Family & Relationships - 12 March 2007

i mean durring sex you know there not thinking about you why do they think about other womenwhen there suppose to think about you at the time

2007-03-12 21:23:28 · 14 answers · asked by davanna m 3 in Singles & Dating

ok i have asked 2 questions already and everyone is tellin me to leave him... But how do i do it when i love this person w/ all my heart and soul?.? We have been together for a LONG time... I need some advice on what i should do. I am hurting soooo bad just thinkin about it. I can't imagine how it is gunna hurt when i actually do it. Please help me

2007-03-12 21:22:56 · 4 answers · asked by Ashley 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-12 21:21:02 · 15 answers · asked by ThaLBCKid 2 in Singles & Dating

They say lack of effort and they point fingers at me, but at one time I was an innocent child , so blame society. They tell me I'm stuck in criminal code, but if they lived my life then they'd know I'm stuck in survival mode. You see where I come from hellos are brief and goodbys are forever, Success stories are rare and almost never. Trying to survive long enough to get out the hood is not easy you see, so don't tell me how to act, or think untill you'v been me. Stop putting on a front, cause to you I'm only another number, if I die or live, it won't effect your slumber. You see the only thing I've ever known will be the reason my life comes to an end. I'll die lost, and lonely without a true friend.
But that's life, that's the hand I was dealt. Stop trying to understand you'll never know the pain, and hurt that I've felt.

2007-03-12 21:20:46 · 10 answers · asked by lando 3 in Singles & Dating

why they are unpridictable?!why guyz are selfish enough to live their girl behind?! leaving without any clues and if there is,its a big question mark!

2007-03-12 21:20:40 · 7 answers · asked by jochel 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

i've heard the story's, whats the deal? do aussy girls like the marinesor what?

2007-03-12 21:20:18 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-03-12 21:20:05 · 12 answers · asked by may l 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have been lying to my wife of 2 years. No, I am not having an affair. I have been telling her that I am looking for a better job, but the truth is I am not. I have a full time minimum wage job which does not pay enough. My wife is not employed but is in training for a job that she hopes to land soon.
I love her (at least I say that I do), why is it so easy for me to lie to her?
I want a better life for us, but I am not doing what it takes to achieve that life. I feel that I am trying to sabotage my marriage.
I have graduated high school and I have some college credits but not a degree. I have enough education to get a good job.
Am I afraid of married life or just lazy?

2007-03-12 21:19:57 · 3 answers · asked by ERIC W 3 in Marriage & Divorce

right now i am 25 y old & I am thinking abt marrige. how I will find right partner & when I should marry? because in few meetings nobody understand to other person. after marrige all demerites start coming in front. please tell me how i will find she?

2007-03-12 21:19:23 · 2 answers · asked by Dev 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-12 21:18:54 · 18 answers · asked by sixsgm 4 in Friends

okay i have a friend which she's always stopping me while i'm having fun with friends...can you help me plss...how to prevent this??

2007-03-12 21:18:08 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

i got to know that my bf has a other gf too......(his friends told me) im not that sure about it but it seems to be its true...he`s just changed soo much!!! never thought of he being like this.... and at one moment he`s also showing care...but his friends say that he`s flirting....... really confused!!!

2007-03-12 21:17:48 · 12 answers · asked by lilysweet_bhavya 1 in Singles & Dating

my new gf just sent me an e-mail. we've only been together about a month, but already she's bringing up the "M" word. it freaked me out. i mean, i love her. really, REALLY love her, and can see myself with her FOREVER. the only problem is i'm not sure if i'm ready to be married again. i DON"T want to lose her. what would be a good way to tell her this without her thinking i'm losing interest? i'm thinking i should just submit and get it over with. she is one DETERMINED lady. she ALWAYS get what she wants. if she wants to marry me, she will probably figure out how to make it happen. HELP PLEASE.

2007-03-12 21:17:21 · 6 answers · asked by jeffrey m 4 in Singles & Dating

Do you want to China,or have you been to China.Hopewe can be Friends.

2007-03-12 21:15:47 · 7 answers · asked by Zhao xu 1 in Singles & Dating

so my man has been acting pretty strange lately.When were too busy to see each other we usually talk most of the tight and before he works during the day on msn or the phone. but i noticed lately that he seems to be avoiding talking to me, and seeing me. like yesterday for example I suggested his next day off we do something, considering i haven't seen him for almost 2 weeks, and all he has to say is " yeah.. maybe".

normally he acts all happy, and enthusiastic when i suggest we do something., but he's just act like its whatever now, and I"m starting to worry.

2007-03-12 21:15:18 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

About two weeks ago, my crush made the statement "If you're gonna be my girl, ..." (something funny)
but I'm not his girl yet...he keeps flirting...making inuendos...etc.

But we're not together yet...why not?

2007-03-12 21:14:07 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

he has a girlfriend already so i do not understand why he e-mails me often. he admits recently that he is working on convincing me to move to his town and work. his gf is not there. should he not concentrate in making his gf move then? we have known each other for more than a year now.

2007-03-12 21:14:04 · 11 answers · asked by counterculturalist 3 in Singles & Dating

You know by now you have gotten used to the proper treatment that I have given you. You dig it. The truth, as ugly as it is, is an eye opener for you married women.

Thats all for now as my batteries are running low.

Peace!

2007-03-12 21:13:12 · 5 answers · asked by ? 2 in Marriage & Divorce

WE HAVE three children at home. He works all the time. Our children ages are 17 16 6. I'm with them all the time. He does not come home at night. But he pays all the bills. We own our own business and I work parttime in it.

2007-03-12 21:09:37 · 19 answers · asked by wife&mother 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm just curious, 16 seems to be a leading age amongst my friends and I. I know that most of the time as girls we idealized the perfect place and time to share that special moment and to our dismay it didn't work out as planned. :]


Personally I lost mine when I was 17 to my boyfriend (who I'm still dating and very much in love with) in his car...ick...how cliche. hahaha

2007-03-12 21:08:48 · 26 answers · asked by CollegeMeg 2 in Singles & Dating

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2007-03-12 21:08:46 · 12 answers · asked by Lans 3 in Singles & Dating

he had a rough childhood growing up, so he has a short temper & likes things done his way. We have been through so much & theres no way we"ll ever split, but how could I get along with him better. He never understands me & I always have 2 understand him. I've tried being on his level & do the things he likes 2 do, like play video games. I even told him I would play World of Warcraft & I freakin hate that game. Every move I make I seem 2 irritate him. I don't even know how 2 act anymore. I luv him so much & I know he luvs me. I may make it sound horrible but it's not that bad, I just want 2 get along with him better.He is a good person & a good dad. He tells me he luvs me & he kisses me & all that. Is there anything I or we could do 2 make our lives better. Please nobody tell me 2 ask God cuz I'm a firm believer in him & I already have. I just want ANY advice 2 help.....something like things 2 talk about, things 2 say 2 him (thats not corny), I mean anything......please help! Thank U

2007-03-12 21:08:36 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Traditionally, My husband, the 3 kids, and I have split Easter Sunday amongst our family. My side usually goes to the park around noon, has a picnic, and all of the kids hunt for eggs, etc. We try to do it early because a relative works in the afternoon. We usually go over to his parent's house in the afternoon and have dinner and stay the entire evening. This year things have changed. My husband's sister and her husband decided to go on a trip and have my In-laws watch their daughter for a week. After their trip they fly in Easter Sunday at 6am, plan to stay a little during the day, and then all of them have to be at the airport by 5pm to go back home. My MIL isn't planning anything Easter-related for the day. It's just a simple lunch and visiting. The kids will probably be bored and watching TV in the back room. They live in an active adult community and it's all rocks and desert plants. There's not an outside area to play in. MIL doesn't want it combined. What do we do?

2007-03-12 21:07:13 · 10 answers · asked by ANONN 1 in Family

2007-03-12 21:06:41 · 7 answers · asked by SEE YOU LATER 2 in Singles & Dating

(apparntly trying to get in yoru pants) be telling u that his wife is skinny and hot?

2007-03-12 21:05:34 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

So we have been seperated for a few months now and now he has been calling me for a few weeks now saying that he loves me and that he wants to work on things, and oh yea by the way if he could get my drivers license and creditcard info to rent a car to go out of town...for a week...
(I have received NO money since the seperaton for any of my bills)
can you guys imagine the look on my face :) ??? What would you do ? give him the benefit of a doubt and believe him, or say hell NO !!!
and if something was to happen to the car, would I be responsible for paying for it ???

2007-03-12 21:05:23 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Young Co-worker in mid 20s seems to suffer from sex addiction. Every day I notice, different guys pick her up; some of them from same office (even married guys). She is extremely successful in her job (by her exceptional technical capacity; not by exchanging any favor and is respected by everyone for the technical contribution to the company).

Nowadays she attends work very late and takes morning stand up meetings in mobile phone while driving.

I am not sure what should I do. Should I talk/advice to her ? I am not even sure if her behavior is normal to that age. I don't know how young people in mid 20s would receive advice from another co-worker. I am not sure if her behavior is due to high work stress level in the office. I want some suggestions/thoughts from people of that age (possibly office working female mid 20s).

FYI:
I am one of the senior person in the office (by age; not by job level) in late 40s. Please don't advice like me moving out of job, I cannot find one.

2007-03-12 21:04:55 · 7 answers · asked by sn 1 in Singles & Dating

had a long distance relationship with my ex-bf. We last met up this Jan. Things went very well even though sometimes he's confused.


he broke up with me 3 weeks ago coz he realized that he has no motivation to go on, probably lost the love feelings and that long distance R is tiring. Anyway, we broke up.


Just wonder how it is like for him if i send him a text message later on saying that i miss making love with him? can i turn him on by this kind of message, letting him know that im still horny for him and make him remember how great it was when we had sex? ......or it's just something 'scary'/ annoying to get this kind of message from your ex girlfriends?

-thanks

2007-03-12 21:04:54 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

hi guys your help if u could please,
right i met my ex-girlfriend while she was living over here (england) and we got on so well problem was she had to go bk to america to finish her college or what ever it is u call it.
anyway we chatted for a while on fone and i did go and see her once bk in november problem is we deside to just be friend cos of how far apart we now live. cut a long story short at the time i didnt have the money to move over to be closer to her. now i have the problem is we not spoken to her in 6 months cos i lost her number by mistake. we have wrote to each other a couple of times but thats about it. thing is i miss her soso much and i want her bk. i want to fly over there and see her but as a surprise. thing is im not sure if she moved on and found someone else.. i wouldnt blame her if she has. is it worth the risk cos life to short??? if she has moved on maybe being there for her as friends would be ok??
anyone else been tho anything like this??

2007-03-12 21:03:40 · 10 answers · asked by alan h 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

My Boyfriend of 2years declared his love to me, and he told me that I am the woman he wants to marry and spend the rest of his life with. But he is also scared, as this is the most important decision he will ever have to make. He currently stays in a lovely house with his housemate.(Renting) Now he wants me to move in with him and his housemate(male)so that we can see if it will work out,us living together.I cannot stand the housemate,cause we plan a quite evening,and he rocks up with 30 friends and they trash the place.then he refuses to clean the place,and the floors are all sticky with alcohol,and every single glass in the house is dirty etc.My boyfriend said that when I move we will set some rules,and he will just have to live by them.I know his housemate,and he does not have ANY sence of responsibility.I said i am willing to move in with him alone in our own place.Am i unreasonable? I think the situation with the housemate will just put strain on the relationship. Please help?

2007-03-12 21:03:23 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating