Family & Relationships - 18 February 2007

So it seems as if girls like "bad boys" more than "good boys". Reasons cited were:

1. Bad boys are more of a thrill; good boys are boring
2. Bad boys make girls feel dangerous and safe at the same time
3. Bad boys show lots of confidence, while good boys do not necessarily show as much
4. Bad boys know how to "use their tools" in bed

Anything I missed?

Anyway, I consider myself a good boy and want to know how I can make myself as appealing as bad boys. How do I give girls thrills and make them feel dangerous? How to I show enough confidence for them to be happy? How do I use my tools in bed to make them happy?

2007-02-18 16:06:59 · 13 answers · asked by Steady As She Goes 2 in Singles & Dating

I was dating with a guy for 3 months and i moved to another city because of my job, i am pregnant now i knew it after i moved down, i let him know that im pregnant and he said he is truely loves me and really want to marry me.. but i don't know he really love me or just because im pregnant and he just feels responsible for the baby, how do i know that he said the truth or not?He said that he made a mistake before and he don't want to make the same mistake again

2007-02-18 16:06:39 · 10 answers · asked by missicha1986 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-18 16:06:18 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

when ever i break up with a girl they all think it is because there is another girl, when most of the time it isnt true.

2007-02-18 16:06:08 · 1 answers · asked by me! 1 in Singles & Dating

i met him last nite it was out 2nd meeting. i was wearing royal blue wearing a light pink lipstick shade, but he didnt gave any compliments, but as soon as he reached home after dropping me he called like always:) does this means he likes me?? or not??

2007-02-18 16:05:42 · 6 answers · asked by Ashiii 1 in Singles & Dating

lot but lately I'm starting to worry about him, like maybe he has a drinking problem or something. Could my friend be an alcoholic?

2007-02-18 16:04:51 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-02-18 16:04:39 · 8 answers · asked by will d 1 in Singles & Dating

Okey people, I am in desperate need of help, from anyone, gals or guys! Anybody just please tell me what to do. I will tell you the story.My husband of 2 years, is in the army, and is currently deployed tp Iraq for the 4th time.I used to live in Europe during his previous deployments so we've never really lived together untill last year when i moved to the states to be with him, shortly after we moved into our house. He deployed again and i was left alone.
With having to live with my parents and family back home in Europe before, I never really realized how much a deployment changes a person untill you have to "make it on your own" as i am doing now. My problem is,I'm just not sure of how i am gonna tell my husband that this deployment is more different from the previous ones,I have grown,and is just a totally different person.
After every deployment, he wants to get back into his daily life asap, and sex is always rushed. How do i tell him things arent the same & i wanna wait w/ sex?

2007-02-18 16:03:29 · 25 answers · asked by Mizz_couture 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Ladies... what is it that a guy does, or what is it about a guy, that induces you to say "I like you as a friend," "You're like a brother to me," "I don't think of you in that way," and other such atrocities?

This is like my fourth straight "let's just be friends." It's gotta stop.

I'm good looking. that's not it.

Any insights would be appreciated from the bottom of my heart. And other places.

2007-02-18 16:03:28 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm in love with this guy who wants different things than me. I don't wanna complicate it more by becoming sex buddies so I try and seperate so .....now what?

2007-02-18 16:03:10 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Have you ever liked someone but weren't sure if you really like him/her. Well if you have please give me some advice. I mean I am not sure if i like this guy or this other guy it is like forrbidden love cuz the one guy I like likes me but his brother is getting married to my sis and i also like this other guy but i think he might like this other girl. my friend says it is to get me jealous. but i might not like him so who do I pick Skyler or Gabe who should i chose

2007-02-18 16:03:08 · 8 answers · asked by Jesus_Roxs247 1 in Friends

How many of you fantasize about having a woman tie you up and be her s*x sl*ve for the night? How many of you have actually done it before?

2007-02-18 16:02:37 · 9 answers · asked by sexyladyinak 3 in Marriage & Divorce

have this guy..who flirts with me but he never really made an actual move, I know for a fact that he's an insecure guy.. there was one instance where he told me to call him if I ever wanted to hang out or go to a movie.. and there was another time where he asked me WHO I spent my holidays with, and on top of that he's always questioning me about how come I'm always leaving when he comes and talk to me... so I thought well he told me to call him if i ever wanted to hang out..so I made the first move and asked him to hang out.He told me that he would like to but it would have to be in a couple of weeks because he is broke....But we haven't really connected and it's been about a week ago..would you say he's interested even though he hasn't called

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He actually came to me and said I would like to get to know you..and he told me to call him If I ever wanted to hang out..and he said he had been putting out hints but I never picked up on em

2007-02-18 16:02:31 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

do you mthink my ex still likes me and told my boyfriend to break up with so he can go out with me?

2007-02-18 16:02:04 · 10 answers · asked by Ashley M 1 in Singles & Dating

we r 8 months married and i was wearing that sexy black corset set with makep up and candles everywhere when eh saw we he said oow u look nice then he gave me his back went to the kitchen AND PREPARED DINNER for him !!!!!!!! he is a good husband we love eachother BUT WHY he did this !!!!!!!!!!!!!!! WHY WHY WHY i wanna know im so disappointed, i changed my clothes and went to sleep.

2007-02-18 16:02:02 · 18 answers · asked by mimi ^____^ 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-02-18 16:01:21 · 2 answers · asked by KID87 1 in Singles & Dating

I told him as a joke on the instant messenger
"many pretty people are mean"
and he replied
"yes exactly like you"
does this indicate that he may like me as more than friend?
or was it just a joke?

Thanksss for your help!

2007-02-18 16:01:13 · 1 answers · asked by Hummus! 1 in Singles & Dating

ok here you will see a cake stand that i love!! i was wondering do any of you know where i can find a cake stand like this?
http://www.brides.com/weddingstyle/receptions/gallery/7991/detail/8008/
here's another one like it
http://www.brides.com/weddingstyle/receptions/gallery/7991/detail/8009/
and another one
http://www.brides.com/weddingstyle/receptions/gallery/7991/detail/8010/
if you can please let me know where i can find one my wedding is in september of this year.

2007-02-18 16:01:10 · 4 answers · asked by vanessa h 2 in Weddings

Ok so the place where i am having my wedding wont let us throw rice or rose petals... what are so other creative ideas that we can do....?

2007-02-18 16:00:46 · 26 answers · asked by Kellie 1 in Weddings

there is this cute guy i like. he looks at me a lot and i love that =D. and there is this girl that looks at me when he is looking at me. then looks at him and tries to talk to him. does she like him too?
he doesnt look at her.

2007-02-18 16:00:05 · 2 answers · asked by Female 4 in Singles & Dating

I've been dating my boyfriend for almost three years now. He shares an apartment with his brother and every time I go over I see his brother, have conversations with him and he's flirted with me. Spending so much time with him is causing me to develop feelings for him. I feel horrible. I don't know what to do. Should I keep shut about it and wait until my feelings dissappear or be honest with the both of them? I love my boyfriend very much but his brother and I have so much in common. I really don't know what to do. Some advice would be greatly appreciated.

2007-02-18 15:59:09 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I am a new Father with 2 small baby girls and I am so scared to death of sexual predators out there wanting to harm little girls.
I want to be well prepared for the potential negative influences that my girls will encounter as they grow older.

Is private school a good choice for education? I don't know because I am new at this and I want the resources for my kids upbringing. I don't want my wife to work. I want her to give the girls the attention that they need.

Does anyone have any good pointers?
Am I being over protective?

I am like this because what I read in the news about children.

2007-02-18 15:59:08 · 10 answers · asked by Big P 5 in Family

I loved him for so long. But he never loved me in the same way. He spent all the time trying to make me hate him because he didnt want to hurt me anymore. He liked me...and loved me. But not as much. He got high. And yelled at me. And all I ever did was love him and all he ever did was yell at me treat me like crap and hurt me. Now theres a part of me that still loves him a little bit but I want to hate him so bad. He promised he would never hurt me again...and I told him I wont believe it until he proves me its true. Im trying to be strong...and I never thought I would say "I dont love you anymore" and "I hate you" to him. Both very strong statements...but Im too afraid of being hurt anymore. He tells me he loves me but not as much. He tells me he likes me, but if we dated it would only hurt me more. How do I stick to this until he proves to me he can change and wont hurt me anymore? I've always been weak, and said "Oh its ok, I probably deserved it." the second he said sorry to me.

2007-02-18 15:58:17 · 3 answers · asked by santacruz_soccer_chik 2 in Singles & Dating

this girl said she likes me but she is always hugging this guy. do you think she is playing me or is he just really good friend?

if he is just a good friend how can i ask her to stop huggin him and stuff soo much?

2007-02-18 15:57:50 · 4 answers · asked by me! 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok, theres a girl I really like but I can't ever find time to talk to her, and when I do, I don't really know what to say. And I know alot of other guys like her too. Just wonderin what you think.

2007-02-18 15:57:44 · 11 answers · asked by dark_sage08 2 in Singles & Dating

I have known him for 5 months and he has had a crush on me and he asked me out. But in the past week he has been acting different but he still likes me or that is what he tells his best friend. He has hugged me and I want to kiss him should I ???????

2007-02-18 15:57:38 · 18 answers · asked by Emma R 1 in Singles & Dating

HI MY NAME IS CHARLENE RODNEY MASSEY IAM A LESBIANS I LIKE DATE GIRLS THAT ARE FUN AND FUNNY TO AND NICE AND SWEET TO

2007-02-18 15:57:32 · 6 answers · asked by charlenemassey2003 1 in Singles & Dating

My husband and I were seperated becuase of his controlling behavior and lack of intimacy. I finally came back with our 2 kids. I found out, after being there 2 months, that he was talking about having sex with another woman and trying to set up dates. He initiated the contact and sex. (He emailed several women). I contacted her, she says they never met. He insists it wasn't real and that it was just fantasy. he liked the word play. I complimented him, begged for new positions and intimacy. I loved him! and he lied. He said it was becuase he was lonely and that I didn't come to him for months. He didn't get help for his anger issues. He never called, he never came to see us and our new baby. I couldn't come if I didn't feel safe. Once I did come with our 2 kids, he was still doing it.
Help.

2007-02-18 15:57:11 · 12 answers · asked by Cheree S 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-02-18 15:57:11 · 5 answers · asked by kobe 1 in Singles & Dating

I need a good excuss fo stealing 140 from ma dad because he iz going 2 find out sooner or later and I feel bad cause u know tatz ma dad and I already spented the money soo wat a good excuss??

2007-02-18 15:56:45 · 4 answers · asked by Mad boy 1 in Singles & Dating