Family & Relationships - 12 March 2007

I've got this close friend. She kept on hurting my feelings. Saying how I don't look nice, and that I should colour my hair. She made negative comments on almost everything I did, like how I don't wear my uniform the fashion way, and then she also added, "even if you did, it won't look nice on you".

She'd be nice to me when she wanted to copy my homework, or when she needs me. And after that, she would tease me. And make mean comments and jokes to me. I tried to tell her I don't like the 'jokes' once, but she got mad and told everyone I can't even take a joke.

How can I tell her that I don't like the way she's treating me?? Is she still my friend? What if she still thinks Ithat I'm her friend? I don't want to hurt her feelings. Please help! THANK YOU.

2007-03-12 20:35:02 · 6 answers · asked by No-one 4 in Friends

Do you ever question why you became friends with some people in the first place? Or why you continued the friendship after warning signs?

2007-03-12 20:34:59 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My wife has a gf in India who loves my wife back. My wife says she loves both of us with all her heart and always will. I talk to this woman and have developed a close friendship with her. to tell yu the truth is that I have also fallen for her, and have told her. She says she likes me and loves me too. But she says I know what is right and wrong because i am a good person. She said she will leave it up to me to do what is next. I donn't want to hurt my wife, but I have feelings for the her gf. What should I do?

2007-03-12 20:34:39 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Is it so they don't damage the lady parts if they slip? Or is it her weight bending the bar down?

This is one of life's great mysteries that has been nagging me since I was a kid.

2007-03-12 20:34:00 · 10 answers · asked by ? 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My ex, who is also the mother of my younger son, refuses to stay outta my life. Its been more than 2 years since we broke up, but the chick just won't stay out of my personal life and now its effecting the life I'm attempting to have with the woman I'm planning to be with.

I've tried the nice approach as well as the not so nice approach, so when both of those fail, what other options do you have?????

2007-03-12 20:32:09 · 6 answers · asked by ricksr.1980 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I was in love with a guy of my class 2yrs back. But then I broke up because of some misunderstandings. Then I came to hear that he is in love with another girl of my class. I then completely changed my mind. Now after such a long time, he is telling me that he always loved me and no one else. He even cut his palm and wrote my name over that to prove it. He now says that everything was just a misunderstanding and he was never in love with that girl. He says that now he will die without me .
Another problem is that , the girl with whom I had heard he had a relation is my friend. She loves him madly and moreover I don't have very cordial relation with my friend from begginning. But the guy loves me madly.
What should I do now? Please help me out of this problem and tell me what should I do. I am in urgent need of good opinions.

2007-03-12 20:31:49 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I see signs he might like me...what do you think?
1. Said I didn't just have him wrapped around my finger...said he's wrapped around my tongue. (funny he stammered to find the words as to what to wrap around) I guess he didn't want to sound nasty.

2. Said I'm his Valentine even though I didn't get anything but a big hug.

3. Mentioned I excited him with my conversation.

4. After I did him a favor (showing him stuff on the computer), said he wanted to pay me back for my efforts by spending a whole day with me! Said it like four times!

Are these behaviors "friend only" behaviors or are they "I'm headed somewhere" behaviors?

What signs do other guys use...compared to this information?

I forgot about him asking if there would be room in my bed if the cat was there too. I said Are you in my bed? He said...No I'm just saying If I was!

And this week he mentioned I'd like his feet.

I like him a lot, but I have trouble believing he sees me THAT WAY. That's why I asked

2007-03-12 20:29:37 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-12 20:29:15 · 4 answers · asked by amylee 1 in Marriage & Divorce

very high rate in america europe and some other countries

2007-03-12 20:28:19 · 5 answers · asked by mubashar jan 1 in Marriage & Divorce

He recently moved to Singapore (5 weeks) ago and our plan was for me to join him there in 3 weeks time. I went to Singapore last week as planned to choose an apartment together etc and completely out of the blue my husband tells me he was ok for the first couple of weeks and then suddenly he realized he wasnt' looking forward to me arriving and he is unsure of his feelings towards me. We have been happily married for the past 5 years and been together for 10 years. Neither one of us can stand deceipt or cheating, as I assume most people reading this will think he has cheated. We saw a counsellor and she is confident we can work through this but he says he is trying but it's like a switch has gone off in his head. I am desperate. We talk 3 times a day on the phone and are very close.. We both want to work to save our marriage. He has been going out with workmates and has been flattered by the Singaporean girls rubbing against him etc which disgusts me to be honest. Any advice please?

2007-03-12 20:27:57 · 19 answers · asked by michelle c 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-12 20:27:36 · 4 answers · asked by dasiymiller1380evelina1380pinkys 1 in Singles & Dating

that im begining to think there is no such thing as love, I just cant get my hesd round it all how people in life can get away with hurting other people so badly, As now i just feel if someone wants to get really close to me i shut them off because off past experiances will i ever find the one for me and be happy again as im finding it very hard ????

2007-03-12 20:27:10 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

i had this bf who i still like and he likes me..he likes two girls me and this other girl.he wouldn't tell me who she,. but i found out cus she made a myspace and added me and we were talking to eachother and shes actually really sweet. well i found out he tells us the same things like we both ask whose the other girl. and he told us both "no one important" and he was afraid we were going to fight eachother. but he told her i was no one important....but he still talks to me 24/7 and acts like he likes me....do you think he really does like me but just told her that so she wouldn't worry? idunno i'm confused...

2007-03-12 20:26:49 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

It will only be a small wedding (about 40 guest). We don’t want a DJ but are not sure what else we can do. Any ideas?

2007-03-12 20:26:31 · 18 answers · asked by darren_louise 2 in Weddings

I recently had arelationship with a single father. He was the one to inciate the relationship. Took me out to dinner, bought me flowers( basically sweeped me off my feet). The first week was great, but slowly after 3 weeks, announces that he isn't ready for a relationship. His last relationship lasted about 6 years and resulted in his 5 yr old son. It ended about 6 months ago. Need help, I just can't understand how a person can change their mind like that.

2007-03-12 20:26:19 · 8 answers · asked by frangi29 1 in Singles & Dating

was either you or your husband/wife a virgin when you met?
If not does it bother you knowing that they lost their virginity to someone else and are now spending "forever" with you?

2007-03-12 20:25:57 · 11 answers · asked by lady_luv 2 in Marriage & Divorce

We were working on a project and he stopped by to se if I had figured out which website I wanted to use on this project. I said I hadn't figured it out yet. I stood there looking at him and I stepped forward...wanting to kiss him. He stared back like he knew I wanted something...maybe just wanted to say something...maybe just wanted to shut the door. But he didn't get his kiss. He just walked away.

Do you think he could tell I wanted to kiss him???

2007-03-12 20:25:38 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

well, there is this guy and he is just adorable. He loves his drum set and music in general, and i want to ask him to prom, how the heck would I do that without being boring and not cheesy. thanks

2007-03-12 20:25:25 · 4 answers · asked by madeNchina 2 in Singles & Dating

it is said that romance gradulay increases as the time pass true or false (only married should answer)

2007-03-12 20:24:02 · 6 answers · asked by mubashar jan 1 in Marriage & Divorce

this girl i like i dunno if she likes me but we were hangin out today and iuno i like her lots how can i impress her or so somethigfn so shes impressed lmao

2007-03-12 20:22:25 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

im starting high school next year, i am pretty excited but also afriad i wont fit in. it sounds bad but i'm really hoping to get a good boyfriend. so i kinda need high school tips & guys tips. thanks!

2007-03-12 20:22:08 · 24 answers · asked by :] 2 in Singles & Dating

My husband and I have been married for 5 months now. He's in Iraq, and we've been a long distance relationship since the very beginning. It's not easy, but we do pretty well with working with what we have together.

We have great communication, but I've caught him on some little white lies that have been eating me up. He lies or hides things to avoid a conflict, but he doesn't realize that it makes things worse.

It's just silly little stuff, but I'm worried that it might get more serious, or that if anything serious ever happens he would not be honest with me. How can I improve our communication, save our marriage, and learn to trust him again? Am I being too critical?

2007-03-12 20:22:07 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i dont know what to do, we've been together for 6yrs and hes been my frist boyf since i was 17yrs old. now im 24. and he's 25. i feel i waisted 6yrs of my life in nothing. the reason is that at first he use to be so sweet and caring for me and like 3yrs ago he cheated with some girl behind my back, i forgave him cause i think you can forgive someone but expect for that person to chance. well i confronted him and the girl and they both said nothing happend. just talk and kiss. well in september 2006 i checked his phone cause he usually keep his phone away from me. so when he was in the bathroom taking a bath, he forgot to take the phone with him. so i took a peek to his numbers and there was this weird number ive never seen before. well i called and a girl picked up. she said she was with him for 5months & knew about me but though he broke up with me. he admitted he slept with her. and now i still think about it but cant trust him. he said he loves me but i dont know what to do.he lied.

2007-03-12 20:21:20 · 8 answers · asked by redbutterfly95 1 in Friends

I mean, with someone you didn't know.

2007-03-12 20:21:16 · 9 answers · asked by joseph b 1 in Friends

2007-03-12 20:21:15 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Do you have examples of things men say...but mean something completely different? For example,
He says:"She has nothing to do with us."
Translation:"I don't even think about you when I do it with her."

2007-03-12 20:20:58 · 4 answers · asked by Chit P 4 in Singles & Dating

(also a friend of mine) snuck out to meet him at the middle of the night before they got engaged. today my bf told me what our friend had said and when i asked him if there was a reason y he told me, he said i don't know y i told you. afterwards we were talking again and he brought it up again (the same day) and he was like itd be crazy if u did something like that too; every guy wants their gf to do something really out there for them. i feel awkward about how hes comparing me to my friend; am i just acting dumb? we fool around and stuff (don't have sex) and in my religon we're not allowed to do any of that...if anyone found out i'd be dead basically...isn't that risky enough? he said its not...what should i do or think about that?

2007-03-12 20:19:52 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What about the second date onwards?

2007-03-12 20:18:46 · 2 answers · asked by ali 6 in Singles & Dating

for example ... you got a very good friend who is very good to u but that person is bad to another person who is also a very good friend of urs ... but you consider some other relationships to before you come up with an answer please ... cause this is not about friends ... that was just an example

2007-03-12 20:17:26 · 3 answers · asked by Shashiz 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Theres this girl im talkin to who i like and she likes me too. and theres already been a couple times where she said she doesnt like no one else, but i find out later, she tells me she does like someone else. (THis has happened twice) its getting really hard for me to trust her. what should i do?

2007-03-12 20:16:47 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating