I'm just curious, 16 seems to be a leading age amongst my friends and I. I know that most of the time as girls we idealized the perfect place and time to share that special moment and to our dismay it didn't work out as planned. :]
Personally I lost mine when I was 17 to my boyfriend (who I'm still dating and very much in love with) in his car...ick...how cliche. hahaha
2007-03-12 21:08:48 · 26 answers · asked by CollegeMeg 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ahh! Typo in the question...sorry about that...it's going to really bug me now. lol.
2007-03-12 21:15:27 · update #1
19, at my current bf's friend's house. Mines also didn't work as I planned it wasn't special, sometimes I regret, I wish I would've been in love first then lost it. You can't regret things you can only just accept it and move on.
2007-03-12 21:16:59 · answer #1 · answered by tha_best 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel very cliche like you do, only I ended up having my daughter with him.....I was 16, also, but I got pregnant, and he didn't ask to marry me until two years later, and then when we had our second, he decided to leave me when I was five months pregnant, like I could accept it better then, lol.
I was fed up with men by that point, and even more so his "Catholic" religion that he goes by even now. He had to lie to the priest to get his church to remarry him, my daughter came home crying because of that and I had to make him show her our documents before she calmed down.
My big thing for my daughter is just think about what you are doing with guys, if she leads them on, or invites them over, what will happen if I'm not home.....so far she has had more guts than I ever did, I appreciate that about her, but I also know that her dad leaving us has made a huge difference in her life, something I would not wish on any kid. I wish she had a perfect childhood, but that is something I can't and will not regret.....she is my baby and I love her, I hope her the very best when it comes to deciding when to be intimate with men.
2007-03-13 04:18:38 · answer #2 · answered by kaliroadrager 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
lol, you won't believe it, but I was 10. I had no idea what I was doing, but my little "girlfriend" did. She told me that she was watching a video her parents had. She told me what the guy did and where to....well, you know, stick it in.
I remember feeling tingles all over, that was quite interesting. We kept doing it for almost a year off and on. Oh, she was 11 at the time.
2007-03-13 04:24:44 · answer #3 · answered by gato_loco_since_1979 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i was 15. it was to my first boyfriend and it was on his 16th birthday (we are two months apart sooo i was almost 16).
it was totally overrated! we were young, we had nooo clue what we were doing. however, at the time i figured if i was going to loose it to someone it might as well be my first love (that was dumb..LOL).
i can totally take myself back to that place. LOL. i remember it well. i loved him, so i thought. we had broke up but were still messing around. but for some odd reason we had sex when we broke up, but i thought becuase we were messing around we would eventually end up back together, but NOPE...he dumped me.
i was hurt! TOTALLY cliche...i felt dumb.
2007-03-13 04:36:59 · answer #4 · answered by Queenly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was 17, with my bf at that time after some months of dating. We picked a romantic motel, chose by me. He didn't pressure me at all. I had enough time to make my decision and choices, and I am very happy about how all happened.
2007-03-13 04:13:44 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
l was 22 about 3 weeks before turning 23. lt was a waste of my time and her time we were not in Love our friends set us up and expected it to happen.l would wait another 8 years before doing it again but it was a waste of her time.
2007-03-13 04:25:14 · answer #6 · answered by catsclaw 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I was having sexual relations ( oral and hand with GFs ) since I was 13.. but I didn't lose my Virginity untill I was 16, my GF was 16 and we where in the back seat of her friends car ( who was 17+ with her DL ).. ohh and umm her friend was driving at the time.
2007-03-13 04:13:09 · answer #7 · answered by Justin L 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
I was six years old, and living on an army base. She was the babysitter and did she ever sit on me.
The poor girl damn near didn't survive the wrath of my mother when it was discovered.
Days later when mom found out the extent of what the sitter had taught me my dad had a hard time keeping her from murder.
I didn't care......I thought it was a lot of fun!
2007-03-13 04:14:21 · answer #8 · answered by the old dog 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
19 in the back seat of a car on a gravel road
2007-03-13 04:11:38 · answer #9 · answered by Patrick E 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
16, her room, waterbed, at FIRST when her parents weren't home :P
It was a complete mistake, premarital sex ruins good relationships and prolongs bad ones.
We became too physically attatched, she was my ideal girl and I totally messed things up, I learned some big lessons from that relationship.
Was a pretty good X-mas gift though, even though it f*cked up my life for a good while.
2007-03-13 04:19:55 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋