well i work with this girl and met her a few months ago.... we talked and flirted alot during my christmas break but then i went back to college. When I have come back on occasion I have found out from friends she now has a boyfriend. In the past two weeks I have taken her out to eat twice, both times we have had great times, theres almost not any time where we are not laghing. She would always im me whenever i got off of my away msgs etc... she has only once openly told me she has a boyfriend because i simply asked her.when we go out she never mentions to him that she is out, as she would do if i was just in the friend zone. we went into work before going out last night for a visit and one of her friends started asking her while i was out of earshot if i was her boyfriend, and the girl was asking if she was cheating on him, i walked in at this point and she was like no.
My question is simply, why after yesterday when we had a great time together is why would she be ignoring me today?
2007-02-18 16:40:00 · 5 answers · asked by Rob S. 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She probably felt bad about the situation and did not know how to handle it. She probably thinks if she ignores you that it will go away. There's nothing wrong with being friends with someone, but it's hard to be "just friends" if there is attraction there. I'm assuming that you like her, but you should back off because she does have a boyfriend. It's basically up to her what she wants to do. I mean you are playing with fire. Find a girl who is single that you can take out...there's less problems. Yeah..you work with her..talk to her at work..be friendly...whatever. Just don't go out with her anymore and there's no reason to accept her ims if you are seeing someone else. Just let her know you are seeing someone else and watch what her reaction is like.
2007-02-18 16:50:40 · answer #1 · answered by asiansmile 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she's trying to decide between you and him. Maybe she feels guilty and that's why she never tells him when the two of you go out. If she feels guilty than that usually means she feels like she's cheating. That's probably why she's ignoring you. I would just ask her straight out what her thoughts are.
2007-02-19 00:48:27 · answer #2 · answered by Shari B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop messing with her...i am sure there are plenty of girls where you go to college. Why would you even want this girl, if she is seeing you behind her bf's back she will do the same to you
2007-02-19 00:47:18 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
her friends probably told her that she IS cheating on her bf. im not saying she is but probably her friendss said that. anyways, shes probably trying to prevent true love or that she will think something will happen like u guys get together or something.
2007-02-19 00:46:16 · answer #4 · answered by sayy whattt 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
think about it man, she has a boyfriend.....
2007-02-19 00:51:57 · answer #5 · answered by BIG BEN 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋