saving themselves for marriage and had no problems waiting. I don't have sex on a first date and that's an immediate turn off so I will just say the one who makes you wait, otherwise it makes a man wonder how many had it so easy before he came along. Kinda kills the mood then really.
-NmD!
2007-03-12 21:02:11 · answer #1 · answered by NoMaD! 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think that if you are going to give it up easy you need to make sure that both of you do not confuse sex with love. I have had girls that made me wait as long as 10 months and ones that gave it up on the first date and I think the one that made me wait 10 months really loved me because it was an act of love. We already knew eachother so we knew that we weren't doing it as a mistake. Sure it feels good and lust is great but it won't get you anywhere.
2007-03-13 04:01:30 · answer #2 · answered by Patrick E 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I like an easy girl on Saturday night. The rest of the time a girl who makes you wait is way cooler. I would say a month on the waiting part. You dont' want to give it up to every guy. After all, no guy wants to think he's dating a skank, even if he is.
2007-03-14 17:14:58 · answer #3 · answered by Teabone 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give it up right away or not, if i like the girl and she is not ready im not going to push too hard. and about the second half, if they think your easy if you sleep with them the first night you shouldnt be with that person anymore. they should just be happy that you were willing to do that the first night rather than keep them waiting. you can wait, if you find the right guy, until you feel ready and comfortable with that person, they guy whoever he is should be willing to accept your choices and you the way you are.
2007-03-13 04:01:34 · answer #4 · answered by Ed D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, I don't think that the concept of "taking easy" is really acceptable. The very idea of going to bed with your partner should come effortlessly and without much of thinking.Both should agree together,at the same time,without even a glimpse of the thought that whether the his/her partner is taking him/her easy.Thats called TRUST.So if anyone is thinking when to do that,regardless of whether he/she a guy or a girl, then I don't think real feelings are much involved..and then,it hardly makes any difference when you're doing it.
2007-03-13 04:30:09 · answer #5 · answered by mystic_masseur00 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on the girl and depends on the circumstances, with some girls i have waited and with some they just give it up as you say, as a man i can honestly say that all men would prefer to get it whenever they can, some women are special and they dont want to rush it, but reality, they would of if she would of, and maybe the timing wasnt right, but the woman knows if shes going to give it up as you say right away, the man doesnt. So in that case the woman would have to be the aggressor
2007-03-13 04:03:43 · answer #6 · answered by sofmatty 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think you can generalize but for me personally back when I was dating I usually would not get into a relationship with someone who I hooked up with on the first date. We might stay together to hook up for a few weeks but nothing longer than like a month. The girls who waited tended to be longer term relationships. I think for women if you are just looking for sex then go ahead, but if you want a guy who appreciates you for more than that, then hold out for awhile to see if he likes you for more than your _______.
2007-03-13 04:00:24 · answer #7 · answered by baldisbeautiful 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you ever heard of the 3 to 6 rule? Typically before 3 months is too soon and over 6 is too long, but that's for typical people. If you're both hot and really have the hots for each other sometimes there's no holding it back... every situation is different.
2007-03-13 04:00:11 · answer #8 · answered by Brian W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i feel u shouldnt give it on the first night lol unless u kno da person for like ur whole life and have like bin in luv wit them for like ever but othr than that dont giv eit up on the first night make the wait for u teast dem alot becuz u kno u wana do it so make em want u then they wont think ur easy all they will wanna do is *** u
2007-03-14 00:50:04 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I like to have sex on the first time with a women, this way you'll know wheather or not their sexually worth your time??????.
2007-03-13 04:04:18 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋