I got lucky two years ago & was able to create my own job. I have flex time, great bennies, great coworkers and managers and there is nothing about my job that I dislike except it is away from my family and HIM. I love going to work! However, the love of my life lives 1000 miles away and I wouldn't ask him to move to where I live cuz I don't want to live here forever anyway. We had dated 14 years ago, for 2.5 years but I dumped him at that time. Immature I was. I apologized to him and he has told me, as has his family, that he waited for me to come back. He said, "it has always been you and only you!" I want to be with him but wonder if I am being hasty and irresponsible giving up a possible career. Have others made a choice like this? I say just go because he will be with me forever and I know this! But I don't want to be irresponsible and not carry my own weight. Decisions, decisions! Help me... think this through!
2007-02-18 17:27:56 · 2 answers · asked by e_tbo 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
If he truly loves you he will compromise, or even move there to support your career.
You need to talk to him about it.
2007-02-18 17:33:11 · answer #1 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A good job is hard to find, but a good man/woman is even harder to find.
2007-02-18 17:34:51 · answer #2 · answered by your mom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋