wife asking for divorce,husband says no! wants to save marriage.how to recover that happy feeling into her?

Answer 1

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Answer 2

When things break up, it's hard to glue the pieces together. Next time, try to recover when you see the first simptoms..or at least try to notice that something's going wrong. A lot of people don't just think it's important to "recover that happy feeling" until it's to late. Why?
Anyway, you just try anything. Let her know you would do anything to make her happy. And do it! Take a trip together, go someplace, away from where you live. Ask her to give you one more chance. It could be too late though..

Answer 3

Please, be willing to make this a rest of your life together kind of committment-if it works for you. Take her out ona date with you if possible every week. If not, at least every two weeks. If you have children, hire a good babysitter for a couple hours, and get to know your wife again. Marriage is a committment, and the very vital part of that is communicaiton with each other. Open, honest communicaiton. Not just talking about the kids, work, etc. But spending time, each evening, before going to sleep, truly, sincerely asking her (and listening) to her about her day. Start helping her around the house, wash, dry and put the dishes away after dinner. Compliment her on her good cooking. Bring her flowers (just because). Remember to take the trash out every night, and put it out for the garbage collector each week without having to be reminded by her. (write yourself a reminder note on your calendar). Remember anniversary and birthdays.Spend quality time with her--and before the kids are in bed, spend quality (and quantity) time with them. Help get them their baths, read them a bedtime story. And, please sit down with her, tell her how much you love her, and want this marriage to work. Be willing, to go to counseling with her-or even on your own to work thru this stuff. Ask her what it is specificaly (write it down to remember it) what it is she wants from you to make this marriage work. It takes two to tango-and this is a smooth, fun dance, if you both do your part. Take care.

Answer 4

Court her like you did before she gave up everything for you. She thought that you were going to be worth it, but she now realizes that she made a mistake. Treat her like a queen.
I hope she hasn't found someone who seems to be doing all this already for her. In that case... you had your chance, Cowboy! Look ahead and don't fake anything from the beginning in your next relationship.

Answer 5

AW i hate to say but that ship might have sailed some things can't be recovered and if it is it will never be the same

Answer 6

Both of them need a trained counselor to get them to sit down and talk about why each feels that way. She says "I want out", he says "no, its fine", sounds like a conflict right there, let alone why each of them feels that way......was it cheating, was it drugs, was it finances, etc?

A counselor can sort things out for them and hopefully they will keep being each other's soulmate.

Good luck

Answer 7

For better future, let her go and you start a fresh again.
Dont try to save this marriage as it will give more problems in future.

Answer 8

You need marriage counseling,to work out why she is asking for a divorce to see if there is any way to be able to work through it.

Answer 9

Been there! It hurts. Been over 10 yrs. now and still think about her. As far as you trying to "make her love you" you cant. Im sorry. You cant make her love you no matter how hard you try, pray, cry or whatever. Try seperation, but...be prepared. Again, I am sorry!

Answer 10

Well it would help greatly if i knew what was going on...
look her dead in the eyes and say please don't do this to us....