Family & Relationships - 18 February 2007

Please read the pt 1
So tonight I told her I wasn't going to sleep on the floor anymore....
she beat the crap out of me and even split my lip.
Now she wants to have make up sex so what do you think she's trying to get across?

2007-02-18 16:50:00 · 12 answers · asked by open_phunguy 3 in Marriage & Divorce

When a girl says your her best friend but she will never go out with you,do she really value you that much?Does that make the guys she goes out with expendable or something?

2007-02-18 16:49:18 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been talking to a guy whom I know just like the others I have met, isn't interested in me. He tells me i'm wonderful but at the same time gives my advice on how to meet the right guy (if I'm so great, why is he passing me by?). He is a nice guy but it bothers me that he has 2 young children (he is mid 50's and I presumed when his profile mentioned children they would be grown). He has a good job and makes good money but said that most of his money goes to child support and sending his kids to an expensive private school. I can't help but feel that his priorities would always be with his children even if he were to marry. As a woman I would like to find a guy who would buy me a few nice things and have time for me. I would feel resentful of him spending all his money on his kids and exwife (child support even though the kids live with him more than they do the ex wife). I would like to be able to travel and stuff but with both kids under 10, that would be impossible

2007-02-18 16:49:00 · 4 answers · asked by reallyfedup 5 in Singles & Dating

I have been dealing with this guy for quite some time. We had always been friends, but recently it has evolved into something more. We talk on the phone everyday, we hang out often (sometimes I even sneak and stay the night with him in his dorm room), and I recently lost my virginity to him.
IMO, things are pretty serious between us, yet we still don't have an official title. Even our friends wonder what's the deal with us. I know I want to be with him, but I'm afraid he's not ready to commit.
The other day he called said he wanted to talk to me about something face-to-face. After we hung up he sent me a message saying he was nervous, but he was confident that everything was going to be ok no matter what my reaction was. Like any normal person, I had been thinking about this all weekend. We planned on meeting up earlier today to have our "talk," but he replied to my text mess.: "Not tonight. I gtg catch up on some work."
So now here I am wondering what to do...should I pursue a commitment or should we just remain friends?

2007-02-18 16:47:49 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

She is hot as hell and we have the best sex in the world. However I think we are better friends then any thing. She likes to play around and party too much.
However I hate him and don't want to feel like I am losing to him.

2007-02-18 16:47:41 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I am 7mos pregnant and my fiance and i called it quits. Its been very hard on me, especially being pregnant. What should I do to lift my spirits? We been having problems and I feel like we made the best decision.

2007-02-18 16:47:35 · 12 answers · asked by babygyrl 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My stepmother?
My father refuses to get married to her through the church so she is planning hurt my father. One of her “good” friends tells my father every thing and supposedly my stepmother is planning on saying my father rap ed her, is always treating her badly, that she does not feel safe taking a shower with me in the house. Even worse for me she may be planning to have me jumped by people!’
I am all ready under a lot of stress.

My actions so far have been considering proclaiming I am gay (I am BI sort of) and puting gay p orn in to my hard drive and I have placed a spell on her, her sister in law, and one of her friends. I have also told my psychiatrist every thing I know. Also other than my closest friend no one knows about my psychiatrist.

What else can I do?

(they are going to get divorced because married by the state is not good enough for her)

2007-02-18 16:45:30 · 1 answers · asked by fcsd w 1 in Family

"You disgust me and I wish I never met you. Your trash just like the girl you got pregnant and you belong with her, you are two of a kind, you are both alike in many ways, you are coward and I truly hate you!"For the record...he left me to be with a one night stand he got pregnant before we met, I helped him come to terms with it because he was a coward and couldnt face it only to leave me to get to know her, and I found out while I was in the hospital, and he was with her. He was so cruel to me and told me never to call me again. I never did anything to him but help him. Anyhow, they aren't together anymore, because I think he realizes she is not all there. But I want to know, no matter how defensive he got, do you think that hurt him?? Please dont tell me to grow up, we are in our twenties and if you only knew what he put me through. I do want him to hurt and regret what he did. Sorry but its the truth. I also told him my family and friends know what happened. I know he was very

2007-02-18 16:45:24 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-02-18 16:45:18 · 12 answers · asked by tracie_thrower 1 in Singles & Dating

we dated for about 6 months, and it got a little to serious for her, or she felt she wasnt what i was looking for. even though i know she is. im really excited to have some time alone with her again, but i dont want to do anything stupid, or move too fast. do you think i should try and make a move, or just play it cool and not try anything.

we've been talking everyday since we broke up. although we've had a few altercations on the weekends while out partying, i think everything has gone well. i want to give her time but i cant stand being away from her.

anyway, for anyone whos been in a situation like this, some advice would be great. thanks

2007-02-18 16:44:51 · 6 answers · asked by lenly36 1 in Singles & Dating

well... i love my boyfriend. however i think he is so clongy to his friends. like some times we go out and he will ask his friends to come along. i am not really close to his friends. and i think they are being very extra, in the sense that we cannot walk at our own pace and have to follow them. and its hard to be intimate with his friends around us. some times he would just walk off with his friends and leave me alone. which i find very irritating. how do i get him to spend more personal time with me and not cling to much to his friends?

2007-02-18 16:44:12 · 6 answers · asked by apple-licious 3 in Singles & Dating

so about a month ago i broke up with my ex-boyfriend...we were together for two years. a week and a half after we broke up a really good friend of mine asked me to be his girlfriend and i said no cuz i wasnt ready and i wasnt ready to move on. the day after valentine's day i came to the conclusion that i was ready to move on and that new horizons were ahead. so we basically skipped the asking part and we're together now. the thing is....is that he hasnt had a g/f in a while and the only person i know is my ex....how do i get passed the akward phase??? i think he's too nervous to kiss me, let alone hold my hand but the point is, is that i need to get rid of the akwardness of us going from best friends to being together. any ideas? tips? please help, all ideas welcome!!!

2007-02-18 16:41:55 · 12 answers · asked by crazyskeeterboo 2 in Singles & Dating

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thanks

2007-02-18 16:41:45 · 3 answers · asked by nmwando 1 in Singles & Dating

i'm in love with someone and he's in love with me, but i still mess around with my ex...it's part of our "friendship". but sometimes it feels like i need him more than the other person, and i know it's more than a "like" or "infatuation" feeling with him, and he's expressed to me that he feels the same way. but he knows i'm in love w/ my bf that i have now, and that i feel bad when i mess around with him. i'm in love with one person, but it feels like i'm also developing "love" feelings for my ex. is it wrong to feel this way? what can i do to at least try to turn off the feelings that i'm developing for him?

2007-02-18 16:40:01 · 11 answers · asked by Nacho Chacho 7 in Singles & Dating

well i work with this girl and met her a few months ago.... we talked and flirted alot during my christmas break but then i went back to college. When I have come back on occasion I have found out from friends she now has a boyfriend. In the past two weeks I have taken her out to eat twice, both times we have had great times, theres almost not any time where we are not laghing. She would always im me whenever i got off of my away msgs etc... she has only once openly told me she has a boyfriend because i simply asked her.when we go out she never mentions to him that she is out, as she would do if i was just in the friend zone. we went into work before going out last night for a visit and one of her friends started asking her while i was out of earshot if i was her boyfriend, and the girl was asking if she was cheating on him, i walked in at this point and she was like no.
My question is simply, why after yesterday when we had a great time together is why would she be ignoring me today?

2007-02-18 16:40:00 · 5 answers · asked by Rob S. 2 in Singles & Dating

Do you prefer having your fun and being single or having a bf or gf?? y or y not

2007-02-18 16:39:38 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-18 16:39:18 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

among other things.

2007-02-18 16:39:16 · 17 answers · asked by ? 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Every night my wife makes me sleep on the floor and lets the dogs sleep on the bed with her. When I asked her why she said that they kept her warmer than I do. How can I make her understand that the floor is cold and hard?

2007-02-18 16:38:58 · 33 answers · asked by open_phunguy 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Okay so I have this friend her name is Sally* (not her accual name) Sally* has been my best friend for 2 years now and we have so much fun together.
Here is the problem:
She thinks that everyone is out to get her.
Whenever I want to talk about my "guy" problems she says, "you know what I don't care....but Joe*...."
She calls me all the time looking for answers to the homework.
I like her a lot but she gets on my nerves when she thinks that EVERYONE...and I mean everyone is out to get her. For example she is in snowboarding this weekend and she told me that this guy was walking by while she was at the gas station and she took the keys out the ignition and locked all of the doors and started freaking out.
What am I supposed to do?!?
I am sooo not like that....I am really the opposite.

2007-02-18 16:38:54 · 4 answers · asked by M 1 in Friends

Can any of ya guys forget ya past relationship?

2007-02-18 16:38:52 · 9 answers · asked by eragonlzrd 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have this crush on someone. She treats me like a friend. I am a 117 IQ'd boy that my friends say that i am a nice koala. So im fat, have 117 IQ, nice and looks cute like a koala, give me tips on romance.

2007-02-18 16:38:08 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-18 16:37:59 · 3 answers · asked by tyler h 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-18 16:37:31 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

how do you know if your boyfriend not doing something or his doing something?

2007-02-18 16:37:19 · 6 answers · asked by vrheac 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-18 16:36:42 · 18 answers · asked by Danny 2 in Singles & Dating

Ive truely met the girl of my dreams and within the past 6 months we have become best friends. No sooner than that, did each of us begin having feelings for the other, however now we face the dilemma of phasing from an amazing friendship to what could potentially be a fairytale relationship. I have welcomed this progression 100%, unfortunately she seems to be quite weary and seems to be particularly worried about hurting our friendship. So i ask in the event she decides not to progress forward, do i simply accept her decision or should i fight for us? Do i tell her she means the world to me; do i give her time and hide my feelings from her; could our being bestfriends actually stop us from going further and if so how could i change that??? Any advice would be greatly appreciated. Its been driving me nuts.

2007-02-18 16:35:19 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-18 16:34:38 · 2 answers · asked by liliaceae_aletris 2 in Singles & Dating

he has a girlfriend x 1 yr, but continues intimacy with me weekly.
any chance i am the one he wants?

2007-02-18 16:34:25 · 21 answers · asked by fluffy 1 in Singles & Dating

my boyfriend is a teen guy, when 17 year old guys go to bed at night, do they sleep with no clothes on?

2007-02-18 16:34:24 · 16 answers · asked by US 3 1 in Singles & Dating