Ok this is this girl tht is 22cm taller than me but i like her but there is this MEXICAN DUDE who she likes but she is serbian and that dude is 12cm smaller than her.i am costa rican/italian and his dad is the school janitor and tht mexican kid always makes fun of me.HELP ME 2 win this GIRL PLEASE!
2007-02-18 16:24:45 · 16 answers · asked by bmendez0428 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I AM ALSO SWEET 2 her!
2007-02-18 16:30:45 · update #1
and THIS IS THE ONLY HOT GIRL IVE EVER MTET IN MY LIFE
2007-02-18 16:32:22 · update #2
I know a lot of her favorite things.
2007-02-18 16:36:22 · update #3
I see what your saying. He is an annoying Mexican whose parents make no money, makes fun of you for no reason, and should go back to Mexico. Then you need to look at his story too. He has escaped poverty and harsh conditions from Mexico, his dad makes hardly any money, and he makes fun of you to make his situation not seem as bad.
Just start talking to the girl some. Don't rush things or the girl will just think you are desparate. learn more about the girl:what kind of sports she plays, what kind of food she eats, who she hangs out with, what movies/T.V. shows she likes. That stuff doesn't seem important but it is. If you ever make it anywhere with her and want to go out on a date. you could take her to see her favorite movie and out to eat at her favorite resturant. Get it. You can use it in your favor. Relationships take time. Just try to make her mad at the Mexican dude but don't get caught.
2007-02-18 16:34:47 · answer #1 · answered by tennisluver90 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Step 0, ignore the other guy completely.
Step one- confidence. If you don't have it, fake it.
Step two- talk to her, like they advised. Smile confidently, speak as strongly as you can (but not loudly, like you have hearing problems). Sit up straight. Try to find a common interest. She has a Harry Potter folder for example. Ask her if she thinks Snape is evil. Joke around.
-don't ever dog yourself. Don't complain. Some high school boys come off as kicked dogs who are unloved by the world and they hate it back. Avoid this.
-integrity, intelligence, and respect are key in the long run.
Most importantly, after you have established contact in this way, FLIPPIN GO FOR IT. You would be surprised how many gorgeous girls are lonely and often single just because there are no guys who will actually risk rejection. These girls often wonder what is wrong with them. I promise, if you ask out ten girls at your school, at least half will say yes, unless you weigh 600 pounds or have three heads or if you are creepy. DON'T be creepy. Ever.
Casually ask her if there are any movies in the theatres that are good right now. Lead the convo so that she says something like, "I really want to see Dreamgirls" (hopefully she says "Children of Men" or "Borat", but at this point, take what you can get). Say, well, what are you doing Friday, Can I take you to see it?
If she says no, say, "Worth a shot" and smile.
Stay away from her for about two-three weeks. If she talks to you, talk back, don't look sad. When you see her, smile at her. Give her space to miss you. Then try again. If you are rejected a second time, once she has had time to think about it, you are SOL man. Find another girl.
If you are accepted on the date either on the first or second time you ask, congratulations. The first date is the time to show the side of you that is interested in her. Ask her questions, prompt her to yak about herself, listen. Don't try for anything physical on the first date. Let her know you had a great time. Call her within the next two days.
2007-02-18 16:30:26 · answer #2 · answered by Mrs. Eric Cartman 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just ignore the bastard and then talk to the girl buy her stuff and then ask her if she wants to go shopping girls love shopping thats how i meet girls "hey i got u sum chocolates oh by the way do you want to go shopping at the mall the first time she can bring a friend but if she really likes the other guy ur screwed
2007-02-18 16:30:05 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
what does him being mexican and his dad being the janito have to do with anything? if i were her id go out with the other guy because you seem extremely insensitive and superficial. grow up and maybe she'll start to like you.
2007-02-18 16:37:22 · answer #4 · answered by b2k4ever08 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
show her how good of a person you are and let her know you would treat her right and that you want her. Be assertive, girls like that. and the height doesnt mater that much to her i wouldnt think
2007-02-18 16:29:49 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask her out! treat her well, be more than what you are to her now! dont harass her to much , let her know you the best thing in the world, give her a gift just for giving sake
2007-02-18 16:27:44 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dear want to win the girl,
be honest and sweet and kind to this girl and if she can see that great guy out of you forget her because shes losing something very special love miley cyrus
2007-02-18 16:29:09 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Poetry, man. The way to a woman's heart is poetry, a sense of humor, and flowers.
2007-02-18 16:27:30 · answer #8 · answered by scp98k 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to call Howard Stern, he apparently knows how to solve that problem.
2007-02-18 16:28:26 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
DONT make too much fun of him in front of her...she wont like that..it's turn off. just be sweet and let her know you like her.
2007-02-18 16:28:54 · answer #10 · answered by Love Doctor 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋