I have a friend who's completely in love with a guy who already has a girlfriend, because he TOTALLY flirts with her and leads her on. and he knows it, he's "In love" with his girlfriend but is telling my friend that he wants to go out with her. He's completely making my friend think he likes her more then his gf, but he's told me hes completely in love with his girlfriend, and not my friend. If he really liked her wouldnt he break up with his gf?! I dont want my friend to get hurt! wat should i do?!
2007-03-12 20:43:45 · 8 answers · asked by LoveLoveLoveU 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Tell your friend the truth about Romeo. It might be hard to burst her bubble, but she needs to know. The only thing this loser is going to do is break her heart-if she keeps having false hope, she's going to be missing out on a lot. If by some miracle he does break up with his girlfriend and starts going out with your friend, he's going to do the same thing to her. Either way, she's going to be hurt, humiliated and heartbroken. It's best to get it over with now rather than let him keep making a fool out of her. After you tell her, encourage her to find a guy that's not going to use her and treat her like sh*t. Most of all, just be ready with the tissues, time to listen, and the Ben & Jerry's. Because that's what real friends are for.
2007-03-12 21:43:44 · answer #1 · answered by dmarie2101 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look, he's just carrying on with both & wants to have his cake & eat it too. He's clear trouble.
He has to choose one, It doesnt work out otherwise.
your friend loves him. She can ask him how he would feel if she did the same with him & another guy.
she must know that if she's not respected in the relation by him in this way, it has no meaning. She will be so wrecked up. I've seen it happen.
Why should she pay the price of him being confused/ flirty or whatever.
See he has to decide, which of the two girls he loves & who's his friend.
Your friend better be brave. I've seen someone go through this. Its not worth it & it will never end. This is like drugging oneself-- getting high & ruining oneself.
She must clarify with him & face upto the reality. If they are meant to be together in future, no one can stop it.
But right now, either he clears things or she takes a break for while.
After which both will realise where the relation is headed.
2007-03-13 04:17:55 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is obviously a liar. If he were "completely" in love with his gf he would have enough respect for her to not flirt with other women behind her back.
On the other hand, if they have an open relationship in which they permit eachother to have other relationships, then it's cool.
But, how does your friend feel about being the other woman?
2007-03-13 04:53:35 · answer #3 · answered by ERIC W 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the only thing you can do is to tell the truths and what you feel honestly to your friend. She got to decide for herself whther to stop seeing that guy and move on or carry on like this and she will get hurt.... just be there for her. Cos sometimes, people need to learn lessons the hard way... if she refuse to take your advice.... then, you can do nothing else already. So ask her out asap and see how things goes......
2007-03-13 04:00:11 · answer #4 · answered by Josephine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try being honest with her and let her know what he said. I can tell you what happened to me once. The friend got me on the phone and asked me questions while the "friend" listened on the other line. Good thing I had the right answers but you can imagine what could have happened.
2007-03-13 03:51:57 · answer #5 · answered by jimmer256 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know what u are saying. But u know what? Tell him to stop messin w/ ur friends feelings. See my bf is doin that w/ some other girl so i know what u are talkin about. I don't want anyone gettin hurt over this boy. But just talk to ur bestfriend and him... Good luck to ya
2007-03-13 03:50:55 · answer #6 · answered by Ashley 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he isnt in love with his girlfriend if hes talking like this to your friend, hes just looking for some extra sex on the side. tell her hes totally bad for her and if he would cheat on the woman hes with he would cheat on her too.
2007-03-13 03:48:38 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your loyalty lies with your friend. Tell her the truth, every word that he told you you tell her and then you know that the matter is out of your hands. It's up to her thereon up.
2007-03-13 04:11:42 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋