Family & Relationships - 18 February 2007

you meet a guy who has a great personality; is tall, handsome,and is in his first year of having a decent paying job..........but has six children...........with four different women?!!!!!!!! what does that say about him in your opinion? he's not old but he's no spring chicken either.

2007-02-18 17:27:07 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-18 17:26:15 · 17 answers · asked by not-so--dumb--blonde 2 in Weddings

2007-02-18 17:25:26 · 8 answers · asked by Jessica B 1 in Singles & Dating

Am i paranoid? He is very handsome as i have heard many compliments on his looks. Is it because I know he has some friends that are girls and that they might flirt with him like they always do and make him do things that he doesn't want to do? I have taught him to be very resistant with high school girls and he has always listened. Please help!

2007-02-18 17:25:03 · 19 answers · asked by Backoff 2 in Singles & Dating

do you think its better to always have a relationship like you've been dating your whole life but you eventally get married to someone or do you think its better to be single and have few relations and then get married to someone...

2007-02-18 17:22:21 · 12 answers · asked by scytherbug@sbcglobal.net 3 in Singles & Dating

ok me and my fiance are very young but we are starting a family together-i have a son and am pregnant with another baby. of course things have been hard. My fiance is having a hard time with jobs. we broke up for like a week and my whole family ended up getting into it. now everyone in my family is giving him a hard time...they make it out like everything is his fault.....everything! and its getting really hard because i am 8 months pregnant and stuck in the middle of this nit picking and its stressful! what should i do?

2007-02-18 17:22:16 · 11 answers · asked by n&z-mama 2 in Family

Have you ever met a person, like what I asked in the subject line..and either never saw them again (and had really wanted to, or perhaps, didn't care to, or want to)?
Also, did they,(you think) show up in your life to "show or teach" you something(s)...and what did you learn, or see that you wouldn't have known before...and did this person help you in any good way?

2007-02-18 17:20:56 · 10 answers · asked by ladyk 2 in Friends

I'm in 8th grade and me and my friends are so close.....but some of my friends aren'tgoing to the same high school as me and i dont want to lose them...What should I do???

2007-02-18 17:20:17 · 10 answers · asked by TeddyGramz 1 in Friends

This happened a few years ago, i was 16. This girl i had liked for awhile started dating this drug user from our school. It was my birthday, i invited her to my party, and she said she couldn't come because she had to work, which i know was true. She said she'd make it up to me by going to lunch with me sometime. I thought that was kind of weird, since she had a b/f now...we had done things like that before, but i thought it had to stop, but i said OK anyway. So about a week later i called to try and take her up on the offer...and she acts like i'm out of line in suggesting such a thing...i'm like, it was YOUR idea! and then she tells me that i can just come over...but i KNOW that he is there...it's like gee, what is your goal? for me to come over, not knowing he's there, and then just be in the most awkward moment of my life? Has this ever happened to you?

2007-02-18 17:20:07 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

If a person your dating begins to act strangely because u might be coming on too strong, can u ask? or just let her have space?

2007-02-18 17:19:27 · 5 answers · asked by MHL 1 in Singles & Dating

I like a girl at my school and we talk sometimes during biology. I like her a lot and she is beautiful and intelligent. I recently gave her a secret admirer's letter for Valentine's Day and I want to tell her that it is from me, but when is the best time to tell her and how do u tell her?

2007-02-18 17:19:18 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My fiance who have earlier said she married her husband for comfort and not for love, is being very reluctant to initiate divorce with him up till now ( 6mths to our proposed wedding ). She wont mention us to him either. She claims sex has been removed form their relationship and they only coexist. Could this be a fact since there's no way to find out?

2007-02-18 17:18:46 · 11 answers · asked by Suv 1 in Marriage & Divorce

see im about to go to an orientation camp and i dont know how to make the best first impression with people i have never met. also these people will be my classmates for the next year.
also if you can give any good conversational topics to talk about with attractive girls :P thanks lots

2007-02-18 17:18:27 · 3 answers · asked by Wilson J 4 in Singles & Dating

I have supported my husband through his career and now that he is retiring I want him to be a house husband and I will earn the money. I think it is about time to have him cook and clean and I get to go to work every day. Would other men go for this? I think there are a million things he can do around the house every day

2007-02-18 17:18:09 · 2 answers · asked by sexyladyinak 3 in Marriage & Divorce

ok u see me and my BF have kissed and he siad if i wanted to make-out to just do it ut the thing is i never had before. and well i am not really sure what to do and see he says not to worry and he will be ready when i am but i dont kno if i am but i wouldnt mind
this may sound immature but i need help
so my question is guys
what tings turn u on when making-out?
and what things turn u off when making-out?

2007-02-18 17:18:03 · 7 answers · asked by Taylor 2 in Singles & Dating

My 6yr old daughter stays at her dad's house every 2nd weekend. We broke up while I was pregnant so this is nothing new to our situation. Me & her dad get along fine but I worry about her while she is at his house.

He has alot of different friends over everynight and they drink alot. I worry because my daughter is getting older and am scared she will be abused. I have spoke to him and he told me I was being silly, it wouldn't happen. I am well aware that this can happen don't think he should have these strange guys over when she is there. Am I being unreasonable? My husband also thinks I am worrying too much.

ONLY SERIOUS ANSWERS FROM PEOPLE WHO HAVE BEEN IN A SIMILAR SITUATION

2007-02-18 17:17:07 · 14 answers · asked by ? 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

i suck at decoding guys. please help

here's what i got
we met online
we talked and connected for two months, then both got scared because neither of us were ready for to be commited
we stopped talking
he returned home from duty and called me to see if i still wanted to meet him, 7 months later
we had the most comfortable weekend either of us had ever experienced
he left for texas saying "lets keep in touch"
we had a fight over me being a drama queen
we talked about our fight hearing each others side
we talk when i call him (he never calls me, says its cheaper for me)
he has me as the first girl (number 5 after 4 boys) on his myspace that has him in a relationship since moving me to # 5
he just posted a new picture (which he hasnt done since december) i took of him in my apartment

so..... what does all this mean? does he like me or am i crasping at straws because i like him so much?

oh yeah 1 more thing, he reffers to me as his subsitute girlfriend

2007-02-18 17:15:39 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My ex boyfriend broke up with me last November "because he had to move schools". 3 days later, he didn't have to move so he asked me out again. I said yes. Just 2 weeks ago, he dumped me again :because he had to move schools". The next day he didn't have to move schools... again. Today, as I was walking to catch the bus home, he asked me out again! Should I go out with him?

2007-02-18 17:15:32 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am divorced with two teenage children. They are old enough where they really arent a factor. The problem is that my boyfriend has hinted to marrige a few times....I am afraid that he may be getting ready to propose.....I love him but I dont know if I want to be married again....I like being financialy seperate...he is not real good with money........I also like living seperatly....hes sloppy where I am a very clean and organized person...etc. I am just afraid that if I accept the proposal I am going to end up broke with bad credit and being his maid....if I dont I am going to lose him. I have tried to talk to him about the cleaning thing......but the money thing I havent because I dont feel that it is my business......what should I do?

2007-02-18 17:13:53 · 10 answers · asked by ttazevert 2 in Singles & Dating

COMPLEX.
I don't hear very well.
So do you think he meant his feelings were COMPLEX.
Or was he calling me COMPLEX as in "You're Tripping!"
Or was he telling me I have a COMPLEX?

What do you think?

2007-02-18 17:13:32 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-18 17:12:28 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Tonight is my friends 18th bday and we were all suppose 2 go 2 the club and out 2 eat after...a good 20 of us!..my dad tells me no...after my report card jus came in the mail with str8 "A's"...and i havent missed my 2am curfew ever!(that is a GOOD curfew)..everytime he picks these random days to say "no" to me he says its cuz "im tha father and i can say no" ok i understand but up until last year i've been afraid 2 ask my dad things because of his aggressive answers and him always telling me no.


Last year me and my bestfriend were suppose 2 go out with my bf and his friend (double date) i called my dad he said okay jus dont leave till i get home (this was at 6) he didnt come home til 9:30 and by then my bf got mad and left. I told my dad it was messed up (he was wal mart that whole time 10mins down the road) and he came back sayin "im the father i do what i want"...my friend and i were all dressed stuck layin in my room that night.
i mean what do you think..is it fair?

2007-02-18 17:11:31 · 21 answers · asked by Trina0840 1 in Family

Me and this girl had been on three dates. All of them went pretty well, and she seemed very interested in me. On Valentines Day, we both already had other plans, so I left her a small stuffed tiger with a poem I wrote for her inside of her mailbox. The poem was nothing lovy dovy, it just talked about how she was unique and about her personality. She called me to thank me and tell me how sweet I was and how I suprised her.

The next day, I asked her out again and she said, "I have class and then im goin out." i asked her what she had planned and she replied, "im goin out." That was four days ago and I haven't talked to her since.

Do you think the present might have been a bit too much?

2007-02-18 17:11:12 · 18 answers · asked by MHL 1 in Singles & Dating

i need a real answer to this one ladies, becuase it just seems this way with every girl,

2007-02-18 17:10:55 · 8 answers · asked by badfoolishchap 1 in Singles & Dating

I would tell them to get a dog. Who the hell would want to be their doormat ? How many of you agree with me ?

2007-02-18 17:10:49 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Thats something that your boyfriend/girlfriend/ex/hookup did that was really sexy/seductive and unique.

Or something you do.

2007-02-18 17:10:03 · 2 answers · asked by I love you 2 in Singles & Dating

i like a girl but i don't kno if she likes me

i talk to her on myspace IM a lot and when i see her in the halls at school she looks at me and smiles but she doesn't talk to me is this a sign she likes me?

i want to tell her i like her but don't kno how she will respond im in 10th grade and i need some help with this.

2007-02-18 17:09:52 · 4 answers · asked by :( 1 in Singles & Dating

I met a guy at a bar and we got attracted to each other. We went on a date and we kept messaging each other. Even after the date, he sent me a text message saying that he had fun and he wants to meet up with me in the weekend on sunday. I text messaged him a day ago, saying that I will have my rehearsal between 4 and 7. Other than that we can meet up any time. No answer. In the break, I called him and left a voice mail if we are still on. No answer until 10ish pm. Then he text messages me saying that "endedn up going to NYC with my roommate, call when I come back." What is this? Did I get stood up? If he calls me what can I tell him. I like him but my sunday totally got blown off. Please some advice.

2007-02-18 17:09:04 · 14 answers · asked by joe b 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-18 17:08:37 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I don't believe in love at first sight. I don't believe there is such thing called "love"

2007-02-18 17:05:50 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating