i mean durring sex you know there not thinking about you why do they think about other womenwhen there suppose to think about you at the time
2007-03-12 21:23:28 · 14 answers · asked by davanna m 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
because they think of turn on's. its a mind thing with men. my husband swears up and down he thinks only of me but I know he's gotta be thinking of the cute girl he saw earlier with the nice breasts and short skirt lol. men are visual where as women aren't so much.
2007-03-12 21:26:56 · answer #1 · answered by princess1226 4 · 1⤊ 3⤋
The answer is simple and direct. Because men likes to dominate and own the world. That is the reason they like women of smaller builts so that they think they've conquer the women, including their assets!!!! Smaller sized ladies do look less defensive but more vulnerable. This is another reason that men feel like protecting them and seizing them as their possession, even on the bed. It is an ego-thingy issue, probably you won't understand, unless you're a man yourself!
2007-03-12 21:45:16 · answer #2 · answered by PoshBerries 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Truly, I think men are the dominating creature and they just want to take control of things. So with regards to your question, the man you make love to might not care about your feelings and being insensitive to you. Just a thought. Good luck.
2007-03-12 21:29:15 · answer #3 · answered by happy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It what society wants up to think we want and it's what you think they think about when they are with you. It sounds like you have an insecurity problem.But there are all different types of women and I have had both kinds. I would not be thinking of a petite woman if I was with a heavy one. I would be thinking about the woman in front of me.
2007-03-12 21:31:46 · answer #4 · answered by 1TON 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a man, and when I have sex with my girlfriend I think about her. Seriously ... I'm telling the truth.
It's impossible for you to know what another human being is thinking. You can tell what they might be thinking from their actions and words, but you can never know what another person is thinking. Not all men are as horrible as you might think.
2007-03-12 21:27:44 · answer #5 · answered by Joseph 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dont be distressed, I am fairly attractive and in shape and my boyfriend cheated on me with a fat women who is forty and weighs 300-350 pounds. He said he enjoyed being with her, but on the other hand my boyfriend is not the greatest catch in the world. trust me , the man is with you, is not thinking of more cuter women, he is just doing it because you are letting him.
2007-03-12 21:33:40 · answer #6 · answered by jen w 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could be because smaller and cute women are easier to hug.
2007-03-12 21:27:36 · answer #7 · answered by SGElite 7 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Because they aren't socialized to be attracted to the incredible hulk?
2007-03-12 21:31:19 · answer #8 · answered by fraunkensteen 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Because they are not the latest form of humanbeings.
2007-03-12 22:32:47 · answer #9 · answered by Tayfun T 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
yeah, and i'm quite sure you never fantasize? c'mon. there's nothing wrong with a little fantasy. as long as he's not acting on it, whats the problem?
2007-03-12 21:36:08 · answer #10 · answered by jeffrey m 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋