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Always can't reach orgasm the same time with my parthner...Don't know what wrong with me...sad...

2007-03-12 19:13:14 · 19 answers · asked by *Dolly girl* 2 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

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My girlfriend will prove some of these guys wrong as she always have multiple orgasm even before I reach. You cannot lie to someone that she is not reaching as the whole body trembles like a leave.
I have tried on other girls and they tremble too but a small percentage does not as I reach quicker than them as they are really hot.

2007-03-12 19:38:48 · answer #1 · answered by Cakebread 4 · 0 0

Are you having sex... or making love? Makes a BIG difference!

Is he reaching orgasm before you? Have either one of you ever considered different positions, explored other possibilities of making love? Maybe he's cumming too fast to give you a chance to reach your climax. Maybe both of you should seek the advice of a Sex Therapist who could probably help you correct this situation.

Or maybe it's time for you to find another partner who can help you reach orgasms.

2007-03-13 02:26:07 · answer #2 · answered by midnyt12 1 · 0 0

The vast majority of women don't reach orgasm through vaginal stimulation (i.e. intercourse) as the inner two thirds of the vagina are devoid of nerve endings along the vaginal wall. Most women achieve orgasm through clitoral stimulation. During intimacy, generally, stimulating the clitoris during intercourse is perfectly acceptable and, in many cases, even enhance the act of sexual congress. Experiment with this. You have nothing to lose and everything to gain. Good luck.

2007-03-13 02:27:24 · answer #3 · answered by rtanys 6 · 0 0

does he play around with you maybe try going down or some thing- how long does he last some girls reach orgasm about 20 minuets later

2007-03-13 02:16:07 · answer #4 · answered by The Inmmortal king 2 · 0 0

I used to have the same problem. I didn't have an orgasm until I got a "silver bullet". Go to the porn shop and buy you one. It's shaped like an egg, vibrates, and WILL get you off. Put it on your cl** and let your man go to town. Or do it yourself.

2007-03-13 02:21:18 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Yeah you need some oral, or some manual stimulation. Talk to your bf also and see if maybe you can bring in some toys or something. Do you ever orgasm? When you masterbate do you? If not then you should go see your Gyn.

2007-03-13 02:21:29 · answer #6 · answered by Betty R 3 · 0 0

Can't orgasm at the same time or not at all? If not at all then just climb on top and grind until you do ***, then let him ***. If you think he will *** before you then just slow down and make him wait! Or try oral first so that you know you will get yours also.

2007-03-13 02:17:08 · answer #7 · answered by my_own_frog 3 · 0 0

99 percent of people dont reach an orgasm with their partner. And the 1 percent who do....are telling you lies.

2007-03-13 02:16:58 · answer #8 · answered by papars 6 · 0 0

Maybe it's the partner that needs to take your needs into consideration and try to hold out for a bit and get you there before he or she goes off. (you didn't specify what gender).
Foreplay is a great way to start you off early, a massage works also. Just something to get you to relax and not try so hard.

2007-03-13 02:21:25 · answer #9 · answered by jimmer256 2 · 0 0

its ok. you are fine, actually what happens that men reach orgasm faster then females so ask him to play a little more with you after he attains the climax.

2007-03-13 02:21:18 · answer #10 · answered by Khurram 3 · 0 0

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