Family & Relationships - 12 March 2007

me and my bf have dated for like 6 months now,we met again and are tryin to make a go at it again,i mean we dated all the way from junior high to high school,and we have been through a LOT together but i just cant take the snide comments and other things.HELP IM STRESSED!!!!!!!

2007-03-12 19:26:10 · 18 answers · asked by sasha h 2 in Singles & Dating

I tend to take awhile before I bring a man to my home. Some of my friends say my timing of that may be too long. So...wanted to ask you guys . . .

When do you feel it is too short a period of time OR too long a time when first being invited to a woman's home ?

I like to know what a guy is about first before I invite him to my home for the first time. I don't mind being invited and going to his home...yet, timing of my home is different for me.

I like to know a guy for six weeks or so before inviting him over to my home. That way I can better gage the character of the man. Safe to say...I've had very few men over to my home...they did'nt get past the decent character phase. Such is life. Your thoughts ? Honest answers please.

2007-03-12 19:23:56 · 10 answers · asked by onelight 5 in Singles & Dating

I am currently living in CA (my bf said he would buy me the ticket and all) and now my mom has been trying to find reasons for me not to go and trying to make me feel like going to see him is a bad choice, but I want to see him! Then she says she wants to talk to him about this whole relationship we have and where it's going and all....but I am so afraid she's going to scare him off!! So what exactly do I do?

2007-03-12 19:23:56 · 12 answers · asked by ? 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

My gf and I have been together for a few months but we are in a long distance relationship. I sms her everyday and try to call her twice a week until we will be together again. The thing is that yesterday I sent her 2 sms and didn't get any answer from her. I sent one this evening and didn't get any answer yet...

Last week I asked her if she would be on internet and she said she would but i couldn't make it to be on to chat with her so I don't know if she is holding a little grudge over that :(

I am pretty sure that she is angry since she didn't reply, but I just want to know if you guys have any opinion about that?

Lastly should i call her tonight or leave it till she calls me back?

Loneliness makes people try to find answer here lol
Thanks for your feedbacks guys!

2007-03-12 19:23:46 · 10 answers · asked by theonoshi 2 in Singles & Dating

ok i've known him for almost three months now. yeah, we work at the same place. Truth is I cant say that I like him..up front! I searched him through myspace, and luckily he has one..who wouldn't..Lolz! yup,..now..im myspace-stalking him, sorta speak. FYI: he doesnt know that I know his myspace page. 0_0

So Im wondering If its Ok to just message him, out of nowhere, telling him that I LIKE him?

Or

Would you think Im some kind of myspace-stalker freak for searching you in myspace and saying some stupid s#!t like...
" I LIKE YOU"?

2007-03-12 19:22:41 · 12 answers · asked by db 2 in Singles & Dating

He told me to hang on for another day,he will tell me,whether he can make me happy or not,if he can make me happy,we will move on and he change for the better,to not cheat on me again.If he can't make me happy like he did last time,its over between e both of us.It was partly my fault too,coz i didnt love him at his worst state,i get carried away too much till i ask for a breakup,but for him,it still isnt over.He cheat on me by making frens with another girl and they fooled around in his car,that was when we were on e verge of breaking up(since i ask for it),n he told me its his fault coz he took e easiest way out,but fooling wif another girl.Until that girl called me and told me everything abt my bf,wen she knew im his partner.She realised it now though.But they were juz frens.My partner even told lies to her.I dont believe that once a cheater,is forever a cheater,i believe dat ppl change,but tell me,how do i trust his again??n he told me that his love for me was real.

2007-03-12 19:22:27 · 8 answers · asked by rose etoiles 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I am having a heart cath and stents procedure in about 9 hours and yet my mother just called me ( middle of the night) to start screaming at me about how i didn't stop an ice storm 2 years ago from ruining her stuff and then she starts telling me she hopes i die since i didn't save her stuff. Heck all my stuff, my sister's mothers stuff and my grandmothers stuff was ruined in the storm and yet she picks tonight of all nights to flip out on me. I told her i couldn't control the weather and that i couldn't deal with her problems right now and her reply was " Well i've never understood you anyhow so why don't you just die. I will be praying for your death". I am so upset that i just can't stop thinking about it and i can't sleep. Considering when i had surgery in Dec. i almost died ( my organs started shutting down) i can't believe what a cruel, heartless b**ch she is. I can't help believing she really wants me to die for something i had no control over. I know i need to calm down but how

2007-03-12 19:22:22 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

do you think I can score with a girl if i used this pickup line?

Its God's job to forgive terrorists, it my job to arrange the meeting

2007-03-12 19:22:22 · 19 answers · asked by PROUD TO BE A LIBERAL TEEN! 4 in Singles & Dating

I really like this guy but i don't want to make the first move and people say he likes me, but im not sure so how do you gte him to ask you? I need help please!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2007-03-12 19:21:17 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We where highschool sweethearts and together for 15 years. We have 2 small boys and lots of good times and memorys. Well about 3 months ago she had an affair and left for her new fling. She is still with him. I was a good husband and father and the other night when talking about the boys on the phone I asked her if she ever thought of me. Well she coldly said "NO". I was so hurt because I still have feelings for her. She acts like I was a jerk but I know how I was I was always there for her. Can somebody really turn off feelings after a 15 year relationship? Could it be the new guy brainwashing her? I should be the one pist off but I'm a really easy going guy. Is she lying and still thinks of me even around the ahole who fell for a married women?

2007-03-12 19:20:43 · 13 answers · asked by The best I can do 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-12 19:20:24 · 4 answers · asked by Optimus Prime 1 in Singles & Dating

It has been 3 months since I have been told by my wife's close lady friend that my wife told her she had an affair. I confronted my wife at the time and she said it was all an imagination story. At the time I believed her and we are still married, however it is bothering her when any there is any mention what was said by her lady friend and she just kept explaining that she only gave her a couple of drops of information and what her friend told me was blown-blown out to a lot of things she said that did not happen. My wife is tense when there is any mention about her friend and last night when she talked about her I asked what were "the two couple of drops" she told to her friend. My wife went furious and upset which now makes me believe she being trapped from her own secrets and perhaps lies and I think within time the truth will come out. Has any one had the similar experience?

2007-03-12 19:19:12 · 19 answers · asked by maleinaus 1 in Marriage & Divorce

How do you deal with an long distance relationship? Even though tha person is lyke 4 hours away, but dont hav long distance on there phone, so ya'll barely talk like 2 or 3 times a week? Do you make it work, or just let it burn? Also it only been a month of talking!!!

2007-03-12 19:19:11 · 11 answers · asked by Boss Lady 1 in Singles & Dating

because the sex was soo damn BAD!!! would you do it, why or why not? if it's not you because with every other person it was always good but with a certain person it's just plain bad. so would you?

2007-03-12 19:19:00 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

The wedding will be very big and we don't want uninvited intruders to attend the cermony. We are planning to have security guards at the gate to let in invited guests only.

2007-03-12 19:17:53 · 26 answers · asked by Michael H 1 in Weddings

The diamond was most small and the ring was very plain, didn't look like an engagement ring. No rings on her other hand.

2007-03-12 19:17:47 · 7 answers · asked by dirk 1 in Singles & Dating

i have experienced the death of two family members in less than two weeks. first my ex-husbands brother. i was close with him, but not that close, not family, like my grandfather that just went today, and that side of the family is a state away with drama. both had been sick and are in a more peaceful place now. however i am left with my grief.

2007-03-12 19:16:48 · 8 answers · asked by Aubrey A 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Okay So I have this really cute boyfriend,and I am in love with him like no other and he says he feels the same way,all my friends say to break up with him because he gets way to jealous.I'm not sure if it's love or obbsession or maybe both?I miss him and want to cry about how much I miss him,after about 20 minutes from when I left his house I started missing him so much.I want to be with him all the time.We talk 24/7 or when ever we have the chance to.

2007-03-12 19:15:39 · 12 answers · asked by Devil's Lil Hottie 2 in Singles & Dating

My girlfriend are going out on friday and its our 1 month aniversary. is taht a big deal? should i do something special? i guess im nervous im gonna run out of things to talk about or something will go wrong. any suggestions?

2007-03-12 19:15:36 · 4 answers · asked by blackbelt20 1 in Singles & Dating

my psycho MIL she wants it her way or its hell way shes too controlling wants things done only the way she wants if i dont listen then a fight breaks out with her insulting cursing me but i stay quiet,,i cant handle this now....im an adult not a kid im not about to go listen to her when my own parents dont tell me what to do not to mention whos gona listen to this insults im gona open my mouth but im controlling it due to my husband will fight with me more then he already does since she lies to him about things about me that r FALSE .shes a clean freak who comes in my room curses me out if i didnt quickly throw away my pepsi can as soon as it finished..i have to do things ASAP according to her and i dont feel relaxed i feel soooo annoyed and trapped...i have a little baby how do u expect this from me to be cleaning all day i takecare of the baby 24/7 is she human or what????

2007-03-12 19:15:19 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I want to love someone. What to do? But I m sure I love my gal sincerely.

2007-03-12 19:15:13 · 6 answers · asked by Arun k 1 in Singles & Dating

I am so tired. I'm very unlucky with men, I say this because guys who are around my age don't really seem interested in me; and if they're are, they're the guys who are usually married or already have a girlfriend. On the other hand, the men who actually want to have a relationship with me are those who are from 30-40 years of age. Right now there's atleast five 35 yr. olds who want to date me, but it's rare that a guy in his early 20's will want to date me. ps-- I'm 21, and NO I'm not ugly.

2007-03-12 19:14:05 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-12 19:13:56 · 12 answers · asked by upasana m 1 in Marriage & Divorce

...who lived in a different city asked you for a local friends phone number? If it's no-strings-at-all, would you still be upset?

2007-03-12 19:13:41 · 13 answers · asked by imnotachickenyoureaturkey 5 in Singles & Dating

Always can't reach orgasm the same time with my parthner...Don't know what wrong with me...sad...

2007-03-12 19:13:14 · 19 answers · asked by *Dolly girl* 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-12 19:12:52 · 14 answers · asked by Lothario 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-12 19:12:23 · 10 answers · asked by upasana m 1 in Marriage & Divorce

and how many of you go back and check to what someone wrote/commented when you get ten points

2007-03-12 19:11:03 · 1 answers · asked by krazy miss speler 06 2 in Singles & Dating

Now, my best guy friend and I have something of a thing for each other. So we talk on the phone and stuff. But sometimes I'll be like, hey, I miss you [we're on break, so I went outta town] and he'll say something like 'yeah'. Other times, he'll say I miss you too.
My question is, why would he say it sometimes, and other times, just 'yeah'?
This tends to happen whenever I say anything like that. Does it mean he doesn't feel the same way?
I don't know...I'm starting to really like him...
So do guys just naturally not say stuff like that back?
Any ideas at all would be helpful.
Thanks!
<3

2007-03-12 19:11:00 · 3 answers · asked by La Jardinière 2 in Singles & Dating

Not that i mind cause he is really cute!!.....but does it have any meaning at all. Sign he likes you??

2007-03-12 19:08:50 · 19 answers · asked by chickflick 1 in Singles & Dating