i have experienced the death of two family members in less than two weeks. first my ex-husbands brother. i was close with him, but not that close, not family, like my grandfather that just went today, and that side of the family is a state away with drama. both had been sick and are in a more peaceful place now. however i am left with my grief.
2007-03-12 19:16:48 · 8 answers · asked by Aubrey A 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
well i made it to sobing uncontrollably. i was fine. i went to lay down and take a nap and the cat knocked down a glass of water, i got up to clean it and i think the dog pissed in the bed. i am so hot and turned on the A/C pissed off and cleaning i throw the glasses that spilt water into the kitchen and broke a new vintage bowl i really liked. made me cry more and feel more bad. and i have to stop crying. i have to feed my daughter. i am so mad i broke that bowl and i got so pissed off. there are many other bowls i could have broke not that one. it feels like every time i try to get up i just get pushed back down again.
2007-03-13 12:26:14 · update #1
we all live to die and it is a hard thing to deal with when we lose loved ones. i just laid my 19 year old healthy daugther to rest yesterday. they are in better place now. no pain no drama and no worries. life is to short to have all these things take control of our lifes. we are not promised tomorrow no matter what age we are or how healthy we may be I think we all forget that .when its time for us to go we are going. dont take things for granted and step up to family and let them know you are there for them regardless of wants going on they may not be tomorrow.
2007-03-12 19:31:40 · answer #1 · answered by bonnie_clyde_4u 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Things happen. My ex-gf's uncle and grandmother died within a day in the hospital after a car accident. THat is much worst because things happened so fast.
Other members of the family were hospitalized with injuries as well.
It's okay to grief. It takes time for things to get back to normal. Don't force yourself to bring things back now. Allow nature to take its course.
2007-03-13 02:27:47 · answer #2 · answered by Jivan S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's natural to have grief, that's how the process go. It's not good to hold it in, and it's always OK just cry. Soon enough you will always remember the good times, even if you wasn't close to the person. And like you said they are in a greater place.
2007-03-13 02:23:07 · answer #3 · answered by Crystal H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Many more deaths take place. Common to everybody. Tsunami killed tens of some families. If born, death is sure. Learn in Buddhism.
2007-03-13 02:21:55 · answer #4 · answered by indike111 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know how you feel. it's funny how it kinda works that way! I went so long with no deaths and then all of a sudden 2 of my friends died and then a couple of months later my grandmother did!
It will get better as each day comes !!
PROMISE
2007-03-13 02:19:48 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It takes time for everything to heal.I had a friend that her family and friends would die in fives, I felt so sorry for her. I hope you feel better soon.
2007-03-13 02:22:48 · answer #6 · answered by bluemoon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
everything will be o.k. because you understand the meaning of death., both are in a better place.. just live life to its fulliest...
2007-03-13 02:37:46 · answer #7 · answered by alicia K 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know how you feel.
2007-03-13 02:19:36 · answer #8 · answered by J C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋