Guys - How would you feel if a friend with benefits...?

Question

...who lived in a different city asked you for a local friends phone number? If it's no-strings-at-all, would you still be upset?

I'm the one asking for his friend's number because his friend lives in the same city as me and is way cool. I'm not looking to bone his friend, I just met him and we got along like pb&j so I want to reach out to him.

Answer 1

I wouldn't be upset if it's just a friends with benefits relationship..

Answer 2

I have had a friends with benefits relationship on a couple of occasions and there are some unwritten rules that make things operate smoothly. The most important rule is:

It is ok to be sleeping with other people... as long as they dont know about eachother.

Even when we know we are not... We like to think we are the only one around for you. It makes things feel good. So in short... dont ask for the number.. get it without him knowing or just find someone else.... it isnt that hard.

Answer 3

Yeah...cuz there is no such thing as having sex with someone and having NOOOOO feelings at all whatsoever for them. If you were like that...you'd be a complete whore. When my guy friend saw me get jealous he always thought it was soo cute even though we weren't together, just sexually, and he would always assure me that I was his favorite. Kinda weird I know. So yeah you can feel jealous, but if it bothers you that much, just see if you can be together. Try that out. Obviously you have feelins for him...but watch out cuz he seems unsatisfied with just one "friend." In the end, gettin a boyfriend is much more satisfying then doing the friend wit benefits things. THat gets old. It's kind of a waste of time too. I'm looking for someone to be with... but it's funny cuz my boyfriend started out like that so. . . who knows. Hope you figure it out!

Answer 4

If you're upset if that friends w/ benefits is looking else where that that mean you have feelings for them and you need to express them before you become the one hurt in the end

Answer 5

Yea well i would because alot of the time guys will start to get feelings for a friend with benefits

It would probaly hurt

altho im not like all guys

Answer 6

in case you do no longer experience to blame then you certainly shouldn't additionally be alongside with your boyfriend surprisingly once you do no longer care you have no longer talked to him for 3 weeks. do no longer tell him approximately what got here approximately alongside with your 'pal' yet in the past you enable it go any further i might say smash up with him cos certainly it appears like neither of you're that afflicted approximately preserving the courting additionally you asserting he in no way calls you leads me to ask possibly he's doing a similar element in the back of you returned? in case you enable it persist with your pal at the same time as nonetheless alongside with your boyfriend it could purely bring about a grotesque/messy way and you will likely experience sorry approximately it.

Answer 7

That's not right. By the way, you should do the same. Ask him for one of his friend's number, and see how he reacts.

Answer 8

why would u be upset if he is just your f'u'c'k'i'n'g' buddy? it means u have no feelings to him, strings or no strings. if u feel upset face it woman - u have feelings. and boy it sucks that he likes someone else

Answer 9

No. Friends with benefits means just that...

Answer 10

you will probably hurt his feelings. get the guy's # form someone else. then again, if all you are is friends with benifits, he just might not care. i say play them both till it blows up in your face.