he has a girlfriend x 1 yr, but continues intimacy with me weekly.
any chance i am the one he wants?
2007-02-18 16:34:25 · 21 answers · asked by fluffy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He's just using you for one thing, and you're just silly enough to be available any time he comes with the need.
2007-02-18 16:40:41 · answer #1 · answered by Speedy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes a guy would be intimate with you for two years even if he doesnt like you. You are being like he free pass for hooking up in between girlfriends or if he wants a change from his current flame. Dont kid yourself if he liked you, you would be dating already. He had another girlfriend, but why wasnt it you?? It sucks but its true, not matter what he tells you he is just not into you that way. Start dating other guys and stop seeing him for good. Some guys are jerks and just use people to get what you want, dont fall for it.
2007-02-19 00:40:09 · answer #2 · answered by Glittergirl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
NO, you are a willing participant for his pleasures. Sorry to say but he is using you b/c you'll give him what he wants and will shut up about it. The only interest he has for you is between the sheets, if it was any more, you would have been his girlfriend! Instead on openning your legs, open your eyes and see what a dog this guy is...you can do much better!
2007-02-19 00:40:59 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Baby, move on. Trust me. I carried on a relationship like that for just over two years. I loved that man dearly. I still do. But if he wont leave his current. Then move on. You are providing his sexual need that he carries. Who knows what the other woman has. I know he may make you feel sexy, & beautiful, in his eyes you probably are. Be strong and truly get what you need and desire. Happiness and love. He may provide something for you, but if he hasnt given you his all yet, he never will. Please, dont hurt yourself anylong, dont cry over him anymore. Move on. I did and I am happier then I have ever been. He is still a very special person in my life, no one could ever take his place, but I feel better now about myself then I ever have. I now have a wonderful man who loves me, provides for me, and spoils me rotton, a man I love to come home to at the end of a busy work day. Give it time, you'll see.
2007-02-19 00:45:05 · answer #4 · answered by dreamz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Umm... fluffy... I'm not sure what you mean by "intimacy." I have a rather intimate relationship with an older woman friend, but sex is not involved. Anyhow, without more details, I think you'd do just as well to consult a magic 8 ball.
2007-02-19 00:43:48 · answer #5 · answered by Cheshire Cat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're the other woman. Get some integrity. Respect yourself. Even if he wants you more (which he doesn't, or he would have left her and started treating you right already) if he cheats on her, he will cheat on you in the long run. You don't want a weak sauce guy with no honor/integrity. Not worth it. Beauty fades, but integrity goes all the way to the bone.
2007-02-19 00:38:35 · answer #6 · answered by Mrs. Eric Cartman 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why should he have to choose when he is getting it from you both? Besides, if you were with him for 2 years, and he decides to get into an additonal relationship with another girl, what does that say about you letting him do that? If he loved, wanted to be with you, and respected you, he would not have started another relationship with another girl.
You guys need to read her question again. She has been with him for 2 years, and the other girl has been with him for 1 year.
2007-02-19 00:38:27 · answer #7 · answered by Sparkles 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hun, he is using you. But he's playing both of you. He has his main girl, his gf, then he has you on the side for when he needs sex. I know I'm being blunt but it's the truth. Dump him! NOW! Never let any man use you that way, you deserve sooo much more!!! Finish this now before you get even more hurt.
Take Care
2007-02-19 00:38:37 · answer #8 · answered by Hottie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Too bad you actually subject yourself to be someones booty call, and worse you think he likes you! I hope you wake up and smell the roses one day and get yourself a boyfriend. He just gets off on the fact that he can just bang you when he wants and thinks he's super male, sad. Really sad!
2007-02-19 00:42:34 · answer #9 · answered by Bill P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are the other woman - there's a good chance he has 5 more you don't know about. Stop being so desperate, go find somebody that's more real. Forget this loser.
2007-02-19 00:42:03 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋