My wife has a gf in India who loves my wife back. My wife says she loves both of us with all her heart and always will. I talk to this woman and have developed a close friendship with her. to tell yu the truth is that I have also fallen for her, and have told her. She says she likes me and loves me too. But she says I know what is right and wrong because i am a good person. She said she will leave it up to me to do what is next. I donn't want to hurt my wife, but I have feelings for the her gf. What should I do?
2007-03-12 20:34:39 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You and your wife need to sever ties with the gf and go to counseling to see if you can save your marriage first.
2007-03-12 20:38:48 · answer #1 · answered by kgee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The grass always look greener on the other side of the fence when your married because your used to the ways of who your with. BUT, give yourself time, with the new female, and it will be no different! Just new ways, and new problems. For gosh sakes, this is a so called friend of your wife's! This is disgusting, and you are her husband, who she trusted!! Your worried about hurting your wife, how could you not by telling her about this? How would you feel if it was your best friend falling for your wife behind YOUR back? Think about it?
2007-03-13 04:54:39 · answer #2 · answered by sue d 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
ask her if she would want a third party in the marriage, this woman. to live with you and be in bed with the two of you as well. you never know, it might work out.
2007-03-13 03:38:20 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like a threesome. Live and let live.
2007-03-13 03:38:19 · answer #4 · answered by nicole 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Threesome in the making. Har,har,har!
2007-03-13 03:40:39 · answer #5 · answered by Iron What? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋