was either you or your husband/wife a virgin when you met?
If not does it bother you knowing that they lost their virginity to someone else and are now spending "forever" with you?
2007-03-12 20:25:57 · 11 answers · asked by lady_luv 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
No, my wife was not a virgin....and neither was I. It doesn't bother me, because it is best to have a little "experience". I'm just glad that she picked me for her husband, and not the other guy.....because she was more satisified with me.
2007-03-12 20:33:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If someone lost their virginity to someone else, it means that they know something about sex. They know they want to be with you, if it is you they have chosen. Virgins must always be wondering what it would be like with someone else...if you can get this out of your system first, surely it is a good thing? I wouldn't want to live with a virgin forever, I would feel I was depriving them of knowledge that is their birthright.
2007-03-12 21:05:41 · answer #2 · answered by katy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope and not at all. Virginity isn't special. I wasn't a virgin either and no, I don't think about my 'first time' or pine over the guy I 'lost' my virginity to or the other men I've slept with since then and before meeting my love. The whole 'emotional attachement' bunk is meant to scare women away from enjoying sex and there is absolutely no basis for it in reality unless we're talking about people with personality and attachement disorders.
2007-03-12 20:46:43 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
Yes we were both virgins when we first got together we have been together for 12 years and 4 children later we are still very happy.
2007-03-13 02:11:16 · answer #4 · answered by butterflybaby 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, my ex husband was a virgin when we met and it was horrible! We were married 16 yrs. and he always regretted never having other women, so he went out and cheated. He had a porn addiction problem and was always trying to talk me into a 3some! Marry someone with experience and who has sewn their wild oats!
2007-03-12 22:48:27 · answer #5 · answered by LISA E 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We were both virgins, but we lost our virginity to each other before getting married...still we are together and were each others first
2007-03-12 20:31:13 · answer #6 · answered by bubbles 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They were all non-virgins. I could care less. I'd rather have some other guy "de-flower" them as it is a brutish experience they tell me.
2007-03-12 22:28:07 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope and glad of it Virgins are no fun at all.
2007-03-12 20:52:55 · answer #8 · answered by Free-Lance 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
No, what bothers me is being asked personal information by somebody who has nothing else to do but pry in other people lives.
2007-03-12 20:33:39 · answer #9 · answered by msthinkpositive 5 · 0⤊ 4⤋
No, but neither was I.
2016-12-13 23:20:41 · answer #10 · answered by Rebecca 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋