I was dating with a guy for 3 months and i moved to another city because of my job, i am pregnant now i knew it after i moved down, i let him know that im pregnant and he said he is truely loves me and really want to marry me.. but i don't know he really love me or just because im pregnant and he just feels responsible for the baby, how do i know that he said the truth or not?He said that he made a mistake before and he don't want to make the same mistake again
2007-02-18 16:06:39 · 10 answers · asked by missicha1986 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Girl, don't raise a kid by yourself if he's willing to come along for the ride. If he says he loves you, I think he means it; most guys would say, "It ain't mine!" if they weren't ready/willing to do it, y'know?
2007-02-18 16:10:40 · answer #1 · answered by knight2001us 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, if you guys had any intention of carrying the relationship thru after the move then i might be inclined to believe he truly feels for you.However if there was no intention of having any further intimacy after you moved then the question is pretty self explanatory.
I think you really need to take it in your stride and make a conscious effort to both sit down and have a serious chat and then decide. You are the only one who knows how he reacts to all thing when it come to matters of the heart. And, well if he's willing to make a go of it, give him a chance and time will only tell. Just make sure you give it your all that way you can say there's no regrets. Congratulations, and take good care of yourself and bubs.
2007-02-19 00:20:29 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only way to know is to find out. Let him prove himself to you. Honestly when your pregnant your emotions get the best of you. Fear goes into over drive. It's one of those little gifts nature gives a woman to protect her child. Why would you think his words are untrue? What did he do during your relationship that makes you believe now that he can't love you? I do think it's strange for him to want to marry you after only 3mos. Give him a chance to make his statements facts. You don't have to marry before the baby is born. If you are meant to marry it can wait until after you give birth. By this time you both will know where your relationship stands. No matter what you choose he is going to be in your life. Why not give him a chance to be a full time part of it?
2007-02-19 00:23:36 · answer #3 · answered by quel772o 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depending on past expernces if you guys fought alot or not did you get along alot or was there another ***** involved or anything like that. also depending on when you were leaving what he said how did he respond was he sad or happy. also depending on the mistake he made. but i bet he truely loves you not just cause to baby and if he doesnt if you guys hook back up then leave his *** do not stay togather if you guys get miserable cause of the kid thats the dumb reason and one last thing dont get married for at least a year there you can tell if he truely loves u well i dotn think all wat i wrote helped you lol
2007-02-19 00:13:19 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him a chance, dont jump into marriage but date again and see if you like him. It is worth a try for your baby- but if you dont work out then move on! It is possible to be good parents even if you are separated. I just hope he dosent let his past cloud his judgement. You both need to love eachother to get married but there's no harm in trying who knows you might fall in love. There was no love at first sight on my side of the marriage but he grew on me and now he is not only my husband but my best friend too.
2007-02-19 00:14:04 · answer #5 · answered by Kellie M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you will ever really know. How could you know because you are pregnant and he is saying now that he wants to marry you. It would be a different story if he had asked you to marry him before you were pregnant. Do you want to marry him? Please don't marry him if you don't love him. Don't do it because you are pregnant.
2007-02-19 00:10:41 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't marry him if you don't love him. He can have a role in the child's life without you marrying him.
2007-02-19 00:17:09 · answer #7 · answered by Felicity 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess, right now, you really DON'T know know for sure. But I would definately sit down and have a heart to heart talk with him about it.
2007-02-19 00:10:11 · answer #8 · answered by Nancy D 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He loves you ! And Congratulations on your son or daughter .
2007-02-19 00:11:51 · answer #9 · answered by Elaine814 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He was probably being truthful. n
2007-02-19 00:12:21 · answer #10 · answered by Nikki 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋