so my man has been acting pretty strange lately.When were too busy to see each other we usually talk most of the tight and before he works during the day on msn or the phone. but i noticed lately that he seems to be avoiding talking to me, and seeing me. like yesterday for example I suggested his next day off we do something, considering i haven't seen him for almost 2 weeks, and all he has to say is " yeah.. maybe".
normally he acts all happy, and enthusiastic when i suggest we do something., but he's just act like its whatever now, and I"m starting to worry.
2007-03-12 21:15:18 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
-but sometime i think he may just be stressed or tired from work, because he has been working alot more lately , he gets like 2 days off every 2 weeks.
2007-03-12 21:27:41 · update #1
kay we'll now he seems to be acting less dull toward our love life, so yeah i guess it was just all that work. got him stressed or something, looks like more then half of you were wrong.
2007-03-13 08:11:26 · update #2
It sounds like he has something on his mind. If you are recently married then he could be facing the reality of being married and its too much(fell off cloud 9). The only way that you will know if theres a problem is if you ask him. He could just be stressed out and its silly to assume that he is cheating if there are no other signs like ladies calling or him smelling like perfume etc to confirm it.
2007-03-12 21:23:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you must be young---you have a guy that had you for a while and now he is bored--so let him go and find another guy to date--stop the constant kid crap on the phone--go get a life or find something to do---limit the calls for God's sake--he just ran out of stuff to say---you seem to be a nag to him. Nice to have a boyfriend--just stop the constant hanging on like a leech. Welcome to the world of young love--you just learned a valuable lesson about having a mate. Do your folks talk for hours about weird stuff?? Nope--they are all grown up with a few things of their own to do---so get a life and loosen up that cord.
2007-03-13 04:27:00 · answer #2 · answered by fire_inur_eyes 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he has lost interest in you, and he is probably seeing another woman, or mabe he is just stressed out.
If you really want to know what the problem is ... ask him yourself. Talk to him about it. You can't make a relationship work with Yahoo Answers.
2007-03-13 04:19:10 · answer #3 · answered by Joseph 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't panic.He maybe stressed out by his job.U know,these days life is very difficult.
U try to calm him.U have promised that u would be with him in good and bad day.Don't try to spoil ur life with these kinds of thoughts.Thanks.Be careful with what to think.Bye
2007-03-13 04:27:08 · answer #4 · answered by Siamak E 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't necessarily mean he's cheating. You should just ask him...maybe he has lost interest...which will be sad for you, but on the other hand you don't want a relationship with someone who is not sure. Ask him!
2007-03-13 04:19:48 · answer #5 · answered by bundy_bee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think its over honey. He's either cheating or has lost interest. Give him the flick, trust me you'd rather leave him before you find out where his time and effort is really going...
2007-03-13 04:20:33 · answer #6 · answered by Kimberly S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
id say hes cheating but he maybe just losing intrest lol try some kinky sex lol always gets a guys attention back or just out do who ever u think hes cheating with in bed
2007-03-13 04:19:46 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be up front with him and ask him if he's cheating on you.
you guys ARE a couple after all and you deserve to know if he's cheating on you.
If you still think he's cheating on you...gather some girlfriends and spy on him and find out for sure.
2007-03-13 04:20:09 · answer #8 · answered by lady_luv 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He could be cheating or he could just be stressed out from work. You need more evidence other than his sudden change in behavior. Keep your eyes open.
2007-03-13 04:18:42 · answer #9 · answered by Truth Hurts 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i dont know if its cheating but hes definatly less attentive than he used to be. i got miserable whn my husband started actin that way .
2007-03-13 04:20:02 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋