I've been dating my boyfriend for almost three years now. He shares an apartment with his brother and every time I go over I see his brother, have conversations with him and he's flirted with me. Spending so much time with him is causing me to develop feelings for him. I feel horrible. I don't know what to do. Should I keep shut about it and wait until my feelings dissappear or be honest with the both of them? I love my boyfriend very much but his brother and I have so much in common. I really don't know what to do. Some advice would be greatly appreciated.
2007-02-18 15:59:09 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
im in the same thing your in right now but my boyfriend brother is dating some who is a a** any ways i dont really talk to him and stuff but i just brush it off most of the time... his brother once has said to my bf if you ever dump your gf (me) can i date her my heart was like yes for a few seconds when my bf told me that any ways.....
to answer your question...... think to yourself what is more important flirting and see may if its possable to date him or being with your boyfriend of about 3 yrs...
2007-02-18 16:09:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i tell you if you loves your boyfriend you should stay with him is brother should not get in a way but do not want to beak up with the boyfriend for there bother because the boyfriend will hate his brother for it and tell the brother stop flirted with you tell him you and him could only friend that what i did and today we the best of friend
2007-02-19 00:10:27 · answer #2 · answered by piglet91 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep it in the friendship level. But it sounds to me like you both have things in common than your boyfriend.
2007-02-19 00:03:26 · answer #3 · answered by LIZA 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to stay away from the brother!! if you love your bf..then you should do this for him..you need to make a choice..and dont be selfish..think of ur bf's feelings too..
2007-02-19 00:03:23 · answer #4 · answered by prettylilady05 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
aw..... poor thing i am so so sorry that must be hard. I've liked a guy then started liking his older brother just because he would talk more but the younger one would stare at me so i guess i started liking him again. lol. well i cant help . maybe you shouldn't tell them yet but if it gets worse then yes please tell your boy friend.
2007-02-19 00:08:00 · answer #5 · answered by Female 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well think about this if you stay with your boyfriend will you still be happy with him or will you still develop feelings with his brother
2007-02-19 00:04:53 · answer #6 · answered by Ashley M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
an interesting threesome could in the future for you.
2007-02-19 00:41:28 · answer #7 · answered by dirtyoldman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋