I am so tired. I'm very unlucky with men, I say this because guys who are around my age don't really seem interested in me; and if they're are, they're the guys who are usually married or already have a girlfriend. On the other hand, the men who actually want to have a relationship with me are those who are from 30-40 years of age. Right now there's atleast five 35 yr. olds who want to date me, but it's rare that a guy in his early 20's will want to date me. ps-- I'm 21, and NO I'm not ugly.
2007-03-12 19:14:05 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
That happens to me alot too. The reason is is that guys your age are very very very very very inmature and dont want a relationship right at this moment and if so then they are rare to find, trust me.
But the guys that want something from you and are alot older than you want a pretty thing and they know that you are mature for your age and they are looking for the same thing or they just want a piece of young ***. Dont get me wrong but its true with us young ladies out there. I go through the same horse **** with guys too that are that older. Plus they want to be seen with a young lady too for whatever reasons.
But honestly it really depends on you and what you want from a guy whether he be young or old. For me i prefer someone young like around my age. But thats just me. For you i dont know what you want. But make sure that it is for the right reasons to date you and want more with you (im talking about the older men too) and not for the wrong as in most older men want a younger lady around your age b/c one, he wants putang, two, its fresh, sweet, and tight, three, he wants a young girl b/c of mainly the intercourse and to show you off pretty much. Just be careful. Use your better judgement and make up your mind on what you want from a young or older gentleman.
2007-03-12 19:27:33 · answer #1 · answered by fryeindustries2002 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have a hard time believing you can't find a guy your age. maybe you are a b*tch.(i'm not judging, only guessing) the reason older guys are interestsd is because most 21 yr old girls run around in tight clothes with their hard bodies. it looks so hot. girls over 30 are usually more conservative, which is not as attractive. also they are interested in relationships because they have had their fun and are ready to settle down. if you are asking this because you find yourself interested in an older guy, i'd say go for it. if you want a guy your own age, but can't find one, then maybe it's time to take stock of yourself to find out what's wrong with you. any attractive 21 yr old girl can get just about any guy they want.(unless she is a b*tch)
2007-03-12 19:33:00 · answer #2 · answered by jeffrey m 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
there must be something about you that attracts those old men...maybe older men love women your age, who are fun and mature. Guys in the early 20's are just transitioning from their kid stage to early adults and not many of them are mature. So, maybe they might not be looking for the type of girls like you.
2007-03-12 19:22:47 · answer #3 · answered by =P 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that happens to most girls...I am your age and I always have older men flirt with me and ask me out...but I have a bf...you have just got to keep looking or you can just stop looking maybe a guy your age fall in your lap
2007-03-12 19:19:52 · answer #4 · answered by djsbabygirl2005 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't have a clue about the younger guys.. but i know why the older men do.. they want a young girl to brag to their friends about.
2007-03-12 19:18:55 · answer #5 · answered by . 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe that is a good thing...Your cloud has a silver lining.
Stay away from the married men and set
yourself up as a "trophy wife" for a man 30 - 50 yrs. old..
Find a nice mature, secure, well to do / wealthy man with
nice credit, career, home, cars, credit, stability etc etc.
who will love and care for you..
Investigate him carefully....Credit Check etc...He is a long term investment....Do your homework...Check his previous marriages / family / child support / alimony / insurance / Criminal record / Assets / Family background...
Get a good Pre-Nup to protect you in the event of death or divorce....It is as easy to love a rich man as it is a poor man
and a lot less stressful and more fun....
2007-03-12 19:23:19 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Maybe you are perceived as intimidating to them? What is wrong with you making a move? Why always wait for the guy to do something?
2007-03-12 19:21:32 · answer #7 · answered by ppodjames 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you are too matured for these younger boys. Ps those who are already involved - stay away. That's just looking for trouble.
2007-03-12 19:19:15 · answer #8 · answered by maverick 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WOW! Would you let me date with you? Im 21 too. Same age same style same attitude all the time. Mischievous, Mysterious, Cuty, Rrrrry! (cat purs)
Wait a second! I know what you're thinking about.
"Pfft. Man!"
2007-03-12 19:21:09 · answer #9 · answered by alsear 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
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2016-10-18 06:16:22 · answer #10 · answered by corbo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋