Family & Relationships - 18 February 2007

my wife and i only have sex about once a month. most of the time she doesnt even want it but she does it anyways to make me feel better. we have thought about going to the doctor to see about sex drive stimulators. will they work? does she need them or is there any other way we can make her want to have sex more offten. thanks from both of us.

2007-02-18 17:47:38 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I will be back with her in a couple of days. She has dieted and lost some weight. But I haven't seen her and I don't just want to ask what size she wears. How do I buy clothes for her? Or lingerie?

2007-02-18 17:47:08 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My bf and I kind of have a long distance relationship. I go college in a different city. We are 300 miles apart. But I can't go and see him on our 3-year-anniversary, because I have a huge test that day. and I have to prepare for the test the weekend before. I want to get him something special. any ideas?

2007-02-18 17:46:40 · 2 answers · asked by Deesa 2 in Singles & Dating

im 17 and my boyfriend 18 we been togeter for 5 months and havent tried to have sex with me but we always kissin but he tell me that we will do it when i get ready im ready but should i wait and no im not a virgin i just dont share with the world

2007-02-18 17:44:58 · 7 answers · asked by @lw@y$cut3 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm not saying they have to be drop dead gorgeous, but don't you need to have some attraction if you want to marry, have sex, and totally love someone.

Personally, I wish I could love someone JUST for whats on the inside, but I look at totally unnattractive people, and I can't see myself with them.

And it sucks, cause I'm fat, and no matter how hard I try and convince myself, I know that I can't even like someone else who's heavy, how could someone like me?

2007-02-18 17:44:29 · 8 answers · asked by soccer_frogger 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok here is my problem I have feelings for someone can't tell them so what do you do? so how many folks here in the world has a crush?

2007-02-18 17:43:47 · 12 answers · asked by angel_leea96 2 in Singles & Dating

I am searching a suitable match for my son who is a smart sikh boy holding a responsible position and drawing lucrative salary. He wants smart and intelligent soul mate and hence a site which is reliable and quick to respond

2007-02-18 17:42:19 · 6 answers · asked by pal of pal 1 in Singles & Dating

So why are we both so scared and nervous around each other, its like were in grade 2, how can i get him to ask me out!

2007-02-18 17:40:57 · 17 answers · asked by shybunnny69 2 in Singles & Dating

I have dated someone for a month and when I told her when she called my home I was watching a movie she got mad.

2007-02-18 17:40:06 · 20 answers · asked by reme14u 1 in Singles & Dating

Even if he's not in a relationship?
He's not gay, so does that mean he's just like really sweet and smart? He told me he didn't wanna do it just cause he had the chance.

2007-02-18 17:39:49 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

bored of my life, i wanna meet some sweet females who i can share my feeling and life with. what do i do.

2007-02-18 17:39:31 · 2 answers · asked by cutlus 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-18 17:39:27 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Well, do ya?!?

2007-02-18 17:39:08 · 7 answers · asked by Isa Muawiyyah 2 in Friends

I think so. You don't have to put up with the akward moments of asking a girl out and you get more opportunities to meet women. Plus, much of the things I do for fun have very few women participating in them. The success rate of me getting a phone number is about 10 no's to 1 yes. Maybe I lack game, but I've found a way to get around my lack of talents!:)

2007-02-18 17:38:38 · 13 answers · asked by Kate and the Prince 1 in Singles & Dating

Lol.
I used to have a friend, and I his parents weren't married, yet they had been living together for 15 years, and had like 3 or 4 kids. When I asked my friend why they hadn't gotten married yet, he said his parents decided they weren't ready for it.
Ironic or not? What would you call that?

2007-02-18 17:36:50 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-02-18 17:36:27 · 12 answers · asked by ani 2 in Singles & Dating

do you tink guys cheat all the time i caught alot of boyfriends cheating wit sisters bestfriends but do you think some is faithful ?

2007-02-18 17:35:37 · 7 answers · asked by ~.Brezzy~. 1 in Singles & Dating

ok so i am 14 and i have an older brother who is gonna go to the army. we have fussed countless number of times since i moved in with him. one time i said i wish he would leave. and now he is going to the army. the only thing is is that so many fusses has been caused between us and he would blame them on me. so i dont feel bad. i dont want him to go to the army cause of this war. but i also feel that i should feel bad for what i said but i dont. should i feel bad?

2007-02-18 17:35:09 · 23 answers · asked by sillygoosetonda 3 in Friends

I am confident in the way I look I dress amazing.. I am beautiful.. I could have a better body but whatever I amm too lazy but the problem is I am not sure if its I don't know how to talk to guys or if I don't know how to pick up a guy you could say... I am guy when it comes to feelings I am not very touchy and I hate drama and all that romantic stuff but I just don't know why I can't meet a guy and talk to them

2007-02-18 17:33:23 · 10 answers · asked by scytherbug@sbcglobal.net 3 in Singles & Dating

after the initial kiss, which I abrubtly ended, I have never seen the woman since. I attempted to be totally honest with my wife and told her the whole situation, and she (rightly so???) was livid and responded by physically attacking me, leaving bruises etc. I tried to work this out years ago by meeting with the other woman and my wife to try and show that nothing more than the first come on happenned. However, in the past 6 years, she cannot drop it. She repeatedly brings it up and (it seems to me) whenever she doesn't get her own way, she threatens to leave me citing my adultrous ways/infidelity and dishonesty. If I didn't have kids with her we would have divorced years ago. How can I expectto continue a relationship when every time I attempt to be totally honest or we have a difference of opinoin withthings that (IMO) I either have no fault in or are water under the bridge it gets thrown in my face and results in a 2 day argument?

2007-02-18 17:32:19 · 29 answers · asked by Whatever 2 in Marriage & Divorce

im a senior, and unlike many of the the kids my age, im not into clubbing or partying or drinkin. im trying to graduate and play 2 sports at the same time. do girls think im weird because i rather stay home and rent a movie or go to the movies rather than get wasted. what do i do if i like a girl that likes to do that kind of stuff and shes a sophmore?

2007-02-18 17:32:12 · 17 answers · asked by Many Questions 2 in Singles & Dating

We had a good relationship off 1 year, she broke-up now saying that she does not have the time, also said that I was too bossy over her when it came to her talking to other guys and stuff. I got verbally abusive @ times, even she was on a few occassions. She told me that her priorities in life have changed. I pleaded to her that I have changed an I am no longer the same Ba******. I told her that i will be more understanding and I am ok with the the time she gives me. Even told her is all I need is bout 15 mins over the phone and an hour or two off meeting over the weekend. The last coversation we had over the phone she said that she LOVES me but cannot be in a relation because off time and a lil because off my nature. I LOVE her alot and I have really changed. I cannot stay without her. Plz help me on how to get her back. I have lost my health lost weight. I am 21 and she is 19. I am feeiling very guilty.

2007-02-18 17:32:02 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

They say that no one can please you like yourself!

2007-02-18 17:31:52 · 11 answers · asked by Kate and the Prince 1 in Singles & Dating

why is it that my husband seems like his moms personal defense lawyer n e time she does something to me he tells me a sentense that staTes that ITS MY FAULT, he proves her innocent even if he sees with his eyes that shes wrong, meanwhile hes nice and shows care aside when n e thing bout his mom comes it looks like he will sell me for his mom and sis WHY? but again hes lovely to me when shes even in the house his attention is off me

2007-02-18 17:31:22 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My husband and I have been married for 6 years, I am 36 years old and so is my husband. For the past 2 months all I have been wanting to do is have sex with my husband, soon as my husband comes home from work I want to have sex. I even went as far as sending our kids to my mom just so I can have sex with him, I am wearing my husband out; he thinks this is funny but its not and I am hoping he don't get tired of my behavior. I never been like this, and I never will have an affair, but I want him to sex me alot more. We have sex almost everyday, and its still not enough. What's wrong with me?

2007-02-18 17:30:30 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

which is better a man who is really strong or
a boy with a lions heart ...

2007-02-18 17:30:21 · 9 answers · asked by (omplExity _|_ 1 in Friends

serious answers please. i decided i wanted to change my personal appearance. i think i will start wearing make up since i got a bunch for christmas. i dont usually wear it. i think i also might try to starghten my hair more often (its naturally straight but sometimes can b better). iwant to start looking my best. how should i look. what do 13-15 year old boys look for anyways?

2007-02-18 17:28:17 · 12 answers · asked by simplicity 2 in Singles & Dating

I got lucky two years ago & was able to create my own job. I have flex time, great bennies, great coworkers and managers and there is nothing about my job that I dislike except it is away from my family and HIM. I love going to work! However, the love of my life lives 1000 miles away and I wouldn't ask him to move to where I live cuz I don't want to live here forever anyway. We had dated 14 years ago, for 2.5 years but I dumped him at that time. Immature I was. I apologized to him and he has told me, as has his family, that he waited for me to come back. He said, "it has always been you and only you!" I want to be with him but wonder if I am being hasty and irresponsible giving up a possible career. Have others made a choice like this? I say just go because he will be with me forever and I know this! But I don't want to be irresponsible and not carry my own weight. Decisions, decisions! Help me... think this through!

2007-02-18 17:27:56 · 2 answers · asked by e_tbo 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I had an affair with a co-worker who I feel in love with. I truly understand what true love is by the way we spent time together. She has pushed me aside and say she needs more time to decide about us and completely ignores me. I feel bitter and used. She should have to answer to her huband and not enjoy the best of both worlds.....What should I do? What is the right thing to do about our realtionship and,... what about her husband and is lack of knowing? She can play without any consequences? HELP>

2007-02-18 17:27:53 · 11 answers · asked by YcopyU 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My ex-gf wants to be friends straight away after leaving me for another guy. I mean I was heart-broken last month when she left me, I took it quite hard. Proberly means I loved her more but how can someone expect that and then tell me I am being arrogent because I am not phoning her??

2007-02-18 17:27:46 · 6 answers · asked by stephen b 1 in Singles & Dating