Family & Relationships - 12 March 2007

My gf went to myrtle beach a couple of days ago with her uncle aunt and her uncles friend that she had never met one night we got into an argument and i broke up with her but i didnt mean it and she knew it even after that she said she loved me and that she would not hurt me while she was there when she got back she told me that she made out with her uncles friend she is 16 and he is 22 i am 18 What hurts the most is that she only knew him for 1 day and she made out with him 5 hours after we broke up And he is so much older. she also slept in the same bed as he did in a separate room from her uncle and aunt. She tells me that she just did it cause she could and that she was mad at me and he was so nice to her. she says she regrets it and that she will never do it again. she says that she kinda felt pressured. is she in the wrong. she says she loves me but how can she if she made out with a guy 5 hours after we play breakup with a guy she knew for less than a day. can i take her bac

2007-03-12 18:49:10 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

she is gone craze about me . she started dissucing her personal things with me . very personal things about _______&________

2007-03-12 18:49:10 · 13 answers · asked by Venkat N 1 in Friends

i get good grades but my parents dont seem to care and its like im not even part of the family how can i feel good about myself if people are constintly putting me down.

2007-03-12 18:48:43 · 5 answers · asked by jones_soda_co._lover 2 in Friends

Okay we just moved and at our old house my window didnt have a screen but my window now does have a screen and i cant get it off unless i tear it which i dont want to do cause my mom could easily notice it and im too scared to sneek out of the front or back door because they both make ALOT of noise...so can someone please help me out with this!!

2007-03-12 18:48:38 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

if a girl you've never talked to from school stares or glances at you when your not looking ...like everyday...but then stops completely the next week....does it mean shes lost interest? or becoming shy or something

2007-03-12 18:48:21 · 5 answers · asked by Regular Guy 1 in Singles & Dating

you talk to a guy awhile and things some to be going great and you start thinking he likes you or something when you have to go and he says he will talk to you tomorrow but you like never talk to him again why do guys do that?

2007-03-12 18:47:34 · 4 answers · asked by Charli W 2 in Singles & Dating

When a woman finally invites you to her home . . . What is a " red flag " concern for you that makes you want to leave real soon ? . . . Cutesy decor ? Type of decor or artwork ? Too romantic ? Too clean ? Too messy ? Or . . . what do you think ? What is a " red flag " for you about a woman's home ?
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2007-03-12 18:46:19 · 6 answers · asked by onelight 5 in Singles & Dating

me and this girl have been dating for 1 week now we now consider each other boyfriend/girlfriend we both said we love spending time with each other. about how long do you need to be dating to give a girl a kiss?

2007-03-12 18:46:08 · 12 answers · asked by will 1 in Singles & Dating

I recently did something that made me feel elated. It reminded me of what it was like to be in love and to feel love back. However, it meant that I was disloyal to my partner. I never thought I would do something like that. But the positive emotion that I had made it 'feel' right. Perhaps I was using the feeling as an excuse, or do I have the right to feel this way to live fully?

2007-03-12 18:45:35 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

especially if the two of you planned to marry in the future. both sides of the families like each other and said that the two of you made a beautiful couple. I
have not seen the guy in 2 weeks because i caught him with another female. he really disrespected me and hurt me. granted we were not officially together, but we would see each and spend time with each other. he lead me to believe that he wanted to start our relationship over. but then this happend, and now i dont want anything to do with him. i do love him and still care about him and i keep thinking about the situation and it makes me sick, i am sad most of the time. i dont want to continue with my job, i know that is a foolish thing to say, i am just unhappy right now.

2007-03-12 18:45:31 · 9 answers · asked by caramelpop 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-12 18:43:13 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-12 18:42:41 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I hv a bf and we jz broke up last week..I don't know how to recover coz I wake up every morning and sleep at nyt weeping and I always remeber him. I gave him everything, all I need is a little trust..however, it looks like we're not makin any reconciliation..I don't know how to move on...I'm drowned in his memories and I still love him...but I don't think he feels the same...please give me good advice... I really need help..I fear God and I don't want to commit suicide...but everytime I thought of him, I wanted to scream to death just to forget him...please help me...somebody

2007-03-12 18:42:41 · 10 answers · asked by joysticks_21 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I usually give her about 20$ a week to spend on herself, and she has been doing her wifely duties to my satisfaction. How much should I increase per week?

2007-03-12 18:42:41 · 30 answers · asked by Lothario 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Well first of all in band, one of the saxaphone players admit to me that he likes me alot. I have never imagined it since at first i thougt he liked my friend. Now the bad part is i have a crush on his cousin! what if saxaphone player asks me out, but i dont really want to... because i like his cousin. Also, if i do go out with him, his cousin will probably think i like him too! HELP!

2007-03-12 18:41:32 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

what's up? I find most guys make smart mouth comments that sound threatening to me. I don't like talking to very many of them. Why do they talk so ugly when I am hearing them? Do they do this all the time? I find their talk beneath me. I have a hard time finding guys to hold a half decent conversation with! Is it me or is it just them?

BTW, it's hard to find a man to date since I can't find a good conversation first!

Help me. Give me your advice!

2007-03-12 18:40:07 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i want to meet a girl but not at a bar i need someone who is not all about partying. when i meet some stranger what can i say to not weird her out and keep her interest.

2007-03-12 18:39:39 · 13 answers · asked by bs99dan 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-12 18:39:31 · 4 answers · asked by Nat555 2 in Singles & Dating

I grew up without a father & now seem to be falling for older men all the time. Is it because I am looking for a father figure or is it because older men are naturally loyal and trustworthy?

2007-03-12 18:39:27 · 6 answers · asked by amy 1 in Singles & Dating

last time we mate on valentine day, every thing was good till that and after that also we were talking over the phone but when their parents came to meet her before holi, from that day she is not talking with me, please help me.

2007-03-12 18:38:24 · 5 answers · asked by yashwant 1 in Singles & Dating

Husband and I are still legally married. He was emotionally abusive and finally, I had enough and left him over two months ago. I am claiming my life again for me and our 3 yr old daughter. My question is about my new car. My parents bought me a late model Honda so I can get to work and back and so I can take my daughter out and about. Can my husband sue for the car? Can I be forced to sell it and split the money with him? He was not supposed to know I got it and my mom went and e-mailed a photo of me in the car to gloat about my newfound independence. If I am told I have to sell it, my parents and I decided I would sell it to them for 10 cents and send him a nickel. But considering it is a gift from them and my family, can he even legally do anything? Is it now considered a "marriage asset" since we are still legally married?

2007-03-12 18:37:49 · 9 answers · asked by Ghost Writer 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-12 18:37:31 · 27 answers · asked by bperez2002 3 in Singles & Dating

I like really like this guy, but he's like oceans away and I'm a physical person. I want someone to be there when I need and do the same for him. I want actual interaction. Do u guys think it works? I know it happened before but like for someone who needs physical attention, is it worth a shot?

2007-03-12 18:37:21 · 6 answers · asked by RC 3 in Singles & Dating

Okay so this guy is my friend and he always tells me who he likes but this time he is being secretive and forcing me to guess. And he is being very quite about it , but at the same time, he is acting normal to me, sometimes insulting me! But he was sooo nice to the the other girls he liked! Does he like me this time???

2007-03-12 18:35:16 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

divorced w/2 kids and would like to go out of town but earliest flight back would mean kids need to come home 2hrs later than usual...he has refused to take holidays before saying that he won't know where I've gone or who I'm with which I don't think should be much of his concern. I always have my cell phone if something comes up. I'm not sure how to handle this.

2007-03-12 18:34:59 · 6 answers · asked by baconbit 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Hey. How are you? Ever since we stopped talking, (me and her haven't talked for ten months) I had been going over everything in my head, trying to figure out what I was doing wrong. You know, I still remember what you said to me the last time we talked, the things you were mad at me about. I remember the first thing you said was that I harassed you. It's kind of funny really, that was the last thing I ever wanted to do to you but I guess I did anyway. If you said that because I called you every weeknight, it as only because when we were at school we'd only talk for two minutes. I never really got to talk to you when it'd be just me and you. Even when I called, someone else would always call. I was always afraid that I was doing something wrong to make you not like me. I also remember that you told me I obsessed over you. I guess I did and I'm sorry, But what boy wouldn't obsess over an amazing, wonderful, smart, talented, funny, beautiful girl like you? Especially if he didn't want to

2007-03-12 18:34:41 · 4 answers · asked by Icebox -0: Never Again 5 in Singles & Dating

We were working on a project and he stopped by to se if I had figured out which website I wanted to use on this project. I said I hadn't figured it out yet. I stood there looking at him and I stepped forward...wanting to kiss him. He stared back like he knew I wanted something...maybe just wanted to say something...maybe just wanted to shut the door. But he didn't get his kiss. He just walked away.

Do you think he could tell I wanted to kiss him???

2007-03-12 18:34:27 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I found a guy that I went to high school with on Myspace. I added him. The next day I get a e-mail saying "Do you want to have sex" So I responded maybe.. But then he responded back, we should hang out sometime. What do you think? I said yea sure. Should I go hang out with him?

2007-03-12 18:33:38 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Whats a nice thank you gift for my bridesmaids?

2007-03-12 18:33:26 · 15 answers · asked by Angel1 1 in Weddings

when I first started dating my wife I told her i would never marry a smoker and well sure enough she quit I felt it was great that she thought enough of me to do it . and not just for me but she had 2 kids who begged her to quit. well 3 months into our marriage I catch her she tells me shes been doing it about a month ..this floored me .and it hurt awful I feel very betrayed .she tells me I have to except it that she did it when i 1st met her.. but she wasnt doing it when I married her.or I wouldn't have married her ..we have fought all nite over this now she is asleep and I am sick and unable to sleep.I do not know what to do I love her but now do not trust her .because she hide this from me ..and feel now that she doesnt love me as she once did .I need help because as of now .I feel our love is alomost over and so is marriage .

2007-03-12 18:33:12 · 12 answers · asked by kevin p 2 in Marriage & Divorce