you meet a guy who has a great personality; is tall, handsome,and is in his first year of having a decent paying job..........but has six children...........with four different women?!!!!!!!! what does that say about him in your opinion? he's not old but he's no spring chicken either.
2007-02-18 17:27:07 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
That says to me that I don't want to get involved with this guy...with six children from four different women he is either paying mega child support or not stepping up to the plate to do so which tells me he has no respect for his children and no sense of responsiblity. Looks, personality, job doesn't mean jack to me if he lacks integrity which this guy has totally none of.
2007-02-18 17:32:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all make sure u always use protection with him cuz hes a baby maker foe show...but on the other hand if the children are 3 yrs old or more than u might have an OK guy. u say hes not old so I'm guessing hes around 26-33 give or take some years...i think by this time he's grown out of his childish ways of messing with this and that female. right now hes at his prime and has plenty responsibilities honestly if hes a good man he would know better not bring himself any deeper into hardship. right now he should be focused on making that money and taking care of him and children. so my guess is to give him a chance for now and u see whether he has good things for him. if not find anotha cuz I KNOW 4 A FACT if u ever decide to marry this dude and he's still on B.S. with his babies n all that money he owes them u'll be paying for it in ur taxes.
2007-02-19 01:38:46 · answer #2 · answered by SEXCITAZ23 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He totally has commitment issues. He couldn't settle down with any of the four previous women. That's a red flag. He's in his first year of a decent job? He's probably fled his previous jobs in order not to pay child support. He'll probably end up quitting this job once the child support services tracks him down at this job. He is definately not stable. He's been women hopping and job hopping. He's nomadic. Why waste your time? You could do better.
2007-02-19 01:40:50 · answer #3 · answered by Pinkgal1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
better think if your planning to get involve with that guy although he can afford to have children because he has a decent job, but having them with 4 different women is different maybe he isnt ready for a seriour commitment or doesnt have a good relationship with women. Think it over girl!
2007-02-19 01:32:36 · answer #4 · answered by konfuzed_baby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not hold his past against him. You can't possibly know what his situation was at the time. Maybe he was in love and thought it would last, or maybe the women he was with were very careless. Don't judge a book by the cover.
2007-02-19 01:33:36 · answer #5 · answered by valerie_mantle 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in my opinion, it makes him seem like a manwhore. but the truth can be that he was once married to those women and they did him wrong and he left them. but if you really want to know about his past.... ask him. keep the opinions to yourself and don't dare judge him. leave that up to God.
2007-02-19 01:33:54 · answer #6 · answered by jordy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it says he's a manwhore who doesn't believe in condoms.
Maybe just be friends for awhile until you get to know him better, then decide if he's someone you want to be with seriously.
2007-02-19 01:30:12 · answer #7 · answered by Danielle 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well... um...6 children?? 4 women?? that is a lot, but i dont want to say what i am actually thinking.... =]
2007-02-19 01:31:10 · answer #8 · answered by lalalaa123 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he has some type of STD and had very good swimmers and no money due to all the child support!
2007-02-19 01:30:31 · answer #9 · answered by Lauren_Ann20 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
mmm... tells me he can't stay in a relationship long. Girl, you better think about this one.
2007-02-19 01:29:58 · answer #10 · answered by Sali 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋