sometimes i think that marriage wasnt that important. i just wanted to have a baby someday coz the way i look at it, marriage was just a waste."i love you,will u marry me?then say a big yes!after couple of years,"i want divorce!".might as well be a single parent than seeing yourself like that!
2007-02-18 16:32:08 · 15 answers · asked by mitchy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I'm not pointing a finger at you, but your way of thinking is why there is no family structure today, why children run amok, why values and morals are so low. Marriage is a contract between two people, it provides security, and strength among other things. I guess that it probably laughed at these days because marriage is looked at as a failing practice. However, if it is taken seriously it is a wonderful thing. A good marriage is built on a good relationship and provides a good environment to raise children and install good values.
2007-02-18 16:51:01 · answer #1 · answered by jwplaster 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
For some people marriage is still important, it is important to me, I have a loving and wonderful husband that I know in a couple of years wont be asking for a divorce. Marriage isn't something to rush into, neither is having a child by yourself, it is hard and you wont have any life. My husband and I personally don't plan on having kids. But again to each their own, you will find someone that you want to spend your life with, be it married or just together.
2007-02-18 16:39:46 · answer #2 · answered by Hawaiisweetie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's not how it is with some marriages. So you can't compare what you have seen with what you have not seen in a marriage.
If the two are really committed, loving, respectful, appreciative with one another, and are willing to work out their problems when they arrive, then those are the ones that stay married for a long time. They are not the ones who will run away from their problems, they will do what it takes to fix the problems.
2007-02-18 16:39:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a single parent I can tell you it is no picnic. I adore my son and wouldn't change a thing, but it is NOT remotely easy. I think love and marriage are worth the chance which is why I am marrying my fiance this May.
Not all marriages end in divorce.
2007-02-18 22:35:34 · answer #4 · answered by kalea_kane 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe in marriage, but I also believe in not marrying, The thing about marrying and divorcing is that people get married with the idea that if it doesn't work, well I just get divorce, so they are not really taking it seriously. Nobody said marriage was easy but you really have to believe in it if you want to make it work.
2007-02-18 16:39:40 · answer #5 · answered by cristi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
After doing a study on the institute of marriage i was never getting married then i met someone and here i am married with 2 kids and talking about having another. At times i think what the hell but its worth it.
2007-02-18 16:36:17 · answer #6 · answered by B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Too true! The wedding was fun but real life settles in and if you're a woman like me, you pretty much are a single parent, to both your child and your husband. I guess the bonus to having been married and then divorcing is you get half of everything plus child support!
2007-02-18 19:18:52 · answer #7 · answered by meh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dedication is needed, as is having adequate people to look after the economic and emotional desires of the infants. Marriage was once the thank you to assure the dedication of the father, yet i don't think of it quite is any extra actual. some women persons locate themselves helping not purely their infants yet in addition their father. Marriage isn't a magic spell that turns them into in charge people. on an identical time as many adult males are sturdy husbands or fathers, there are some who could nicely be a damaging ingredient in the lives of their infants -- people who're on drugs, are alcoholic, have criminal inclinations, etc. In those situations the mummy and infants could be extra useful off on my own, with any luck getting help from kin unit.
2016-12-17 13:30:02 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Marriage is a way to show your love, some people aren't ready, those are the people getting divorces.. If you feel you are ready and you have found 'the one' then marriage is probably a good answer, it shows your partner that you really love him/her and you want to spend your entire life with him/her... Trust me, most people are not ready.
2007-02-18 16:36:00 · answer #9 · answered by felipe l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Marriage is a commitment. It has nothing to do with love, but love does help make it more palatable....even fun. Marriage has rules. Without the rules it has the potential to fail. Commit to the rules to love and respect each other is important to me. I love my spouse so much, that I dare to say.....Yes I will obey the rules of marriage...because you are important to me.
YES Marriage is important to me.
2007-02-18 16:49:07 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋