I like really like this guy, but he's like oceans away and I'm a physical person. I want someone to be there when I need and do the same for him. I want actual interaction. Do u guys think it works? I know it happened before but like for someone who needs physical attention, is it worth a shot?
2007-03-12 18:37:21 · 6 answers · asked by RC 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I know, I'm not like ... oh I need someone to hold right away, but u know... I would like someone to comfort me and someone to comfort when there are struggles. I mean chatting online and pone is not really effective. Also, how about dating... it's also not the best way to get to know him.
2007-03-12 18:45:20 · update #1
hey girl if u need physical person so leave the guy that is away to see his life as you need someone near you and u r not wrong you need someone beside you and that's a right for you soo.. good luck and don't lose the guy just be friends may be one day you see each other then you'll never leave him because he'll be there for you.. take care sweetie..byee
2007-03-12 18:44:33 · answer #1 · answered by Someone 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I were you, I wouldnt invest your time into this guy because you obviously WANT and need physical attention. This guy cant give you that, well thats only if he's willing to move to you or vice versa. But if that guy doesnt have what you need, then no matter how much you love this guy, the distance will eventually tear apart your relationship slowly. So, find some guys near your area so that they can give you the atention you want. Im sure there are guys that are good for you around your area.
2007-03-13 01:46:15 · answer #2 · answered by =P 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on how long it would be a long distance relationship. If it would be a while then I would say it's a bad idea, you won't have the physical interaction that you are wanting, then that could just lead to you cheating or breaking up with him. Talk to him and see if there is something you can do to get closer together...or just stay friends until you actually are together.
2007-03-13 01:43:31 · answer #3 · answered by my_own_frog 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't try too hard. this may be a lost cause. relationships have many levels and physical interation is one of them. holding hands, a kiss on the cheek, a hug, etc. all part of the big picture. but if the spiritual connection is strong enough to outweigh the physical part, then give it a shot.
2007-03-13 01:41:54 · answer #4 · answered by that boi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think it will work especially if you are just starting. Long distance for people who have been together for so long most of the time didnt work out what more if just in the bloom of the relationship.
2007-03-13 01:42:34 · answer #5 · answered by icene_06 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
den i think its better to find someone else that can be with you physically....if not its hard to maintain the relationship....
2007-03-13 01:41:50 · answer #6 · answered by Josephine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋