My ex-gf wants to be friends straight away after leaving me for another guy. I mean I was heart-broken last month when she left me, I took it quite hard. Proberly means I loved her more but how can someone expect that and then tell me I am being arrogent because I am not phoning her??
2007-02-18 17:27:46 · 6 answers · asked by stephen b 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You don't owe her anything! She's the wrong one here, you're not. You might be right, you might've loved her more but you're better off without her. She'll cheat on this guy too, believe me. Ignore her. She wasn't mature enough to end her first relationship before she started another. She's the cheater here. You don't owe a cheater one little thing. You can be arrogant. If anyone is qualified to call you that, she sure is. Don't worry about what she tells you. She only wants to be friends to rub it in your face or keep you on the backburner in case her disgusting, illfated relationship doesn't work out. She already knows she's in a timebomb of a relationship and she wants to keep you around just in case. Tell her to go jump off a bridge and find a nice girl who respects you. You deserve that. Don't feel the need to explain this to her either. She doesn't deserve the breath you'll need to inhale to explain anything to her. Block her number and move on. You're so better off without her. She'll come crawling back and when she does, remind her that you don't date tramps anymore. Sorry to be harsh but I honestly hate it when women (using that word loosely!) do this crap to guys. You seem like a nice guy, I hope you find someone who respects & loves you. This girl ain't the one. She's way too self centered to love anyone but herself. What goes around comes around. She'll get hers in the end.
2007-02-18 17:35:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-09-29 07:44:02 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
similar case happened to me..except i'm in the role of the girl...so mayb my opinions would help you. I didn't leave my bf for another guy tho...not really....something happen between me and another guy ....i didn't want it too...but it happened because i was scared...so i didn't know wut to do and so it happened. and if ur thinking sex...then i'll tell you right now...it's not sex....but anyway...i broke up with my bf..i didn't want him to have to accept me after something like this happpened...but then...i was hoping that me and him could still be friends because...i've been with him for a year...i've relied on him for a year...everytime i feel sad or mad or happy...i run to him...he's more than a best friend to me...so now..if after this break up....you expect me to let go of everything...it's really hard...it's like leaving someone that you really care about...and plus...before we went out...we were good friends...so why is it that just because we have a relationship..and broke up..we can't return to wut we used to be? sure it might be really hard...you probably are really hurt...but she probably is too. who isn't hurt in a break up? but my bf...he still chose to not be my friend...and it's been 6 months...and i just feel as if...it's such a waste of a friendship. i know i did something wrong...but i didn't mean for it to happen. I mean..all the memories...all the care...all the efforts...all the happy times...where do u put it...after you don't become her friend? Why not be her friend..and accept the fact that things didnt' work out? Why not be her friend wen u were...before the relationship? If i knew that he would ignore me...after this relationship...i'd rather not have this relationship with him in the first place. I hope you understand...and hopefully..it'll make you reconsider about being her friend...
2007-02-18 17:43:18 · answer #3 · answered by 2Quinn 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Cut her loose. Women have the great power of manipulation and need to constantly reassure themselves that they have power over men (in relationship power). Show her the power is on your side of the court. Don't give that girl what she wants, you didn't get what you wanted. Ex's as friends are horrendous. Drop her and move on... it'll show her you're on to bigger and better things. She probably just wants to keep you as her runner-up. Don't talk to her ever again. It'll get you no where.
2007-02-18 17:35:25 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Boy, has she got some nerve. You are totally right, don't think nothing of it, the problem is her. If you are not in that place to be friends and she doesn't get that, then I say screw her (not literally :)
Just explain that youre not ready and that after what she did to you she cant expect to be friends right away. Just say what you feel and like I said, if she doesnt get it, screw her and move on. :) Peace.
2007-02-18 17:33:40 · answer #5 · answered by Jenny 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
go castrating that guy! she'll be back to u
2007-02-18 17:31:25 · answer #6 · answered by AlexTrungHuỳnh 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋