Brokenhearted alwaiz and foeva?

Question

I loved him for so long. But he never loved me in the same way. He spent all the time trying to make me hate him because he didnt want to hurt me anymore. He liked me...and loved me. But not as much. He got high. And yelled at me. And all I ever did was love him and all he ever did was yell at me treat me like crap and hurt me. Now theres a part of me that still loves him a little bit but I want to hate him so bad. He promised he would never hurt me again...and I told him I wont believe it until he proves me its true. Im trying to be strong...and I never thought I would say "I dont love you anymore" and "I hate you" to him. Both very strong statements...but Im too afraid of being hurt anymore. He tells me he loves me but not as much. He tells me he likes me, but if we dated it would only hurt me more. How do I stick to this until he proves to me he can change and wont hurt me anymore? I've always been weak, and said "Oh its ok, I probably deserved it." the second he said sorry to me.

AJ (2/18/2007 6:44:18 PM): tay im sorry i hurt u, u know im sorry i never meant to hurt u or anything close to it i love you and care about you im just not in love with you like you want me to be and im orry that i cant but i dont want to loose you tay your too important to me, i dont want u mad at me even though you have every right. i just want u to know im alwase here for you, even if im horribal at it. i swear on my life im trying to change for the better, i cant flip a switch it takes some time to change how a person is i hope you'll still be around when i actualy do change for you, if you can just hold on untill i do i promis it will be okTaylor Renee (2/18/2007 6:47:36 PM): ok....well as much as it hurts me to do and say this...its gonna take me a long time to forgive u again. ur gonna have to prove to me this aint like no other tim wen u say sry and then 20 seconds later ur the same aj that hurts me with every other word.
AJ (2/18/2007 6:48:01 PM): then dont forgive me

...its your choice
AJ (2/18/2007 6:48:12 PM): im supirsed anyone i know still talks to me cuz im such an ***
AJ (2/18/2007 6:49:22 PM): im sorry i didnt mean to say that see wat i mean im trying im gonna try for u tay i want u to forgive me and im gonan workf ro it
AJ (2/18/2007 6:51:57 PM): all i want is one more chance to make things right
Taylor Renee (2/18/2007 6:56:44 PM): ...u get one more chance thats it, and im not trusting ut till u prove to me that i can trust u, and im not forgiving u fully till u give me a reason to
AJ (2/18/2007 6:58:28 PM): i respect that and im gonna work for ure trust and im sorry again tay im trying to change and im gonna and im never gonna hurt u again

did i do the right thing?

WE ARENT DATING

Answer 1

you have to go with your heart. people can change if they want, it just takes time. so don't expect it to happen over night. if he needs space to get through this then give it to him, but don't be a doormat. i hope this works out for you. good luck.

Answer 2

NOPE!!!!!!
HE DOES NOT DESERVE ANOTHER CHANCE AND DONT BLAME YOURSELF GIRL CAUSE YOU DIDNT DO ANYTHING WRONG. YOU SHOULD NOT BE TREATED THAT WAY, YOU SOUND LIKE A SWEET GIRL AND YOU HAVE A GREAT HEART AND A HEART LIKE THAT SHOULD NOT BE GIVIN TO SCUM BAG LIKE HIM, I THINK HES JUST USING YOU BUT YOU CAN CHANGE THAT BY JUST LEAVING HIM THERE ARE WAY BETTER MEN OUT THERE FOR YOU:) BE STRONG AND DONT THINK THAT ITS ALWAYS YOUR FAULT STAND UP TO THIS MORON AND TELL HIM NO!!!!!!!!!!!!! AND SAY THOSE STRONG STATEMENTS TO HIM CAUSE THATS ALL HE DESERVES AND YOU DESERVE BETTER. I HATE IT WHEN MEN HURT WOMEN LIKE THAT, MEN LIKE THAT DONT DESERVE WOMEN THEY DESERVE MEN LOL BE CAREFUL TOO CAUSE IT SOUNDS LIKE HE CAN BE KINDA VIOLENT. SO YEAH LEAVE HIM HES A DOUCHE. GOOD LUCK.

Answer 3

Leave him. Why make yourself horrible.