I recently had arelationship with a single father. He was the one to inciate the relationship. Took me out to dinner, bought me flowers( basically sweeped me off my feet). The first week was great, but slowly after 3 weeks, announces that he isn't ready for a relationship. His last relationship lasted about 6 years and resulted in his 5 yr old son. It ended about 6 months ago. Need help, I just can't understand how a person can change their mind like that.
2007-03-12 20:26:19 · 8 answers · asked by frangi29 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He got to know you better, and realised that he wasn't that interested. He told you he wasn't ready for a relationship to protect your feelings. Sorry, happens all the time.
2007-03-12 20:30:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lets look at the reality of this " relationship" . There wasn't one. When a man takes you out to dinner and brings you flowers it is a nice gesture but it doesn't mean you are in a relationship, it means that you went to dinner and he brought you flowers. He had to announce it because you were ready for something he wasn't.
2007-03-13 03:40:40 · answer #2 · answered by Bernice J 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
from experience it is in all men to treat a lady like a lady but the harsh reality is that we can't handle emotional pain and to know that those lost feeling might be back for round two might just be too much for him right now so be a friend and give it time how we were in the beginning is our true self
2007-03-13 03:33:28 · answer #3 · answered by swass2death 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
probably exactly what he said, he wasn't ready for a realationship. he could have feeling for his ex still, or just doesn't want to put his son through his daddy dating and constanly having a "lady friend" over, or he may simply not like you.
2007-03-13 03:32:59 · answer #4 · answered by :] 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is just going around dating to get over his ex,it takes a while to heal,just move on and find someone that is ready for your love
2007-03-13 03:32:06 · answer #5 · answered by kat_luvr2003 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps he thought that he was ready but as things progressed with you he realized he wasn't?
2007-03-13 03:29:46 · answer #6 · answered by Iron What? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stand by him and be patient. he's only been single for 6 months. i don't think i'd be ready yet either.
2007-03-13 03:52:59 · answer #7 · answered by jeffrey m 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
only so they can get them draws....its sad but true
2007-03-13 03:29:21 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋