Am i paranoid? He is very handsome as i have heard many compliments on his looks. Is it because I know he has some friends that are girls and that they might flirt with him like they always do and make him do things that he doesn't want to do? I have taught him to be very resistant with high school girls and he has always listened. Please help!
2007-02-18 17:25:03 · 19 answers · asked by Backoff 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If most of you say yes, then I'll let him.
2007-02-18 18:31:38 · update #1
In a year, it will be out of your control anyway. I think you should start letting go now, so you can see how he acts and give him feedback. If you don't - when he is 18 he might not listen to you at all. Give him some freedom.
2007-02-26 15:59:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need help. If he wants to do something with a girl it won't be at the mall.
I had a friend that had sex with her boyfriend at school in the gym.
Let the boy have a life and trust him.
Who knows your son might not even like girls now: You might have made him like boys.
2007-02-18 17:36:05 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to give him some freedom to live and make his own mistakes. He is just going to the mall, let him go out and have some fun. If you hold on too tight, you may lose him. By allowing him to go out will show him you trust him and respect him.
2007-02-18 17:34:10 · answer #3 · answered by ddp 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is a teenager and not letting him experience the teenage lifestyle will make it harder for him when he leaves home. My advice, let him live his life, after all, your younger years are suppose to be the best years of your life.
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2007-02-18 17:30:37 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you said you have taught him to be resistant with high school girls and he always listen.so i think there,s nothing wrong if you let your son to hang out with his friend.but you must reminds him to behave every time he wants to go out..put a little trust on your son and give him a little freedom to enjoy his teenage life ok..
2007-02-18 17:44:07 · answer #5 · answered by nas_haimeko 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like your being overly protective, if he hasnt done anything wrong in the past and the people he hangs out with are ok then let him have some fun.
2007-02-18 17:29:07 · answer #6 · answered by firetdriver_99 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do you want your kid to grow up to be an antisocial loser that lives in your basement and never moves out?
or would you rather he grow up healthily socialized and enjoys the time he has with his friends. this is how people build proper relationship skills. by dating and meeting other people.
let your son go to the mall and hang out with his friends, it's not like he's 12 anymore.
2007-02-18 17:29:05 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all "believe in him". Ask urself this question that do u trust ur son that he won't do anything bad. If the ans is yes then go ahead and let him hang out with his friends..if he truely respects you and loves u then believe me he won't do anything wrong...
2007-02-18 17:31:09 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey if you raised him the right way there's nothing to worry about. But let him know that if he slips into temptation to please use a condom. I think you're on the right path just chill...relax. I mean my aunt told her 18 year old son not to go out at night because someone could rape him. Now she needs help.
2007-02-18 17:29:21 · answer #9 · answered by Delaiah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you can let him got to the mall, Now do you want reason why he shouldn't go? Like excuses to tell him so he won't go?
2007-02-18 17:29:59 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋