Awkward question about girls (probably best for girls to answer)?

Question

So it seems as if girls like "bad boys" more than "good boys". Reasons cited were:

1. Bad boys are more of a thrill; good boys are boring
2. Bad boys make girls feel dangerous and safe at the same time
3. Bad boys show lots of confidence, while good boys do not necessarily show as much
4. Bad boys know how to "use their tools" in bed

Anything I missed?

Anyway, I consider myself a good boy and want to know how I can make myself as appealing as bad boys. How do I give girls thrills and make them feel dangerous? How to I show enough confidence for them to be happy? How do I use my tools in bed to make them happy?

Answer 1

When you are with her, act like you feel you deserve her. Look her in the eyes and give her a slow smile. Be honest and never lie, and don't say you will do something you aren't really going to do. Be polite and treat her with kindness, but also act a little possessive, don't take it too far. In the bedroom, listen to her sounds and learn what means please keep doing that, because sometimes it is hard to say it. Some of us want a little he-man, but as a side dish, not as the main meal. It's icing on the cake. He's confident and strong, and can take care of me. (Doesn't mean I can't think for myself, or take care of myself).

Answer 2

It's true that most girls like bad boys this is because they show strength, are exciting but most of all manly. They act like they are unstoppable and are brute male strength which most girls love whether they will admit it or not. Bad boys flirt and aren't afraid to show that they find a girl attractive. Girls are drawn to thier confidence but this cant be all, they must also treat a girl with respect. How to give a girl thrills? make her feel desirable and be more spontanueos. E.g look into her eyes and smile show that your'e attracted without looking too desperate.

Answer 3

I don't know you, but with your asking this question...you seem perfectly fine. Don't try to become someone you're not. That will only destroy something you have (or will possibly have) once your true self is revealed. If the girls you deal with are telling you they like bad boys for all these reasons...then they'll eventually end up leaving these bad boys for the same reasons and come running along to you. They will then crave and appreciate that "good" boy because that bad boy will have treated them like a piece of meat. Once they've used them up...toss 'em out.

Answer 4

Not all of us girls are hung up on that bad boy image-----tried 'em and now would rather have the good boy instead....make us feel safe and happy and you will win our hearts----as for the tools----don't even worry about it-----on the job training is best---and if she doesn't know either you can learn together (makes it even better)---if you want to be appealing do a lot of smiling and by all means try to have s good sense of humor

Answer 5

How great those bad boys tools are when they are using them on some other girl cuz they are such badasses, or they are in prison. Go with those who are good, they are more loyal and trustworthy.

Answer 6

girls who like 'bad boys' are just in it for the thrills, once she gets bored she'll drop you like a hot-potato. if that' what you want, then i pity you. if you want a girl who is self confident, attractive, successful, etc you have to be those things as well. be sure of yourself & driven, know who you are, like where you're headed, and this type of woman will find you irrisistable.

Answer 7

As per your case history there is a possiblity for your hymen to get injured during the bike fall. But as it happened when you were 7 (young age) there is every possiblity that the injury should have got healed up well by now and the broken hymen should have got repaired with the cicatrix formed. However you may please get it verified now ( by yourself or with your mom) to clear all doubts. Generally in case of virgins with hymen intact the vagina hardly admits a little finger!

Answer 8

glad that the 'tool' question came last..
respect, lovely surprises, reliability...will always win eventually....forget the bed bit until you have wooed and won her!
and have a lot of fun along the way.....picnics (planned and prepared by you) ... you get the picture!
while waiting for HER - learn to cook!! do your own washing and ironing. plan great outings......
what have you always wanted to do???

Answer 9

You don't have to use your "tool" to make a girl happy. A woman loves to be appreciated, shown affection, given compliments, and maybe, just a little sexy talk would help. I would rather have a gentle, soft-spoken man anyday.

Answer 10

yeh i think thats about right. ummm make themfeel dangerous? doo sumthin dangerous with them =] show confidence buyy bein confident!!! and usee urr tool =]] if ya noe waht i mean.


best of luck. my wishes to ya.