I've got this close friend. She kept on hurting my feelings. Saying how I don't look nice, and that I should colour my hair. She made negative comments on almost everything I did, like how I don't wear my uniform the fashion way, and then she also added, "even if you did, it won't look nice on you".
She'd be nice to me when she wanted to copy my homework, or when she needs me. And after that, she would tease me. And make mean comments and jokes to me. I tried to tell her I don't like the 'jokes' once, but she got mad and told everyone I can't even take a joke.
How can I tell her that I don't like the way she's treating me?? Is she still my friend? What if she still thinks Ithat I'm her friend? I don't want to hurt her feelings. Please help! THANK YOU.
2007-03-12 20:35:02 · 6 answers · asked by No-one 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
This girl sounds like a cow but just try and show you can't be walked all over on. Tell her nicely and calmly that you don't like the way she treats you. If it goes on again then just walk away, you'll probably be better off without her anyway. I'd say she still thinks you're "friends" but just tell her that if she doesn't start acting like one, then you're going to find someone who will.
2007-03-12 20:58:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have already answered this question yourself !
She is not a friend YOU need ..
You seem to be a very nice person, thinking about her feelings, thinking about being her friend ....
But you deserve the same treatment !!!
... and not just because you write your homework, which she can copy !
So tell her (in a polite way), that you wanted to be her friend, and you wanted to accept her "friendly criticism", and you would like to understand her sense of humor ... but unfortunately, you DO NOT ... and you prefer another type of friend, as she obviously does, too !
2007-03-13 04:00:56 · answer #2 · answered by GBH 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well look sweetie you sound like a really nice person why would you even let someone treat you that way. This girl seems to me like she is just using you so you need to tell her straight. Be like "LOOK this is about to stop if you can't respect me enough to talk to me like a human and treat me like a real friend would treat someone you need to get lost because I don't need that. Just tell em like it is and don't take any S*** off of them. The worst thing you can do is let someone run you over.
2007-03-13 03:42:55 · answer #3 · answered by Robin M 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
no she's not. she's just using you darl. Why don't you just tell her off,ask her to stop. it didn't matter what others want to say, what matter most is that you make your stand. those rumours and stuffs will deplete on its own over time. so don't worry. if she treat you that way, and didn't consider your feelings, why should you consider her feelings? sometimes in life, you need to toughen things up. its for ur own benefits. why let them happy when uyourself is in misery? sometimes its good to be self-centered. you got your own life to woory too you know
2007-03-13 03:51:49 · answer #4 · answered by miemie 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
she's not ur friend she just makes fool of u only.try to ignore her existence n keep ur distance from her.turn ur deaf ears to her.
2007-03-13 03:42:59 · answer #5 · answered by robert KS LEE. 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
she likes your twat. trust me i no her kind.
2007-03-13 03:52:04 · answer #6 · answered by ihate c 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋