Family & Relationships - 18 February 2007

i have been with my bf for a few months now, before that we were friends. he is incredibly good to me, always trying to please me, etc. some of the things he finds acceptable or talks about are really not ok by me. also, although i'm attracted to him, its never been overwhelming attraction. no, sparks or absolute urge to kiss him, etc. but he likes me a lot and makes such an effort. what do you think?

2007-02-18 16:34:17 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

They say its not that bad and that they only have a few scars and mostly all they do is scratch up their arm, but they do it because of the home they live in. What would you do? O and you PROMISED not to tell. I'm not sure b/c i dont' think its that bad and only 40% of cutters kill themselfs, so i'm not sure what to do. i'm worried if i tell they will do it more and that if i don't it could get bad though they admited that when the get mad they imediatly think of getting sizzors or a knife to cut with but they say its not bad.....what do i do?

2007-02-18 16:33:41 · 10 answers · asked by dimondbacks7 3 in Friends

how do you bring up the subject of having sex to someone in a way without coming out and saying it. i have a friend who is a virgin and wants to have sex but the other person doesn't get her message. help with advice.

2007-02-18 16:33:22 · 5 answers · asked by basic324 5 in Friends

My dad walked in on me shaving my bush, what should I do?

2007-02-18 16:32:57 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

A court order prevents my husband from coming near me and my children. I heard it through the grapevine that he has won $97,000. Are my 2 children and I legally entitled to any of his winnings? Can the payout be halted until I get answers? He has not collected any of his winnings, so far. I have not gone to court for divorce proceedings, yet, but I am going to. I am the head of the household. He doesn't buy food or pay rent and has not worked in years. Should I get the divorce and just forget about it or what?

Thank you

2007-02-18 16:32:52 · 12 answers · asked by DARMADAKO 4 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-02-18 16:32:49 · 9 answers · asked by spin spin sunshine 4 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-18 16:32:27 · 7 answers · asked by ukriti 2 in Singles & Dating

sometimes i think that marriage wasnt that important. i just wanted to have a baby someday coz the way i look at it, marriage was just a waste."i love you,will u marry me?then say a big yes!after couple of years,"i want divorce!".might as well be a single parent than seeing yourself like that!

2007-02-18 16:32:08 · 15 answers · asked by mitchy 2 in Marriage & Divorce

my husband and i are in the process of getting a house but I am not sure about his feelings towers me. we have being together for 12 years but 4 months ago i found out that he was cheating on me... I know that he is no longer with that" female".. and he told me that he didn't want to loose me or the kids (2babies). so i gave him a second chance... but nothing is the same ever since.. i love him i really do but i am not sure if he loves me the same way i do. i feel so in secure.. what do i do?..should i trust him or not?...

2007-02-18 16:30:21 · 18 answers · asked by ? 3 in Marriage & Divorce

i'm 14 and i'm not suppose to date so should i if a guy likes me and i like him and just not tell my parents?

2007-02-18 16:30:20 · 5 answers · asked by Country Girl 1 in Singles & Dating

I want to be a pro wrestler no im not 5 im a 14 year old who does well in school and wants college and all that but does not know how to convince his parents to believe in me i got no idea they'll just think im dumb im really interested in this and do have real career fall backs but this is my dream how do i approach thm?

2007-02-18 16:29:38 · 7 answers · asked by Marialovermelinahater 2 in Family

My father refuses to get married to her through the church so she is planning on screwing my father over. One of her “good” friends tells my father every thing and supposedly my stepmother is planning on saying my father rap-ed her, is always treating her badly, that she does not feel safe taking a shower with me in the house. Even worse for me she may be planning to have me jumped by people!’
I am all ready under a lot of stress.

My actions so far have been considering proclaiming I am gay (I am BI sort of) and Dling gay p_orn in to my hard drive and I have placed a spell on her, her sister in law, and one of her friends. I have also told my psychiatrist every thing I know. Also other than my closest friend no one knows about my psychiatrist.

What else can I do?

(they are going to get divorced because married by the state is not good enough for her)

2007-02-18 16:29:09 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Does it actually work? Either spiritual counselling or with a therapist. My mother has moved out and wants a divorce. I want to encourage my parents go to a councillor, but a few couples I know that have gone through marriage counselling are no longer together. If there is a chance that it might save their marriage, I can and will push them to see one.

2007-02-18 16:28:26 · 25 answers · asked by Walter D 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I am in 6th grade and all my friends hav byfriends or atleast a boy as a crush on them. I know it wont be something serious but i really want a boyfriend so i dont feel like a loser any more. everyone looks so happy hanging with their boys but i cant. i think i am pretty and have a nice personality. i flirt a lot and the boys smile at me and i know a few bute guys who r really nice and single. wut do i do?????

2007-02-18 16:27:42 · 8 answers · asked by monkeyfarts6 2 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and I wrestle sometimes, but he takes it too far. he doesnt hurt me badly, but when I've had enought and want to stop he doesn't listen. He keeps going and won't leave me alone. I try everything and he just doesn't get it. He thinks I overreact about it, but I think he should respect my feelings.

2007-02-18 16:27:14 · 9 answers · asked by Nicole 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm fourteen & at average weight with a little chubby stomach. I'm considered 'hot.' My boyfriend is also considered 'hot' but he's really thin & athletic. Does he think anything of my slight chubbiness?

We're considered a 'hot couple' but for different reasons.
He's very athletic built & thin with a six pack.
I'm a little chubby but I have big boobs & a 'cute' face.

I'm more big boned than he is, do guys mind if a girl's a little chubby?

2007-02-18 16:27:06 · 3 answers · asked by Victoria 1 in Singles & Dating

My wife is divorcing me but I cannot move out of our house until March. We have decided to remain friends because we have 2 children and we want to make it as easy as possible for them. She has opened up about this guy she has met that she really likes, he is going through a divorce also. She told me that he tells her he loves her but she has not responded to him the same. Part of me wants to go kick the **** out of him for messing up our marriage - they met 2 weeks before my wife asked for a divorce, but I know there are other issues in our marriage that let to the decision. I also know that if he wouldn't have entered the picture that maybe we could go to counseling to try and resolve our differences. Last night my wife was looking depressed and I finally got it out of her that she thinks her boyfriend is getting back together with his wife. I listened to her concerns and I tried to tell her that she needs to trust him more and don't jump to conclusions.

2007-02-18 16:27:06 · 19 answers · asked by Confused 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I would really respect honesty from all of you men out there.Please help to answer this age old question that bothers the mind of some of us women.Do you go to bars not just to have fun and to have a few laughs,but with the thought of getting lucky as well? Or is the thought of getting laid your main objective and the bars give you the best possiblity in achiving your goal? Simply put, you want sex and bars are where you can easily find it? Or do you just go to shoot pool and drink beer. Alone with out your friends.

2007-02-18 16:27:04 · 9 answers · asked by rozerred 1 in Singles & Dating

I know this is a weird question. But how old of a guy can i date making it reasonable when i am 18? like is 23 going to old?

2007-02-18 16:26:58 · 8 answers · asked by Mandi 2 in Singles & Dating

LADY HELP ME OUT

2007-02-18 16:26:48 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Just curious ladies. Be honest. :)

2007-02-18 16:26:17 · 6 answers · asked by Clean Independent Energy 3 in Singles & Dating

I think its wrong but have a friend whose fiance is doing it for his bucks night.

2007-02-18 16:25:44 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

Ok this is this girl tht is 22cm taller than me but i like her but there is this MEXICAN DUDE who she likes but she is serbian and that dude is 12cm smaller than her.i am costa rican/italian and his dad is the school janitor and tht mexican kid always makes fun of me.HELP ME 2 win this GIRL PLEASE!

2007-02-18 16:24:45 · 16 answers · asked by bmendez0428 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-18 16:24:06 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What to do when my fincee` wont have sex with me until we get married, but we live together?

2007-02-18 16:23:54 · 8 answers · asked by Van 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My bf and I have been arguing a lot lately. I keep catching him in lies and we havent been getting along too well. His work is slow so he hasnt been contributing financially to the house. However he is doing a lot of home improvements. Last night we got into an argument and I told him to stay across the room from me because I was afraid of him. He has been showing signs of violence, grabbing my arm and pulling me down the stairs, preventing my from leaving by blocking the door, pushing me, talking bad, mimiking me, belittling me etc. Well during the argument which was about him lieing to me again he ran at me and I ran into the next room. I told him to back off or I was going to call the police. He said go ahead and call and had me against the wall and was screaming at me. He didnt hit me but I was afraid and called 911, but hung up b4 they answered. They sent an officer anyway. He didnt get arrested, now blames me. Was I wrong, did I overreact? He thinks I was totally wrong

2007-02-18 16:22:53 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

i love him,i never done anything with my other bf for 17 n a half years till i met him,but i hate where i live,i want to move back with my family thats ten states away,but i dont wanna lose him.what can i do?

2007-02-18 16:22:46 · 2 answers · asked by tisha k 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Whats something seductive/sexy that your boyfriend/girlfriend/ex's/hookups have done.

2007-02-18 16:22:12 · 1 answers · asked by I love you 2 in Singles & Dating

Ladies, what physical aspect of a guy are you most attracted too?
just wondering. feel free to name more than one if neccesary

2007-02-18 16:21:58 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Well, me and my fiance broke up almost 3 weeks ago and he moved 2000 miles away and I'm pregnant. I thought we might get back together and tonight he calls and everything was ok...then I asked him if he was dating anyone and he said it doesn't matter...but he asked me first. Then I told him something mean..That he doesn't deserve his baby and he went off..Saying all kind of mean ****..Then he said that we will NEVER get back together and he will always be atleast 1000 miles away from me..This relationship was 7 years and he said he was happy until Dec 31st. He said I complained about my engaged ring which he didn't even pick out...anyhow..I am very lost. I know I should throw the towel in and he says he loves me. His daddy talked him into moving up there for a job and he has no family down here. He just contradicts himself. Should I just give him space and not pick up his calls for awhile? To see what he is missing..

2007-02-18 16:21:53 · 7 answers · asked by angelsdeath420 2 in Marriage & Divorce