why is it that my husband seems like his moms personal defense lawyer n e time she does something to me he tells me a sentense that staTes that ITS MY FAULT, he proves her innocent even if he sees with his eyes that shes wrong, meanwhile hes nice and shows care aside when n e thing bout his mom comes it looks like he will sell me for his mom and sis WHY? but again hes lovely to me when shes even in the house his attention is off me
2007-02-18 17:31:22 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
i talked to him then as usual we fight due to this topic, he ignores me
2007-02-18 17:39:43 · update #1
sounds like a mamas boy
2007-02-18 17:39:49 · answer #1 · answered by Theresa S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you have a son and his is grown you will understand why it sounds like your husband has a great deal of respect for his mom and that is good for you, because it makes him a good husband, family man. As a mom its our jobs to tell him his wife is more important that is his family know and guide him to be a good husband but unfortunately your mom in law is the jealous type and take this a learning experience when you have a son not to same with him.
2007-02-19 02:01:14 · answer #2 · answered by none 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hai candy,
Its owful to hear like this. One thing is certain. Men community treats the wives as an unpaid servant, adhoc managers and a take it for granted in bed. Almost 90% of them are not a real man but a humble kid for their parents. They could never prove their manliness even in bed. Such men should be completely ignored and avoided. That is the real punishment to them
2007-02-21 01:41:42 · answer #3 · answered by Diksha S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mother-in-law problems are as old as the hills and mama's boys are a dime a dozen. This is why the institute of marriage requires 'adjustments' to be made by both parties. Try and stay out of her way as much as possible. Another way is to kill her with kindness and love...shower her with so much of love (even if it is not heartfelt) that surfeiting she will have no option but to respond in like manner
2007-02-20 15:30:08 · answer #4 · answered by the Tramp 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He seems like a nice guy! For a change try treating his family in a decent and civil manner. It sounds like you are the one having problms.
2007-02-19 04:46:06 · answer #5 · answered by nice guy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is very close to his family but loves you so mush at the same time, just talk to him and try understand him, but make him no how u feel about this all ok
2007-02-19 01:35:34 · answer #6 · answered by sammi j 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is a communciation gap. you are feeling insecure actually... Misunderstanding is going on between both of you... Better cope up or else life will be ****...
Trust me... only diff between your and mine case is that in your case its your mom, in my case its my ex wife.... for which my current wife for whom i spoilt my home is rewarding me by threatning me of divorcing me whereas we are marreid just one month...
You can guess my situation...
danieldamsel@yahoo.co.in
2007-02-19 06:26:25 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i myself like to lick. but, i hear there are some that suck
2007-02-19 01:42:23 · answer #8 · answered by holdnnmyown 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It seams that he cares every one .
He loves his family .
He loves you too.
You please love him much.
Care him a lot more.
Just LOVE & LET LOVE .
2007-02-19 01:42:11 · answer #9 · answered by Jacky.- the "INDIAN". 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋