im 17 and my boyfriend 18 we been togeter for 5 months and havent tried to have sex with me but we always kissin but he tell me that we will do it when i get ready im ready but should i wait and no im not a virgin i just dont share with the world
2007-02-18 17:44:58 · 7 answers · asked by @lw@y$cut3 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If your boyfriend is willing to wait for you to be ready, do it when you are ready. It sounds like you have a very caring and understanding guy. You will know when you want to go farther in your physical relationship.
2007-02-18 17:47:58 · answer #1 · answered by kalea_kane 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
2cute what tells you that you are ready? Is it because you are out of school, out of college, have an established career, are married to this man and prepared to take care of child, prepared to deal with the consequences of a sexual relationship; the mental and posssible physical consequences that could occur? You say that you are ready, but are you really ready? Excuse me for the way I put this but being ready for sex is more than just getting wet. It's about being in love and if you have a "good" moral system it should be about commitment. It also means taking responsibility for your actions. If you are not sure if you are ready for all these things then I would suggest you hold off on the "action" of having sex.
2007-02-19 01:51:40 · answer #2 · answered by little lamb 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate to sound like a parent but I am. My son starting having sex @ 16yr. I told him 5 min. of "Out of this world" sex can egual 18-21 yrs of child support. With DNA today, guys getting girls pregnant can end up having child support cornished from the paycheck before they get to see it. And for you, I can tell you from personal experience please hold off. At 15yr I got pregnant. I've never been to a Prom, Homecoming, even dating. My son's father was the one & only person I've ever dated. We married when we found out. If you're married, you lose all your friends. They don't want to hang out with you & a baby. Your husband is an additional responibility. If you want this kind of life, GO for it. Sex before marriage is very costly in many ways.
2007-02-19 01:58:35 · answer #3 · answered by Memeiko 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow wow wow!! Slow down!! It ain't the time for u to do it, yet. You should wait at least 2 or 3 more years. As an early sex will get you somehow uncomfortable.
Be patient and the time will come...
2007-02-19 01:49:41 · answer #4 · answered by Enigmatic A 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
better wait for tha right time with the rigth guy, dont give it to every guy that you get involved with.
2007-02-19 01:48:21 · answer #5 · answered by konfuzed_baby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you're ready, nothing should be stopping you
2007-02-19 01:48:35 · answer #6 · answered by Ari J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
young and the restless
2007-02-19 01:49:09 · answer #7 · answered by hgary06 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋