i have been with my bf for a few months now, before that we were friends. he is incredibly good to me, always trying to please me, etc. some of the things he finds acceptable or talks about are really not ok by me. also, although i'm attracted to him, its never been overwhelming attraction. no, sparks or absolute urge to kiss him, etc. but he likes me a lot and makes such an effort. what do you think?
2007-02-18 16:34:17 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yeah you should probably break up with him.. there are so many other people out there for you to meet and you should wait to find a person who you're greatly attracted to where the love is "magical" in a sense, everything just clicks. you don't want his attraction to grow deeper either, and lead him on..he'll really be hurt if you decide to end things at a later point.
2007-02-18 16:38:14 · answer #1 · answered by liliaceae_aletris 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sparks don't always fly for the right reasons. When i was in high school i dated this guy and he was a bit of a bad boy i guess and i think that was more exciting than him. I think i liked the fact that he was a bad boy. Actually i went out with two similar guys and had sparks with both but it turned out that 1 cheated on me and the other threw a shoe at me. I am now married to a man that i knew liked me for ages but i had no physically attraction to him in the beginning but now i absolutely adore him and the best thing is he is my best friend too.
2007-02-19 00:43:51 · answer #2 · answered by Kellie M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are questioning a relationship, most likely it needs to end before you waste anymore time. Also, treating someone nicely is not a special treat, it is customary. So, dont feel you have to stay in a relationship because of it. And finally, a good relationship isnt always fireworks and passion! That is not real!
2007-02-19 00:40:40 · answer #3 · answered by TwinkaTee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not all love comes with fireworks. If there's something you disagrre with him over, talk about it with him til you reach a compromise, or if that's not possible, decide how important the issue is. If it's really important for you to have you way on it, that's the time to concider parting company.
2007-02-19 00:39:46 · answer #4 · answered by nursesr4evr 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont lead him on! Just because he likes you a lot doesn't mean you have to pretend to like ___________ because you dont have to go in to boyfriend pressure but if you do have feelings stay but if you dont move on. Love Miley Cyrus
2007-02-19 00:39:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I AM VERY SURPRISED THAT U ARE EVEN ASKING FOR PEOPLE TO ANSWER THIS QUESTION FOR U. U KNOW THE ANSWER. WHAT U ARE ARE ASKING FOR IS NOT ANSWERS, BUT VALIDATION. STOP USING THE POOR GUY, AND DO THE RIGHT THING. DO U FEEL VALIDATED NOW.
2007-02-19 00:46:37 · answer #6 · answered by goldlottodreams 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go for it :D if you are attracted to him, just try him out. who knows?
2007-02-19 00:37:58 · answer #7 · answered by sayy whattt 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you really think that about our relationship?
2007-02-19 00:40:08 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋