Who agrees that it is wrong to go to a brothel for a bucks night?

Question

I think its wrong but have a friend whose fiance is doing it for his bucks night.

Answer 1

Your friend is marrying a cheater. Plain and simple.

Answer 2

Of course it is wrong if he has sexual intercourse with someone other than the person he is about to marry...!

However, if he was going to see a strip show or something, and not participate in seuxal activity, then I think it is something to be discussed and decided on by both parties.

If his fiancee is comfortable with him looking at other women, and confident that just because he looks doesn't mean he is cheating on her, then it's ok. Going any further would be harder to justify, and any serious interaction with another girl would indeniably be cheating, and therefore wrong.

Essentially, I don't think there is anything wrong with him indulging in something he might not otherwise feel comfortable to do once he is married, but there has to be a clear line between what is acceptable and what is not. Going to a brothel specifically for sex is NOT acceptable, and I don't understand how a man who really loves his partner would even want to do that...

Em

Answer 3

no longer something incorrect with Brothels to me. It regrettably would do little to renounce the intercourse commerce, prostitutes can nevertheless be on the line. the version is that highway prostitutes would value much less then the brothel, in basic terms way for them to make money nevertheless. i does not plan to apply the provider of any prostitute, yet a minimum of a brothel may be safer. The benefit a brothel has is they're in a position to be regulated besides. that would contain making the prostitutes be examined. difficulty is that persons will consistently insist on using the regulations on morality. nicely outlawing a brothel does not provide up prostitution. Legalizing it does not reason problems with morality the two. the folk who're going to cheat on their companion(considering human beings will argue family individuals values so some distance because it no longer being victimless to legalize) are going to do it no count number what. they're going to create far greater sufferers via no longer having a brothel to bypass to. they are going to be far greater possibly to p.c.. up a affliction and bypass it to their companion. no count number if or no longer they bypass to a highway whore or bypass p.c.. some female up in a bar for a one evening stand. they're going to cheat one way or yet another.

Answer 4

oh my gosh!! who does that?
That guy is not only having sex with a stranger he is also effecting his 'to be wife's health' if something goes wrong with the protection! that is the worst idea of a bucks night i have ever heard.. a stripper yeah ok.. but a brothel!!!

i think you should really tell your friend, this will effect her in the end too.. and what is something happened!!

good luck!

Answer 5

Bad things can happen. Trust me. I woke up five days later in a whore house in India with an albino midget name Rosie telling me I was her boy toy. By the time I got back into the United States, my wedding had been cancelled and my fiancee eloped to Vegas with my best friend. Bad things, oh, so bad. I won't even tell you what Rosie had tattooed on my butt.

Answer 6

Yes its wrong, because what they going to do there..just look at the non-single guys having sex?? Ask the fiance that question, then try to convince him to get a stripper instead, or go to a strip club.

Answer 7

That's awful. I'm cool with a strip club and even maybe a lap dance, but a brothel?! That's awful. He shouldn't even think of having sex with someone else right before he gets married.

Answer 8

Once a couple becomes exclusive, well the term is self-explanatory. And when a proposal is offered & accepted you become betrothed; you just wait for the legalities with the wedding.

So any other activity such a this, is cheating.

Answer 9

I don't know what a "Bucks Night" is, but if it's anything like a bachelor party, it is wrong.
Having sex in a brothel is still cheating.
If the party-goer is not previously attached to someone, it is perfectly alright.

Answer 10

I would spit chips if it were my fiance. At my husbands bucks he refused to sit for the stripper and sent the youngest guy there to take his place.

How disrespectful!

Answer 11

Let me tell you something. In some states that is immediate grounds for divorce. And yes I think it is wrong what your friend is doing. If he were my fiancee I would drop him like a hot potato.